Mental Focus

It's some time since I had any sessions with my Helix Syn, and only a few a-less sessions. However over the last few days I believe that I have advanced in my ability to get the maximum out of the opportunities offered by both types of session. The secret is for me -although others may differ - to shut out all outside influences and thoughts and direct all my mental abilities onto the sensations which I am experiencing, Yesterday I started with an-aless session which involved the very lightest of touches on my nipples but during which I concentrated exclusively on every sensation which my body offered. The result was that I began to experience an intensity of feeling which I had never felt before, and although my a-less orgasms are never as intense as with the Helix inserted, the difference being like that between a watercolour and oil painting, the more delicate sensations are nevertheless very enjoyable.

After my a-less session my prostate continued to feel aroused and ready for more, so later on in the day I got out my Helix Syn for a serious ride. I did not indulge in any arousal techniques, but found that the simple act of preparing for the session was excitement enough. I lay on my side, inserted the aneros and did nothing. Almost immediately I experienced a couple of involuntary anal contractions which drew the helix even closer to my prostate, I continued to lie still and when I began to experience faint pleasurable sensations I focussed my mind upon them to the exclusion of all else. I then began to find that not only could I intensify those feelings but also select and amplify those parts of them which I found most pleasurable and in addition could control to some extent the movement of the helix over the prostate- or at least that is what it felt like. The end result was a blissful session of almost continual orgasms of varying intensity during which I virtually lost track of time.

What this taught me was that one should never try too hard to achieve results by recourse to external forms of arousal and stimulation, nor should one indulge, if at all. in strong Kegel contractions during a session. Far better to listen to what your body has to offer and simply use the power of your mind to build up on that. Also, when you experience "down time" after an orgasm, never give up too quickly. Just lie still and wait and chances are that out of nowhere the pleasurable sensations will begin to build again and the next orgasm will be better than the previous one.

I believe that a lot of failure and frustration can result from trying too hard to achieve results and not relying sufficiently on your inner resources. Prostate orgasms are in a very different category from penile orgasms and I think that many tend to use the aneros as an aid to masturbation which IMO it s not.