Well... almost a year into my journey and ive learned a few things.
Overuse of the Aneros results in periods of prostate insensitivity and a lot of dud sessions afterwards, which is really frustrating, and sets me back a lot mentally. At this point, im only willing to leave it in for an hour to an hour and a half at a time, and instead of daily sessions (I've been somewhat addicted to the good feelings, no matter how small i must admit) i will limit myself to three sessions per week. Ive considered "linking" aneros usage with my work out sessions at the gym as a reward of sorts... it could motivate me to get my lazy ass to the gym, improving my health, and then providing my lazy ass with some well deserved pleasure afterwards 😉
By limiting my sessions to such a short time and limiting the number of sessions per week, i hope to always exit on a high note with my prostate still wanting more, still buzzing with pleasureable feelings. I believe that will speed up my journey and make subsequent sessions better, since i think leaving the aneros in for too long , to the point of discomfort instead of pleasure is detrimental to the process even if it felt good up until the point where it starts to become uncomfortable.. I've done this a lot, and without fail, the pleasurable feelings which was there in the beginning dissapears when it is left in for too long, and the following sessions steadily declines in quality until i give myself some time to recover.
If im not horny, the massagers is just a piece of plastic or silicone stuck in my ass. Limiting usage makes me want it more, than i used to when it was available at all times.
As well, ive realized that sleeping with my massagers in is also something i really think should be avoided at all costs. I think the risk of unintentionally damaging myself is too great to ignore.
Ive learned that its not a race to reach the super-o even though i get
impatient at times. Im a very impatient person, so coming to this
conclusion is a "break through" of sorts, for me. Until quite recently ive not really stopped to smell the flowers, on my journey. Not enjoying the journey and becoming impatient is a serious mistake. If it feels great, why sweat it ? I will arrive at the promised land, sooner or later, that im sure of.
Good old "Mary Jane" really really improves my sessions when im stuck. She is a great tool to use, when progress seems slow and sessions are dissapointing, but im not going to advocate using it as use may be illegal.
I like the Vice a lot. Some users here posted that the vibrations didnt help much at all, but for me it has resultet in some truly great moments, when i didnt expect it. My go-to tool however is the Eupho, or one of the Peridise's.
And finally ive learned that vaseline is not a good lube to use, on a regular basis. Once now and again might be fine, but too much makes my body protest. The lube sold by Aneros here, seems to work fine for me, but i might switch to some organic oils eventually.
