Male Chastity and edging to increase arousal

I think this subject is much more complex than what proponents of chastity make it be.

It is up to you to determine what you natural rythm is. Forcing it to either increase or decrease is, in my opinion, not the most fruitful option.

Your arousal is probably fine as it is. At least you are used to it.

Holding off from sex for a while allows your body to gain some sensitivity to the Aneros, particularly upon first getting started with it. But, I've found that going "too long" and developing a very strong desire for traditional sex/orgasm seems to distract from the sensitivity to the feelings produced by an Aneros.

Edging, though fun and helpful of course for us older guys to maintain erectile function and traditional penile sensitivity, doesn't affect your response to Aneros use and of course, striving for prostate or "super" orgasms necessitates that you don't stimulate your penis at all while in sessions.

me and my wife have been playing with chastity for a while. IMO chastity in itself is not going to make your arousal any better. The only benefit I can see for chastity and aneros sessions is that I am unable to finish after a session traditionally which has always been my downfall. Edging is not going to do it either, again IMO. I have also done that for a while. Success for a good aneros session comes from a different, deeper arousal that is not penis related. Its a mental arousal that can only happen in your mind.

We have been practicing Teasing and Denial for almost a year. It is not strict, but I have gone months between orgasms. We do it because it is fun and has added something new to our erotic life. I do feel more energized and receptive to stimulation of all kinds so I would say that the denial has added to my sessions in a positive way. the subject is worth researching.

I have found that we are more intimate, more often, almost every day. Eliminating the requirement for me to finish has removed a certain amount of pressure from her thereby making our sessions more frequent. I think she also enjoys the teasing. Since I am constantly aroused, I am more mentally ready for Aneros sessions.

Xileh

For me edging just takes my arousal to a whole nother level. I sometimes reach the peak to fast and boil over which ruins the whole mood and xstacy ride but i start back up. Denying my hard erect penis of fulfilling its duty to cum is a lovely erotic hard ball game i like to play with my self an it takes time to really master it but the feeling is amazing. I now can edge for two hours straight with out even wanting to cum but the arousal state is still high and strong. So do resesearch and have fun.

I am locked in a CB6000S and my keyholder has not told me when she anticipates giving me a release. Using the Aneros makes the Chastity much easier to live with. I'm not using the Aneros to ejaculate, but to stimulate my prostate, which it very pleasantly does. Since after a full Aneros session I have usually shrunk to the size of an acorn, it makes getting to sleep much easier (I have my sessions before bedtime). So as I see it, the Aneros is actually helping me with the Chastity.