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Is using Aneros considered losing virginity?


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Hi guys, I have a bit of a concern... a silly one, pretty much. But it's worrying me so much that I feel a need to ask just in case. :-/
First and foremost, I'm an innocent gay male who is still a virgin. Although I'm saving it for the right guy to come and steal it from me. To lose my virginity from another guy has always been my dream. But somehow there's this fear that using an aneros will make me lose my virginity, therefore, instead of a real man, I lose my virginity from an inanimated object...which is just sad.

I mean, I haven't used the aneros YET. In fact, it's still sitting on my bed left unopened.

Right now I'm debating whether I should just wait until the day I lose my virginity from a real man and then use the aneros after--or use it NOW and enjoy myself?

Please help!!! Is aneros-play considered losing the V-card?


   
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Hi, No I wouldn't consider using a toy loosing your virginity, sex with another man is completely different to playing with a toy, there is that physical and mental connection as well as the amazing skin on skin sensation.
In many ways using the Aneros will make you better prepared to make the moment when you do loose your virginity more enjoyable, as you will be more used to having something inserted in your bum.
Your first sex with another man will and should be special so don't rush into anything in order to loose your virginity, instead have some fun with the Aneros while you find that right person.

Have fun! xx


   
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In your case, I'd say yes, it seemingly is.

But your extremely romantic conception seems strange to me. Are you sure it is realistic?

Anyway, without any virginity concerns, I wouldn't advise anerosing too young and especially not before first relation. But that is just my opinion.


   
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@SumYungGuy, not a silly question IMO. What do you consider virginity? Have you ever masturbated or had a wet dream? Aneros play is like that but without the ejaculation part, just the orgasms.

Aneros play can be more than just orgasms too and important for one's total developement in my experience. Aneros may enhance your sexual arousal and experience when you're ready to make your dream come true. BTW you can also offer your virginity to the right guy rather than waiting for him to steal it 🙂

The first time making love with a man was very special to me and cannot be compared with aneros play. It's an emotional, identity thing. Hope you have a good experience!


   
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@SumYungGuy, it is very possible that Aneros play would be an excellent preparation for what you hope.
As an aside most females do not find their first penetration pleasant no matter how romance novels present it. So a bit of preparation would be very beneficial to both of you.
Just my thoughts


   
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@SumYungGuy, it is very possible that Aneros play would be an excellent preparation for what you hope.
As an aside most females do not find their first penetration pleasant no matter how romance novels present it. So a bit of preparation would be very beneficial to both of you.
Just my thoughts

Makes sense.


   
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SumYungGuy;

Nope. Based on my own experience, Aneros use does not begin to compare with getting fucked. It's Apples and Oranges, or to be more accurate, a grape vs an Orange. Even the largest Aneros, Progasm, won't prepare you for the friction, thrusting and internal thumping you'll get during anal intercourse, unless you find a partner with a very small dick.

Good luck,

Dave


   
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In my opinion, no. Losing your virginity requires having sex with another person. It's like saying I lost my virginity because I masturbated with my hand, or even a sex doll.


   
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@isvara, just wondering which is the grape and which the orange?


   
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The fruit is in the eye of the beholder.


   
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Thought I'd add my comment; just something to think about. Would you be disappointed if by using the Aneros prostate massager (after practice) that you find satisfaction, that it meets your needs so well that you do not have the desire to give your virginity to the right man?

The other side of that is: The use of a Aneros prostate massager makes one aware of the pleasures available that one has never felt before; maybe like when we discovered masturbation.


   
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With swollen curiosity at a very young age, when I inserted one of my fathers metal cigar tubes into my bumhole, I did not for a micro-second question whether or not I had just lost my virginity. Had I, at the time, access to any objects that resembled an Aneros device, I would've happily stuffed them up there too. So, my dear YungSum ... fear not, the first penis you have the pleasure of finding its way safely mounted inside of you, will indeed be the day/night/afternoon that you will have officially lost your sacred virginity. And don't give it up for any old Tom, Dick or Harry. Well, you can make an exception for Dick! Having said that, I would have LOVED the opportunity to play with Aneros before laying naked with another who mirrored my groin. It just would have given me a sense of what to expect, and boy, imagine if you were completely re-wired before accepting the real thing.

Good luck, and in my opinion, NO, not the same.


   
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Hi man.
I also think the answer is no :
For loosing your virginity you need had sex.

Playing with yourself (toys included),learning..only help you to make the first time better.

A little question : if you are the person who make the penetration ,do you felt you loose your virginity?
(My answer is yes,because you have sex with other person )
Then if you had masturbated (i am sure as almost everybody),are you lost your virginity?
No

For finishing , i recomend be carefull with the romantic idea of first time : it could hurt a lot (physicaly (which aneros could help on this ) and maybe mental if latter you found he was no the «right» person.
I only said this because it is so easily idealize someone , and when you know really the other person could be totally diferent you «thought».
Anyway : enjoy your body , your aneros and be luck finding your man


   
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