Making progress?-gctid143503

Also, I use the condom method. Are there any ways to allow the lube to stay in the condom without leaking out?

@Bigmouth999 first, welcome on board! Yes, you are on the right track. To draw pleasures as you describe so early in your game tells me you on on your way to good things. Relax, enjoy and don't over analyse things. Keep sharing details of your progress.

Life is wonderful.

Yes, definitely on the right track. Remember that these experiences are individualized and not everyone experiences them the same way - although there may be common threads. As Ggringo says, relax, enjoy, don't over analyze. And, please do share your experiences! As for the condom, you can try tying the condom below the base of the aneros - for that a large condom [perhaps extra strong as well] would be a good idea and you would need to get most of the air out before tying the knot.