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So I've had about the helix syn for about a month now. I've had 6 total sessions so far, sometime in the next few days will be the 7th. I would like to try more often, but setup, preparation, and the actual session take up a lot of time. I've noticed in my last few sessions that when I hold a moderate contraction I get a somewhat subtle sensation in the area behind my testicles (somewhere in my ass I would assume). The longer I hold this and concentrate on that subtle sensation, the better it feels and the more aroused I become. I then start to get an erection. At this point I am very relaxed and can feel each heartbeat in my entire body, and with each heartbeat I can also feel the blood rushing into my dick. It's like someone is pumping it up with a bicycle pump. Each heartbeat it grows bigger and stronger, and while this is great by itself, it tends to distract me. My attention is drawn away from the subtle feeling that got me to this point and is, instead, drawn towards my dick. I'm not sure what to do about this. I feel like it could be a reason why my sessions have been somewhat pleasurable, but I feel like I'm holding myself back. Any tips? I'm sure I'm not the only one who might feel this way.


   
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Focus on the sensations from your perineum ( behind the testicles). Think about the device moving in there, touching the prostate but don't physically contract or move it. It may start ti move ( or feel like it's moving on its own. That will take your attention away from your erection and it should subside. You may have several cycles of erection and relaxation throughout your session. At some point, try this. Instead of contracting the PC muscle and drawing the device in ( which even in the " do nothing" mode you can still occasionally do, but not forcefully), mentally let go of the device, almost as if you're going to urinate--but don't! That can relax your BC muscle and lead to another kind of P wave. Most of these actions should be "mental" or if you will "virtual", without physically moving. That should help you take your mind off the erection, too. Report back after you've tried these. I'll bet you will find them helpful. Bon voyage! :)>-


   
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@Lapse,If this is your seventh session it is normal as you insert nor notice genital sensations for a normal build up of excitement and this will immediately translate into an erection. This is the standard response to such stimulation. I would simply allow the distraction but as time goes by turn that arousal towards your inside mechanisms. The advantage of allowing a gentle transition is that you will be able to carry the arousal inward. Just keep away from responding from your erection's plea for attention. But above all have fun and laugh. @Armon-neat above is good


   
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When I first started sessions I had the same issue. Like @Armon-neat says learn to refocus the sensation. Once a distraction - later not a problem. And also like @isvara said the excitement build up, for most of us at first, caused an erection or other distraction, but in time you will find yourself flaccid way more often then not. Give it time and most of all enjoy each sensation!


   
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Thanks for all the tips. About to give my 7th session a go in a bit. I'll let you guys know how it goes.


   
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@Lapse,
Quoting "and with each heartbeat I can also feel the blood rushing into my dick. It's like someone is pumping it up with a bicycle pump. Each heartbeat it grows bigger and stronger, and while this is great by itself, it tends to distract me."

Truly it is said "one man's meat is another man's poison".
Oh! for just one erection like that, I would be over the moon and running around the house.

This post is really testing Chrome as Safari disables iPad Air 2 touch posting screen - most frustrating.


   
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@isavara

I can understand how you could feel this way. It was very arousing, but after a few minutes i'm left with a throbbing dick that I can't touch, and I've completely ignored this object in my ass that I'm trying to focus on. But to be honest, I've had a good time with the aneros so far. I always end with a wonderful TO and a from a rock hard dick which is nice. Cheers.


   
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