Lelo Billy

@liquidflow - I know a guy locally who is into prostate massage and has achieved super orgasms. And he's told me that the Lelo Billy is his preferred toy for prostate massage. Lelo in general makes high quality stuff. But I think like anything else, it's totally an individual thing of whether you will like it or not.

the problem i see is that it might not 'stay in' on its own so you'd have to keep one hand on it or sit in a possibly uncomfortable position.

I was actually eyeing the lelo billy for quite a while as I have been wanting a girthy dildo-type toy that I can manually use. After doing some research I actually settled on the Tantus General.

http://tantusinc.com/For-Him/General

It doesn't vibrate but it is big! So by now I have had a couple of experiences with my new toy, and I couldn't be happier with my decision. Gotta go real slow to get loose and warmed up. Once the first bulbous part is in, it is the perfect length to rock back and forth for a good prostate massage. Then going further creates a nice full feeling and once loose, you can wiggle it to and fro, in and out. Got it off amazon for almost half the price too. I guess the billy would probably be better for an easy prostate massage due to its smaller width (less preparation/warming up), shape, and vibrations. But everyones got different tastes.

I'll also note that I have the njoy fun wand too, and really enjoy it as well, it is nice and small and precicely hits the spot for a good firm, direct massage.

@Tripjacks - He claims it stay in. But I'm skeptical too.