My New Years Resolution

@jbear, I find it an interesting idea. The only concerns I would have would be about ejaculation or cleaning the pipes as one member named it. If you are not able to ejaculate by prostate stimulation I would consider a masturbation for that purpose once a week. Good luck and kindly keep us posted!

Hello @jbear Having recently completed the "No Ejaculation 21-Day Challenge" (see my blog) I certainly know how you feel. For me, this is combined with male chastity and my wife is my "keyholder". You may want to try the challenge; it isn't easy (I attempted it about three times before) but when you succeed, you will feel amazing! As far as ejaculations or "cleaning the pipes", the goal is a wet dream or auto-ejaculation and I have started with those as well. I continue to stimulate my prostate with a large (non-Aneros) plug about once a week. Good luck and keep posting your journey!

I'd be very interested in your experiences. When I tried abstaining from ejaculation while having a session every three days after little more than a week I was surprised by an intense burning sensation in my groin soon followed by a spontaneous and completely uncontrollable ejaculation. I'm still glad I found a bathroom in time. My conclusion: anerosing fills the prostate with fluids, these need to go somewhere and apparently I don't drain gradually; it comes to such an eruption.

I've almost exclusively focused on my prostate for about a year now (with a few minor detours along the way). I've out-and-out jerked off maybe 3 times in that year. When I have Aneros sessions that don't result in an ejaculation (often), I still have what I call a dry pussygasm (i'm a gay male). I'm overcome with waves of euphoria and autoerotic ecstasy that makes me just want to go on and on. Then during other Aneros sessions, I actually do cum, but it's a ruined orgasm. By that, I feel the ejaculation building up but stop just before the moment of climax. While some drops of delicious sperm dribble from my cocked, it's not a full cleaning of the pipes, but I does keep them from overflowing. I highly recommend this! I live in a perpetual state of physical and mental autoeroticism -- as close to unending ecstasy and I can get.

@jbear good resolution! Mine will be along the same lines; try to forget expectations such as 'tonight is the night, I can feel it' or 'am I there?'. I need to learn to just enjoy every sensations. I know, not very original but possibly effective. Happy New Year to all my fellow Anerosers!

@MikeHuntOOO 3 times in the year?? I like that; that's probably a good direction to aim for. Thank you for sharing.

Awesome. Glad to see that I am not alone. It has been over a week. I feel heavy down there, nice frustrated feeling. It should be emptying itself anytime now. Is edging without an orgasm or an aneros inserted helpful? I have been edging everyday. I am starting to get the feeling that it is a distraction.

@jbear, do you have experiences with Aless? Out of my yesterday experience with world shaking Aless I would suggest to replace edging masturbating with Aless sessions. Good vibes!

Completely forgot about Aless. I have started doing that again today. Lots of familiar feelings coming back.

@jbear, may the Aless power be with you! 😎 It's such a gift!

Interesting session last night. I used the progasm for the first time in months. I had involuntary leg movement for the first time ever coupled with radiating pleasure. No release yet, but it is getting better.

To each his own... but I think it's a colossal mistake to ignore your equipment. It's important to exercise the whole machine. But I understand many days of denial in favor of the Super-O.

It's important to exercise the whole machine.

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@thugofalltrades, I fully agree to that rule. To me it's the main reason to stay away from chastity devices and all the more from surrendering to a physical keyholder. But for some days or weeks denial has become a stimulating challenge to me and nourishes my arousal to a new height due to my sharpened senses.

This morning on day 14 of semen retention and on day 7 of mental chastity¹ I awoke, sat up in bed and sudden involuntaries started by their own. Writing this I can't resist to give in to a sudden chairgasm. Life is so wonderful!
¹mental chastity is how I like to name my denial of touching cock due to pure severe self-control.

I haven't ejaculated since Dec 24. I haven't touched it since Jan 6. My energy and concentration are way up and my weight is down. Probably because I put the porn away and have been productive. Things downstairs seem healthier. I was borderline addicted to porn. My aneros journey seems to be finally progressing beyond where I was before I started this which took years to achieve

@jbear, that sounds great, congrats! 15 d SR¹ / 7 d MC² - and my heavy balls feel that good! Furthermore my excitability reached a new level while the urge to view porn subsides as already looking at some half naked woman or the slightest touch gives me a boner.

Last night I could not find an end reading and writing in this forum. As expected my awareness for my senses was down this morning though I experienced an alltime high of Aless on saturday morning thus given by full ten hours of sleep.

My conclusion is that our energy is not endless though it sometimes appears to be. We have to allow us to rest to get any further.

Take a rest! Take care! And good vibes!

¹semen retention
²mental chastity

Hello everyone. Now that school is back in session, my updates will be less frequent. So far, things are still getting better, but the progress has slowed. I can really feel my mind changing focus to my prostate as my primary pleasure center. This next part is hard to describe. I still haven't had a hfwo yet, but I have had two traditional ejaculations without aneros. Oddly, the pleasure was all internal. Before I had a difficult time differentiating different kinds of arousal and orgasm, but now the differences seem clear as day.

I can really feel my mind changing focus to my prostate as my primary pleasure center.

I can fully agree to this.

One hour is left to cope with my one-month-challenge of SR! The last days I at once got a hard-on even by any little thought flying by about how to end my semen retention.

After losing myself reading and typing in this forum again last night I went to bed at about 2 pm (GMT+1). Short after lying down I got an aching hard boner. It became some kind of out-of-body-experience as I felt like watching myself and wondering about having a morning wood though still awake and at the same time absent like sleeping.

Altogether until now this challenge was a precious experience and I'm in eager anticipation of the final! 😀 😎

Good thread guys.
I'd be very tempted to try going with the 21 day challenge but I don't know how my wife would feel about that. Its very important to her that I cum during our love making. She tends to be a bit insecure and the odd time that it just doesn't happen (as it does with all of us) she has to be reassured that it was nothing she did or didn't do. I don't know, I may discuss it with her. I would like to try it.....

I don't know, I may discuss it with her. I would like to try it.....

If this is something your intuition is leading you towards then you should pursue it. You may be interested in introducing the concept of Coitus reservatus to your wife. This practice de-emphasizes the ejaculatory orgasm for the male while maximizing the orgasmic potential for the female. Open communication between spouses is critically important to the relationship. It seems your wife may be holding some self illusions regarding sex, you are in the ideal position to help educate her and bring an expanded awareness to your relationship. Good Vibes to You !

Time for an overdue update.

I knew this was coming. I've finally hit a plateau. Things aren't getting worse thankfully, but my progress has leveled off for now. I have a pretty good idea that my current living situation has everything to do with this. I can almost pinpoint the exact event that is responsible. I can't seem to relax past a certain point for several different reasons and I have gotten lazy in a couple different ways. I have gained a new insight into how my mental health effects my overall health and how my body condition can affect my mind. I am in the process of making several changes that should put me in a better place physically, emotionally, and hopefully financially.