Hi all..had my first super-o today that’s been over a year in the making,can’t tell you how much I am buzzing.
I’d like to share the experience,and share how I did it in the hope it may help anyone else still struggling.
I lubed up my helix syn a little with ky and inserted it,I tinker with it a little,just to wet the canal a bit,then take it out again and lube it up properly and re insert. I have found ky the best,lasts 60-90 mins for me.
So,started my ‘session’..After some advice from members on here,I’ve recently been doing my sessions at a totally different pace,instead of doing contractions of pc and sphincter and wrenching quite hard,I’ve just been doing little light contractions on the pc,almost gingerly like I don’t want to break anything,or tip toeing if you like,and I must say,less definitely seems to be more! In Rumels ‘welcome pack’ inbox,it did state that over time you find you actually need to do a lot less to make Aneros work for you,which seems to prove quite true for me,actually trying a bit less may help a few of you.
Also,I saw a post by someone whom I don’t remember who said to forget the sphincter and just concentrate on bringing the pc to spasm,this has worked for me.
So,the method is on back,feet flat on bed,knees bent,and I rock/gyrate ever so slightly,up and done an inch,maybe two,relaxing on ‘way up’ and a ginger little pull on my pc on way down,I find after 7-8 minutes of this my pc goes into spasm/involuntary contractions,this is when the magic really happens for me,I noticed when this happens,my sphincter just spasms on its own during the way up,no real pattern,it just contracts at its own pace,and with no effort from me,so I just let him get on with it
I had a couple of po’s,really quite pleasurable,radiating through my pelvic region,like pond ripples,but also confined to the pelvic region,then things just started to get a bit deeper,which centred my focus on my prostate/pleasure,I thought I’d fantisize in my mind,this spiked my arousal much more.
Then I felt a pressure/pumping sensation at my prostate,like it was in the palm of a hand,and the hand being opened and closed constantly fist-open-fist-open,then pelvic area got really hot,then as I breathed in,my pleasure had an upward/lifting feeling which matched the path of my inhale,and at the end of the inhale,the pleasure felt like it was at the top of a rollercoaster,just at the point where the cart begins to creep over the point at of no return.
Not sure why,but at that point I knew something big was coming and it did,as the ‘cart’ began to go down the other side,it felt what I can only describe as a waterfall going over the top and then the splash at the bottom,when the splash/orgasm came, it seemed to channel up my body to my solar plexus and tee off to my nipples which I was diddling,then continuing off up to my head,teeing off to my temples. Then everything levelled out,the heat in pelvic region gone,the pumping fist gone,carts and waterfalls gone,the pleasure was everywhere,and constant,and with it was warmth,not hot.Like the warmth under your duvet in the mornings,perfect warmth and orasmic pleasure together. I couldn’t point to a place and say that’s where the pleasure was coming from,it was just there,everywhere,at the same intensity,I remember being aware of the ceiling,top of walls and top of wardrobes,since I’m lying on my bed,I know this sounds weird but the orgasm felt like it was in the ceiling,top of walls,and top of wardrobes too..everywhere..the only non constant was the pleasure in my temples which felt like it was spinning..I don’t know how long this lasted,1-3 mins? ..really I lost any concept of time..so it starts to wind down,I think I could have had another but I let the thinking mind creep in,and again,this is weird but I remember looking at my knees and saying to myself “I can’t believe my knees are having orgasms” lol That brought me back down pretty much fully and I decided to end my session.
I apologise in advance for my weird anologies,I’m not much of a writer lol..and I find it hard to describe in words..
I’ll finish off with this though,I think the super-o isn’t in the aneros or your prostate,or your breathing style,it’s all in your brain/mind in my opinion,I was just breathing normally,not funky breathing or meditating,the relaxing for me is getting into the zone,where the world falls away and there is only the pleasure..when your not thinking or feeling,just engrossed in your pleasure..
So that’s my take on it,good luck to everyone still working toward their first super-o... keep on your journey,don’t make my mistakes,don’t chase it,don’t expect it,it will just come when it comes..
@Tommygunn I think your analogies are wonderfully descriptive and do a great job of putting words to an experience that frankly, cannot be put into words. The last time I had a Super O, I had a buzzing/pulsing throughout my entire body. My eyes were closed unlike yours, but I felt as if my body had dissolved and I could feel orgasmic bliss beyond my skin. If my body was painted on a canvas, it was if someone had brushed me with water and the 'colors' that was my body bled outside the lines, and I felt pleasure beyond my own physical frame. Time had no meaning, I did not have any intrusive thoughts and just rode on the waves of impossible pleasure.
Thank you so much for sharing this blissful experience, and thank you for your encouragement to all guys. In the meantime, enjoy whatever sensations and orgasms your body gifts you with!
[USER="58120"]Neveryman[/USER] thats what I meant !! The orgasm was everywhere,occupied everything,not just me,it’s weird trying to put into words,you have to be there to see for yourself.. it’s quite a paradox,as it’s hard to find,but when you do,you think it wasn’t actually hard I look forward to the next one and learning how to ‘chain them’ as I’ve read on here,mso’s would be incredible..
Congratulations!
Congratulations, @Tommygunn, on achieving your first Super-O!
Congrats...now the trick is to keep getting to that point and sustaining it for longer!
I always wonder. Is it required to do contractions to reach a super O. What i do is literally do nothing and feel what my body gives, if i do contractions i lose my focus quickly i start focusing on my breathing etc and my feeling drift away. What is your experience about contractions compare to doing absolute nothing?
@kettladed Not exactly,you can do contractions until they start doing themselves involuntarily..and then the Aneros is on auto pilot,imo the magic doesn’t really kick in before this point,but each guys journey is his own and unique,I’ve found wht works for some doesn’t work for others..
Thank bury,dark and gland,been over a year to get here lol..but worth the wait and the kinda patience..
Thanks for a great Super O description....
This should be added to the "first Super-O" sticky, so we can find it easier, and it won't get lost as time passes.
@p38 thanks lol,I don’t see it myself,don’t write as eloquently as some of the guys on here:p
What you wrote is inspiring and motivating for those of us still on the path toward the rainbow.
Please cut and paste your opening post to the "first super O" sticky, for others to enjoy as this thread slips backwards down the list.
Maybe you could answer one question I have, and edit it into the repost to the sticky.
When you are doing the rocking/gyrating/up-down movement with the ginger lite PC compression,
Is there any breathing pattern to match that part of your 7-8 minute warm-up arousal beginning?
IE ... breathe in on up relaxed rocking and and breathe out on down rocking with lite 'ginger' PC contraction ???
or...other way round breathe in ginger PC compression. and breathe out on down relaxation of PC ???
Thanks for helping me get a little closer to the rainbow result.