Hi everyone, this is my first post to the Aneros Forum. I have had my own Aneros massager, the Helix Classic since February of last year. Since that time I have put it through intermittent use. That is I have taken extended breaks from it. However even with that said, I have a pleasurable sensations once or twice from using it. One time I can remember, I was lying on my side with the helix inserted, doing the contractions and breathing as it has been said that I should do. While I was holding one particular contraction (about halfway) and breathing slow and deep I began to notice a nice tingling sensation in the area down there which also popped up in my hands and in my feet. My breathing got more intense and began to really come from my gut. So here I am, the top part of my body stomach and chest seem to be snaking on the bed as these pleasurable tingling sensations continue inside of me and in my groin area. However, this didn't last long and I have never had this reoccur. So what exactly did I experience in this situation? I would like to achieve the full body multiple super orgasms everyone talks about and be able to make them happen on demand, but even though i do contractions with breathing while I have the helix toy in, I usually get nothing. No varying erections, no precum, no automatic movements of the toy on its own without me making them happen. I have tried different positions as well... on my side, on my back, on my stomach. I use ID Glide lubricant. Also, I am a young guy. 22 years old, straight (this is irrelevant I do realize except from the fact that I do not have any anal sex experience) and I am 5"4 tall. With all of this said, is there something I am not doing right? Something I am doing that I should not be doing? Am I using the wrong model of Aneros? Answers and advice for what I consider to still be a newbie would be greatly appreciated. I am also including a poll that can go along with any comments on if I should buy a new model as soon as I can afford to do so.
What you experienced, in my opinion, was a pleasure wave... It was a slight awakening of that area. I was in much the same place of little to no reaction until I adopted the do nothing approach and just breathed. My sessions exploded exponentially after the change.
Personally, I lie flat on my back with a pillow under my head and top of the shoulders for a slightly elevated upper body position, then simply breathe slow and deep from your diaphragm so that your pelvic region actually moves with each breathe. This will naturally move and apply pressure to the prostate on it's own. For me, it was the key in terms of movement.
The other key for me was lack of expectation and to not focus so much or try to force and new feelings you get. Just keep up with the same breathing cadence and imagine in your minds eye the aneros moving around inside you. The p waves will come and your journey will progress from there. Breathe deep in and out, slowly... Enjoy the ride
You need to build your arousal when you use the toy.
Just sticking it in and breathing is basically like wanking and thinking about the weather.
Its a sexual act. Make it a sexual act.
Zach above me has some good points about imagining the aneros moving inside you. If that turns you on then do it.
I use mental imagery and some light and sporadic nipple touching.
You can check out my previous posts if you want more indepth details about this stuff.
Check out Crimsonwolf's stuff as well - he's written some great guides and its basically very similar to what I do.
Oh yah, nipples were HUGE for me too. I never had particularly sensitive nipples and it seems my progression with nipple sensation has moved along the same lines of my aneros sessions. I actually had to force myself to stimulate my nipples before they "awakened" too. Now, I have to have nipple sensation to push me along with my p waves and mini o's
You need to build your arousal when you use the toy.
Just sticking it in and breathing is basically like wanking and thinking about the weather.
Its a sexual act. Make it a sexual act.
Zach above me has some good points about imagining the aneros moving inside you. If that turns you on then do it.
I use mental imagery and some light and sporadic nipple touching.
You can check out my previous posts if you want more indepth details about this stuff.
Check out Crimsonwolf's stuff as well - he's written some great guides and its basically very similar to what I do.
You make a good point neros as well as zachsdmf does. I definitely do try to build arousal. By putting some lube on my aneros and putting more on my finger which i then rub in my anal area and slowly insert into my arse, moving in and out a few times, then putting in the aneros and laying there relaxing. Sometimes with eyes closed other times while watching porn, I build arousal to try to make a better experience..
You need to build your arousal when you use the toy.
Just sticking it in and breathing is basically like wanking and thinking about the weather.
Its a sexual act. Make it a sexual act.
Zach above me has some good points about imagining the aneros moving inside you. If that turns you on then do it.
I use mental imagery and some light and sporadic nipple touching.
You can check out my previous posts if you want more indepth details about this stuff.
Check out Crimsonwolf's stuff as well - he's written some great guides and its basically very similar to what I do.
Hey, I read over Crimsonwolf's post about wiring and the confident boomerang. Definitely going to give some of this stuff a try!
Thank you everyone for the votes and the advice so far. Please feel free to continue posting advice on your techniques of moving things along. It could be that the Helix doesn't hit the right spot for me, I don't know. I am only like 5 foot 4 inches tall
I have added the regular Progasm to the Poll that is at the top and also given the option of multiple choice. Thank you!