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08/15/2025 11:17 am
I have used Aneros and some other prostate massagers now for a few years. I have used them seldomly but somewhat regularly - usually maybe once a month, sometimes more frequently and sometimes more rarely. I have never gotten a Super O, hands free orgasm or any kind of prostate orgasm though.
My first Aneros, and the one I have used the most, was Helix Syn. I also have some vibrating noname brand massager, which size wise is somewhere between Helix and Progasm. I recently got the Progasm and have now used it twice.
Having read all the instructions available and multiple stories here, I know I shouldn't touch my penis when using an Aneros. But here's the thing, whatever else I do and no matter how good that feels (it does feel good), it always feels the best, ESPECIALLY on my prostate, when I masturbate my penis with the Aneros inside me. My usual session usually lasts over an hour, during which I don't touch my penis while the Aneros is inside me. I feel the slight sense of touch on my prostate, I leak precum, I start twitching with my whole body when the going gets good, etc. all the good stuff. I don't get involuntary contractions or at least they are rare, and I haven't really felt like the Aneros moving inside me with a mind of its own, like it's sometimes described. I'm very rarely erect during this. All this lasts for some time with ups and downs. Usually there comes the point in time where it seems like it's winding down, or maybe sometimes it feels like I really need to cum, either way, this is the point where I reach for my penis.
And while I'm masturbating my penis, I become so much more conscious of my prostate. It feels large and throbbing and it feels so so so good. At this point I usually end up cumming really quickly, but based on everything it's just a regular orgasm.
To recount my recent experience with my new Progasm, at this point it was very intense. It felt big inside, it was definitely hitting the prostate very well while I masturbated my penis and I went from no erection to almost cumming in about thirty seconds when I started touching my penis. Somehow I was able to control myself to not go over the point of no return but still ejaculated a little. About thirty seconds later after returning to masturbating my penis I ejaculated a lot but I was still able to delay the orgasm. And soon after that I finally orgasmed with a third ejaculation and went limp, thus ending the session.
So with all this out, my question is why does it in the end feel better on my prostate when I start touching my penis? Can I somehow achieve this feeling without touching my penis and thus make the feeling last longer? Is this what it should eventually feel like on my prostate just with the Aneros and no touch? What should I do?
Tips and recommendations are very much appreciated!
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08/15/2025 5:30 pm
Sounds like you’ve combined prostate and penis play! I have done that while using a hand held vibrator on my perenium and penis root and have experienced the most intense contractions leading to simultaneous prostate and penis orgasms which were mind blowing! The Aneros gets totally pulled inside with both tabs caressing the prostate and tailbone area. The flexible tabs are getting a good workout and providing maximum pleasure!
08/16/2025 8:49 am
Hello @johnnytody, your description matches without any difference my own process. I could have written that post myself! What changes in my case is the fact that after being at the same point, the journey continued. After insisting on not touching the penis, I made two changes to my practice: 1) have sessions more frequently (like you I used the devices very seldomly but regularly) and 2) do less.
Before these two changes I used to actively alter strategies, movements and muscle activity to amplify pleasure in a tightly correlated cause-effect system. That kept me in a loop of expectations that was negative, and I always reached to penis stimulation and traditional orgasms to finish my sessions, maybe as a makeshift-super-experience (because masturbation is so good after an Aneros session) as compensation for not having a prostate orgasm.
Approaching sessions with less expectations and surrendering to the present moment with the sensations it offered (small, big, pleasurable, subtle, whatever) have opened new doors to me I never thought were possible. Releasing the idea of reaching a desired endpoint helped me relax my body and my mind. Most of my sessions now finish without a penile orgasm, even though I crave for more. Instead of reaching for a masturbation, I just cool down, finish the session and thank my body for what happened. With these two changes, I stepped further.
I believe, – and believe is the correct verb because this is so new to me –, I had my first involuntary some sessions ago. In another session two days ago, I had a gigantic wave of pleasure washing over my whole body and lots of precum, a new breakthrough. It was not as intense as other members describe, so I believe I have not reached a Super-O yet, but I was very close.
If this new mindset takes me to new grounds, so be it. While in the journey I feel gratitude to this masculine body that can provide so much pleasure. Thank you for your message and keep sharing your experience, as it helps many others in our long and solitary discovery of our own bodies. Happy sessions!
This post was modified 4 months ago by Black Swan
08/16/2025 9:29 am
@black-swan Very helpful insight. The OPs comments are 100% me and your follow-up is where I arrived earlier this week with respect to just taking what I get and being willing to walk away. The difference for me was I was willing to walk away satisfied with what my body/aneros gave me. After a brief "cool down" I made the decision to do a traditional penis/aneros session to completion. The difference from what I typically do was the mindset of being intentional in stopping the aneros only without frustration and intentionally going to a traditional experience. Today I am committed to aneros only. I plan to take whatever I am offered and move on without traditional masturbation. If something else happens cool, but if not, I plan to try again on Monday and will go to a traditional session if I still need a release. Still trying to approach all of this with no expectations, but that is still a difficult thing as I feel like I need an expectation of something, be it intensified feelings, progress, or even just expecting a relaxing meditation session...a certain expectation always exists, otherwise why do something?
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