More questions. HELP!

Have you read the wiki and 'B's Keys to the Backdoor' thread? Sounds like you are kinda lost.

I'll admit it's been awhile since I read them.

Hello Matty12232, 🙂

Assuming this is not a problem with the tone of your anal muscles. I would have to question if it is being inserted correctly and completely if it keeps popping out of your anus. I've found that it is very easy to not insert the Progasm correctly. Meaning the head never gets past the last set of anal muscle rings. Over time I've learned what this feels like to avoid and correct the situation.

Make sure your are as relaxed as possible during insertion, and take your time inserting. When the Progasm gets close to fully inserted, I move the handle end back and forth towards the front of my body and then to the back a little bit each way repeatedly, to get the head to find it's way through.

Touching yourself can help, but is not absolutely necessary. A lot of guys here like nipple stimulation. Lately I've been getting into stimulating the perineum area and scrotum. Do what feels good. But the general rule of thumb is not to stimulate your penis during the Aneros session.

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