In previous postings I have written about the need to AVOID penile contact in conjunction with use of the Aneros IF one is pursuing the Super O. It has occurred to me that perhaps I wasn’t specific enough nor had I given adequate reasons for this. From some of the feedback I’ve read I believe that some out there are still attempting to find their way to the Super O while still employing some form of penile contact.
First let me be absolutely clear, IF YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE THE SUPER O YOU MUST HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT, DIRECT OR INDIRECT WITH YOUR PENIS WHATSOEVER. THIS INCLUDES PULLING ON YOUR FORESKIN OR SCROTUM OR IN ANYWAY CAUSING PRESSURE TO BE YIELDED ON YOUR PENIS. IT ALSO INCLUDES LYING ON YOUR STOMACH OR MOVING (GYRATING /THRUSTING) IN SUCH A WAY THAT YOUR PENIS BE INDIRECTLY STIMULATED.
You will note that I wrote the previous paragraph in capital letters. Yes, it is that important! It is my belief that penile contact of any kind effectively “derails” the Super Orgasmic arousal pathway. Think of the means of attaining a traditional orgasm as being on one track, with an ejaculation as the final destination. The Super Orgasm is very simply a different destination that must be reached by an entirely different track.
It is as if our body’s had a DEFAULT SETTING for this ejaculatory pathway and any penile stimulation works as an OVERIDE channeling us away from the Super O and back to the traditional orgasm. Indeed, I have found that “involuntary contractions” and other phenomena that are distinctly of the Super O sphere are actually EXTINGUISHED BY PENILE STIMULATION! Therefore the obvious conclusion is that penile contact/stimulation must be avoided by anyone who is still in search of these sensations. Why? Because these sensations won’t occur in the presence of penile sensory input.
As further confirmation of my theory I put forth the following; it’s not just the build-up that can get lost, PENILE CONTACT can undo the Super Orgasm itself. I am telling you guys, IT IS KRYPTONITE! Some of you may have read my posts about having multiple Super O’s and then “dove-tailing” the last of these into a traditional ejaculation to finish off a session. I realize now that “dove-tailing” (segueing) was an inappropriate choice of words, because it never really happens that way. In fact, even when I have a Super Orgasm in full swing, as soon as I touch my penis (to shift over to an ejaculation), I feel the Super O itself fade away! You can’t really build one on top of the other. In fact, just after the Super O fades away I find myself in a veritable “sensory node” (a place with no sensation) for a minute or so as my body seems to be “resetting itself into the default position” for ejaculation.
In conclusion, if you are into the Aneros as an “enhancer” to traditional sexual activities, penile contact is essential. However, if you are in search of the Super O, penile stimulation of any form must be totally avoided!
B Mayfield
Originally Posted By: b mayfield
IF YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE THE SUPER O YOU MUST HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT, DIRECT OR INDIRECT WITH YOUR PENIS WHATSOEVER. THIS INCLUDES PULLING ON YOUR FORESKIN OR SCROTUM OR IN ANYWAY CAUSING PRESSURE TO BE YIELDED ON YOUR PENIS. IT ALSO INCLUDES LYING ON YOUR STOMACH OR MOVING (GYRATING /THRUSTING) IN SUCH A WAY THAT YOUR PENIS BE INDIRECTLY STIMULATED.
I know that you're right, with maybe some variations. Earlier you stated that we ARE all wired a little differently. Also, it's hard (but not impossible) for an old dog to UNlearn tricks - they may learn to shake left handed but never exclusively. If you don't remember, I use a Venus machine; giving up that stimulation is REAL hard. But here's the bottomline: two major - He** I'd have to call them Super Os. One occured after a major Venus session with the Aneros in place, cosmic beyond words. I fell asleep with no thought of having any need or desire for anything sexual for the rest of the night (maybe forever;-) Just that good! But then I woke up maybe an hour later with an odd kind of vibration going on that I can't really describe BUT I SUSPECT YOU KNOW EXACTLY what I'm talking about. It felt like it was on the prostrate and moving more or less on its own and when I would make the smallest anal contraction WOOOWWWW! Too much contraction and the magic lessened. Takes juuuust a little to maintain. And it slowly built over about ten minutes to the point that I KNEW I was going to flat out exPLODE! And I did! Except for my head and the region from about navel to mid thigh, I was nothing but a jerking, convulsing rag doll. What stopped it is somehow I thought I could make it better quicker and went into a tight squeeze which brought on a full long ejaculation, a pretty average one at that. I feel like the fact that I had completely exhausted penis response made it possible for my body to find the path to anal/prostrate paradise as I slept. The second was purely no penis stimulation; I hadn't had any for 2 days. I had to make a delivery up in the mountains andslipped the Aneros in place before leaving (it feels good). I have bucket seat in the truck and I'm making gently little contractions when Imoved in the seat, which was followed by some gentle thrusting and rotating motions. That and thinking about how the Big One feels was all it took! I had to pull over pretty fast and if a cop had come by he would have thought I was an epileptic. I figured 'what the hell' and just let it go. Each time it happens I swear I've never felt anything like it before. I figured I'd be soaked but strangely there was only the flood from the prostrate - no cum. It was so intense I got real nausated and threw up a few miles down the road. When I got home about 4 hours later my wife said I looked like I 'needed some' and I didn't think I was able. But BOY O BOY was I ever!!!!? Some of the greatest I've had!
Hey Jo,
I am really delighted to hear about your Super O experience. Interestingly enough your experience has confirmed something that I hadn't reported on earlier. That for some reason the body may be better "primed" for the Super O sometimes after having had an earlier (traditional- ejaculatory) orgasm. In my own case I noticed that when I was having trouble in one session becoming Super Orgasmic, a day or two later it happened fairly easily. It was as if my body needed the release that it hadn't gotton earlier, so it would almost instinctively, on its own, take me there immediately upon insertion of the Aneros.
I also concur with comments regarding "thinking" about the Super O actually bringing on sensations. I just can't emphasize this enough, the Super O is in large part a product of MENTAL awareness/focus. Moreover, this is one of the factors that draws a distinction between it and the traditional ejaculatory orgasm, the latter being an almost "automatic" physical response to certain stimuli. The Super O requires focus and attention to certain sensations that are at first not overtly sexual. Again, the notion of thinking about the Super O bringing on sensations is truly a manifestation of this principal, (and confirmation that YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK!)
One word of caution. Once you've had this experience, it becomes almost an obsession with repeating it. (Which is fairly normal I think.) Sometimes however, that kind of thinking can become an obstacle to achieving it or otherwise lead to some undesirable results. Several months ago now, I had to develop a kind of an equilibrium in my own mind with how much conscious thought that I gave to the Super O and where I placed it in my life. After all, as I've just related, thoughts about the Super O can "get you going", so for a while, I was finding myself literally dripping everywhere I went !
In the final analysis, this experience is here to enhance our lives not to impair them, so you want to try to keep it in that perspective. In that vain, you may want to consider avoiding using the Aneros while you're driving,...be safe!
Congratulations,
B Mayfield