Hi, I am new to the forum, but have been using the Progasm for about 2 years.
Here are my experiences for experiencing a state of "bliss". I am not sure whether I can call it Super-O, but the good feelings last for hours and sometimes even days after the sessions. I know about other discussions here, but I do need movies to experience this state of bliss and to create arousal.
Here my tips:
1. Shower and clean yourself thoroughly. I do an enema before the sessions.
2. Insert the Progasm and do nothing for a while, not even lying down.
3. Select soft erotic movies. I particularly like Japanese porn. I try to find movies with mature women. It is important that the movies are directed well and mainly show the woman. The action should be very slow an sensual and show details of her body. This can give me the feeling of being "inside" the woman later on (see point 5).
4. Avoid all other distractions. Eat very little before the sessions. I can sometimes go for 4-5 hours between eating. Only make sure to drink well and stay hydrated. For me it also helps to drink coffee.
5. Start watching the movie. Do nothing. After a certain time, I feel the buzzing more and more and go into a kind of trance. When I feel "one" with the woman in the movie I know I have reached the higher state, like a trance.
6. Take breaks from time to time. Add some more lube in the breaks.
7. Relax more. The bliss will stay and the experiences will change. In this stage, I focus on different parts of the woman's body. Like how her hair looks like, her armpits, the legs, the fingers, the skin. This creates even more arousal and a feeling of fullness in me.
The only thing you need for this is time, which I sometimes do not have. So I you have recommendations on how to achieve it faster or do it in a busy work life, this is more than welcome!
There’s nothing wrong with some porn to start or heighten your arousal,some think it’s distracting,and it can be,like if a scene ends and you have to stop to start another.
As stated many times here,each mans journey is his own,what works for him,may not work for the next.
If what your doing is making progress for you,then your doing it right.
All we can do is glean whatever info off this forum we can and see if it helps or hinders us,but don’t get to fixated on things..
Like me for instance,I started to worry the super o was out of my reach because I saw a post on here that men over 5 feet ten might need a longer tools like the highlands tool,plus that SR can be very important to achieving a super-o. Yet my helix syn gave me my first super-o and couple of weeks ago,on top of the fact I’d had sex with to ejacualtions with my wife a mere 21hrs before,so I worried unnecessarily.
I’m starting to learn that any set of circumstances are fine,all we need to do is believe it.
As for making it come faster? I usually Aneros once or twice per week,but I try to squeeze in an Aless most days,I think that helps lock in the prostate play,a guy posted here that he had daily 1 hrs sessions for 2 mths straight to lock in the involuntaries..
Yes, I also found out when I let go, the bliss suddenly arrived. I have had sessions where nothing happened and I had to abort.
I am a very visual person, therefore I need visual stimulation as well.
I also found that when I select these softcore movies with for example women that are "real" (so not supermodels), I really get aroused. I find it even beautiful to appreciate women that I would otherwise not find attractive. But due to the bliss, the Aneros helped me to appreciate life. It sounds philosophic, but I am amazed this is possible.
@originaleast Yes,I’m learning slowly that prostate play is like the matrix,if you can imagine it,you can do it lol..
Same here with porn,I don’t watch much,just here and there,but I only watch amateur/homemade stuff,porn stars do nothing for me with their ballon soccer ball tits,I like ‘women’ ,real women..
To add a point 8. I feel the most bliss after a while, when the body has warmed up. Then I try to reduce the contractions to about 20% intensity. Like as if I almost do nothing, but just almost. Then the body starts to shake, and I still try to relax all muscles (although it is a bit hard because the body wants to flex the muscles). Then after a while an overwhelming "bliss" can be felt all over.
The Progasm is absolutely amazing. My session yesterday lasted about 6 hours. After I was finished, my whole body kept buzzing so that I could not sleep.
I did not have an ejaculation, that is why the energy built up. But what I did experience at one point was a "pee-gasm" where I suddenly squirted. Amazing sensation!
Since the Progasm is big, I feel I do not need to do a lot of contractions because it already has a strong presence in my body and massages all the necessary points.
My aim is now to try shorter sessions. What is the best way to do this? In my case, I feel that I need at least 3 hours for a session?
I’ll be honest,my sessions are 60-90 mins,I don’t really have 3-6hrs to devote to a session.
ive found with time and progress it takes shorter and shorter times to get to the same places.
i read her it’s takes 45 mins to create a super-o,I have no idea if this is true,mine have been around an hour but I’m hoping I can slash that considerably,and I don’t see why not,I think if you imagine it,you can do it..