My experience

Hello all,

I shall begin with my journey.

Firstly,  I started a quite a while ago, but not with aneros instead tantric. It was a hard grind with kegals and trying to move energy which never really happened. 

 I have wondered, if it spiritual or scientific when it comes to moving sexual energy or maybe both. Anyway,  I found if I did deep breathing, focus and slight kegals while taking it slow to the edge. I could have very small orgasoms that seem to happen before the main event.

I spent time not getting to the place I wanted too, being  mind blowing orgasoms. In hindsight,  it was not actually that bad of a orgasomic experience. However, on path to wanting more you can miss what you had. Another thing with tantric, I found myself feeling down when I ejaculated. As accourding to some books I read you lose energy. This I now take with a pinch of salt.

Moving forward with this tantric journey, I kept up with kegal and edging,  I did not edjuculating for at least a couple of months and focused on these little (OS). 

Then one night  I had a session. I did not touch my cock but,  just have my hand at the bottom of the shaft pulling the skin back while doing kegals. Eventually, I had a full body orgasom which lasted a few minutes. I would describe it as waves of pleasure though my body and up my spine while my prostate grew hard like a ball.

After the event,  I did wonder does your prostate swell if you don't ejaculate for a while. Does anyone know if this is true?

A long time after I then discovered aneros. I brought a few toys and also got frustrated a few times. I would never have beilieved it was possible if I did not have the earlier experience. 

Any how,  I still have not achieved what I desire but made good heading  recently. I have done all the mistakes in the book but, the thing which has made me the most progress is this. 

Keeping myself aroused in the session ie hard without touching (I have spent hours with myself and cannot get aroused with just an aneros up my butt,  and sexual thoughts  yet)

Giving a fews days of not masterbaiting

Nipple play.

Not watching porn way too discracting 

(Not other thinking) IE like technique and breathing ( takes away from the fun) 

Definitely having a mind set of (I am just EXPLORING and seeing where it take me) 

Right head space such as not too tired or people discracting you

Being Relaxed 

And Finally, 

Postive vibes you don't want to get negative with it, otherwise you won't get aroused

Well that's it from me. 

Peace to you all.