my first o a newbies take

Hey, welcome to the forum!

Good for you! Keep going. Forget about straight or not straight for two reasons. One, if you play with your ass it doesn’t mean you are gay. There is nothing inherently gay about anal play. It’s like saying the color pink is for girls, or mechanics are for men. It is comepletly cultural. And two, there is nothing wrong with being gay if that were the case. I believe that to be afraid of being gay is being afraid of homosexuality in general, which everyone needs to get over. It’s the 21st century. People can do and be what they want, in a large part of the western world, at least.

so keep it up and you’ll see that the infinite pleasures of prostate play are completely coherent with heterosexuality. I am straight and most women I know jump at the idea to peg me, or to play with my ass. I have only been with one partner in the last year (out of maybe 10) who did not want to play with my ass, and she was just squeamish about being an active part of it. However she loved when I had my aneros in, because I turn into a hyper charged sex rabbit. With a partner it is as if I am on some wild aphrodisiacs (or even extasy) when I have my toy in.

Looking forward to hearing of your progress!

As a straight guy I had internal struggles about some how using this toy was "wrong" but I think that is why a tiny bit of me was willing to give it a try...
I came to the conclusion that because I am straight maybe I am not wired correctly to experience that type of pleasure...
What if I got hurt some how what if I liked this type of pleasure which is taboo for a straight guy...
I was excited but terrified at the same time...
It felt great but at the same time I felt like why am I even doing this as this is wrong (being a straight guy) but it felt so right...
The question i am having is as a straight guy to I want to keep going down this path of pleasure.
I am in the midst of an internal struggle-go for the pleasure which is "taboo" or walk away. I am leaning towards more pleasure.

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your expressed concerns echo those of numerous other new users, please read @Trojan 's archived post (#10) which aptly addresses your concerns. For what it is worth, I'd like to assure you that prostate massage is NOT anything you should feel shame or guilt about doing anymore than brushing your teeth. It is a healthful activity and is not goin to change your basic gender identity or inclinations so you can rest assured your 'straight' status is in no danger of alteration. With that being said, as you become more comfortable with the practice you may find yourself more open to the knowledge of human sexuality being more fluid in the range of practices and that notions of 'straight' are largely artificial social constructs subject to change over time. You are not bound to these artificial constructs and have the right to explore your sexuality as you wish.
Good Vibes to You !

P.S. I sent you an introductory Private Message (Newbie's Notebook) with some additional hints and tips to get you started here. Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it.

Well said, as usual, @rumel

Think logically,how can massaging your own gland,own body make you in anyway gay. Personally I’m not gay,but I’m quite certain being gay isn’t something you can learn.
Well done on your prostate success,I’ll let you in on a secret,this ‘super o’ you speak of,you’ve just had it,that’s it,a prostate orgasm is a prostate orgasm,they just vary in intensity,as you become more confident,experienced and relax into your journey more,the orgasms will get stronger,and you might have a whole bunch in one session. Just don’t put the orgasm on some high up super - o pedestal or you’ll spend years saying you have o but no super o. Remember this is the internet and some of the posts on here are complete shit and have many guys stuck in mind trap,even though they’ve already gotten success but just can’t believe it.
Huh,you think the program jr is good? Wait till you start cumming with no toy inserted. (A-less). That’ll blow your mind. Settle them nerves and get on with the business of enjoying your newly developing skill set! 😉

@kmkm I've tried this method and no, it does not produce these results. I think this is so unfair on pretty much your first time, also that progasm (jr or otherwise) is massive and is BS that it works on anyone, there is zero movement with that thing! you forced the movement which is not reccomended and possibly dangerous! i mean wtf!?

@kmkm,
You have inspired me to stick a lubed Progasm Sr up my ass and start writing....

About the exquisite pleasure that results, with the giant knobby thing roaming around, in and out, sending waves of tingles down through my thighs, into my ankles, down to my toes. What was that? A flicker into my back. What was that? A wave through my face and neck.

About my first experience with Sr., which felt as bad as a constipated turd.

What changed? I got "rewired" I guess.

Also, at first, I never got the whole super o thing. I never had anything more than an early amazing encounter with the helix, when I found a way to let it fuck me, in waves of passion, so rhythmic and intense it caused a hands-free wet orgasm, any number of times. Funny, I haven't gotten that back, and don't mind so much, since the super o has arrived. But I'll keep working on it.

I knew I was on the path, when one day a very small butt plug-like item fell out of my ass and I kept enjoying it, before realizing it was gone. The aless had arrived.

After many years now, the Progasm Sr., MGX, Maximus, Helix and Eupho are all unique tools of enjoyment, nipple diddle brought to the party at every opportunity.

What about the taboo for a straight guy?

The other day, I had the most amazing sex in my life. My whole body was alive as I brought my cock into her vagina, as it stroked and came.

Thanks to Aneros and the advice here.

Keep enjoying. There is much to discover.

@kmkm I've tried this method and no, it does not produce these results. I think this is so unfair on pretty much your first time, also that progasm (jr or otherwise) is massive and is BS that it works on anyone, there is zero movement with that thing! you forced the movement which is not reccomended and possibly dangerous! i mean wtf!?

It's not at all dangerous lol.

@WallyBanger Hahaha “progasm sr like a constipated turd”. Comment of the month dude,that’s tickled me :p

@WallyBanger Hahaha “progasm sr like a constipated turd”. Comment of the month dude,that’s tickled me :p

No? Tell that to the guy that has permanent prostatitis and not to mention the psychological scarring that this device has caused

@The_Fury who has? You?

damn the fury you just ruined it for me saying what I did was dangerous and somebody got hurt from the progasm-I used the jr which really is not that big and i am a newbie-oh well no way I am risking my health for this type of fun 🙁

@The_Fury who has? You?

Yes me! It isn’t as bad as it once was, but it took years to heal, it still stings when I orgasm/ejaculate sometimes.

@kmkm I didn’t mean to worry you but the thing that hurt my prostate was movement/thrusting, forcing it etc. Manual movement I mean. If you’re not doing manual movement then good, just a warning I guess. I have no,idea ho vigorous you are with your device.

also to me the programs jr is a large device, and the progasm sr is WAY too big imo

Yes me! It isn’t as bad as it once was, but it took years to heal, it still stings when I orgasm/ejaculate sometimes.

@kmkm I didn’t mean to worry you but the thing that hurt my prostate was movement/thrusting, forcing it etc. Manual movement I mean. If you’re not doing manual movement then good, just a warning I guess. I have no,idea ho vigorous you are with your device.

also to me the programs jr is a large device, and the progasm sr is WAY too big imo

i appreciate the advice but u scared the hell out of me-aneros going in the trash

happy and safe play to those in the aneros world-my exit will be as fast as my entrance to it

i appreciate the advice but u scared the hell out of me-aneros going in the trash

happy and safe play to those in the aneros world-my exit will be as fast as my entrance to it

Hey you can blame me all you want if it makes you feel better/safer, but everyone is different and every body is also different, just saying that with me I did things forced which was the worst approach but back then there wasn’t any guides on these forums, it was 12-13 years ago.

Ironically it was the Aneros that actually fixed the majority of the prostititus issues I had by proper gentle use.

damn the fury you just ruined it for me saying what I did was dangerous and somebody got hurt from the progasm-I used the jr which really is not that big and i am a newbie-oh well no way I am risking my health for this type of fun
i appreciate the advice but u scared the hell out of me-aneros going in the trash
happy and safe play to those in the aneros world-my exit will be as fast as my entrance to it

It is unfortunate that you are being frightened into abandoning a pleasurable and healthy practice by one of our fellow members. If it is of any consequence, I've been a member here for more than 11 years, having read nearly every post written in that time and nearly half of all the posts written before that and I can attest to the safety of these well designed devices when they have been used in accord with the manufacturer's recommendations, i.e. hands free, using only your internal musculature to power movement.

I invite you to perhaps merely take a pause, don't throw away your Aneros and do some more research into both the safety and health aspects of prostate massage. Prostate massage is a health practice that dates back thousands of years and is still an actively practiced health regime in Asian culture today. Western medical practice simply has not yet come to the wisdom of many holistic practices such as prostate massage.
Good Vibes to You !

Hey you can blame me all you want if it makes you feel better/safer, but everyone is different and every body is also different, just saying that with me I did things forced which was the worst approach but back then there wasn’t any guides on these forums, it was 12-13 years ago.

Ironically it was the Aneros that actually fixed the majority of the prostititus issues I had by proper gentle use.

Yeah real nice job scaring this guy away just because you're jealous of his early success. What the fuck dude.

Yeah real nice job scaring this guy away just because you're jealous of his early success. What the fuck dude.

If I can save someone from causing themselves suffering and pain (potentially years of it) then I will.

In saying that however I am not the one that reacted in the extreme manor of ‘throwing the device in the trash’ and giving in 100%. Seems there is something more underlying in this persons case.

@kmkm chill out buddy,Aneros toys and prostate massage are pretty damn safe, I ain’t seen any reports of injuries when using your pelvic muscles to operate them hands free which is they way Aneros intend. Yes,if you grab it and ram the ass off yourself,then I guess you could hurt your junk. Forget this shit and crack on with your journey. Early success tells me your tools are already somewhat primed to propel you on. Have fun ;).

update thanks to those that messaged me and those that posted here too-I did not quit but gave it another shot two days ago. This time barely even doing anything once inside of me as far as contractions etc...(for the record I never forced it or touched it before once it =as I was still a bit worried it could hurt me based on the one guys post-I used the jr again-lots of lube-was going to go with the set it and forget it method if you will. Once in it was right away greeted with a nice welcome. I started to feel pulsing right away doing almost nothing. My legs really started to shake (which did not scare me as I know that can happen) about 10 minutes in I was hit with a wave of pleasure -it did not last too long maybe 20-30 seconds but it was like a strong normal O feeling in my body but dry. Once that subsided it was kind of like the traditional O the sensations stopped and I felt like I was "done". My insides felt relaxed if that makes sense. I was not sore at all inside-I was going to leave it in for a while to see what would transpire next but called it a day-the funny thing is day with my mind I could relive the feeling not of the O but of the pulsing feeling and even with nothing in I kinda started to get those feelings. I do attribute my success to the prograsm jr and lots of lube-the regular ones I tried a few times and there simply was nothing going on with them I guess the jr for me just fits right and knows what to do. Thanks again for those that convinced me to stick with it. I will continue to update u with progress. My short term goal now is to experience more than O lol

@kmkm Dont fall in the mind trap..your 30 second orgasm WAS the ‘super-o’. You had your first prostate orgasm,congrats. As you gain more experience and settle into your journey,they amplify,and or you’ll have a bunch of them based on how well you can quiet the mind.
Just take what the sessions give,and don’t get greedy for more,sometimes they are low in intensity,sometimes they are high. You’ve hit the ground running,make the best of it mate.