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redfish067,
Welcome to the Forums,
In regards to choosing a first Aneros model, I recommend that you first read the following : The Best Aneros model is...
Good Vibes to You !

P.S. I sent you an introductory conversation with some additional hints and tips to get you started here.

Yes, it's for real. I was pretty sure the entire forum couldn't be lying to me when I bought my first one. But I decided to try and find out for myself. Best decision I ever made. Your worst enemy after buying it, however, will be expectations. Your best asset will be relaxation and patience.

thanks, there is just SOOO many pills,creams, sprays, rings, toys on the market today. and ALL of them claim to help. I have tried some, and have not found the satisfaction I am looking for. The biggest thing is I am very much in love with my wife, and I KNOW I DON'T SATISFY her. But I also know that she will never complain. I am 50 now on Blood Pressure Meds, and things don't work like they did when I was 20. At this point I am getting desperate. I need something that will help me to bring her to a place she hasn't been to in a LONG time.(but of course, I am ready to enjoy the "test runs" too) so that's my story, and that's what brought me here.So I appreciate and "pointers" that you "seasoned vets" have.
Thanks again.

@redfish067, I am a bit older. An Aneros will help in a number of ways. Most folk seek the Super O. Some get very frustrated that it won't come when they want it.
The choice of model of Aneros is always a challenge. I started off with a Helix then got a SGX which is smaller. I keep going back to the SGX even though I have most models. Aneros use has considerably helped me. Prior to Aneros getting to orgasm nearly killed me through muscle and heart stress.
I have been using an Aneros regularly for two years. My whole approach to sex has become less stressful and more fun for both of us. Because of the nice feeling I get I am much more relaxed, less stressed more creative, more tolerant and have lost most of those debilitating male 'hangups'. It appears to have improved my prostate health (wife happy) and helped me manage my BPH.
I would focus more on your experience, growth in understanding and enhanced sexual awareness. Your increased richness will automatically flow into the relationship.
If this is a new area for your wife, then it is very valid to focus on the health benefit, happiness benefit rather than the specific sex benefit.
I am sure there will heaps of info from the more experienced members.

I've been using my SGX for a few months with mixed success. It was several weeks before I felt little waves of pleasure. Then one night it was amplified to a sustained orgasm without ejaculation. A few more tries resulted in nothing. I didn't stop however. I just bought a helix syn and used it once. Let me tell you I felt the difference right after insertion. I went right back to dry orgasms.

thanks for the info.. I think Im going to try the Helix Syn.. have heard MANY good things about it, and i seams to be "ok" for a rookie.. thanks again

Mattp it's bad to mix your devices whilst your rewiring, I've got all the aneros models but I don't want to change from sgx whilst I'm getting good results, I'm jealous you got dry o's already though, still not there.... I still wonder as to your technique.

@inhope: The SGX was giving me nothing for many days after getting quite a bit of pleasure. I don't know why it stopped.

Lately, I've tried a new thing. It may sound weird but it seems to work. I looked on YouTube for a few clips of relaxation hypnosis. It puts me in a state of relaxation I would otherwise not be able to achieve. Let me know and I'll send you a few links of what I use

Sounds good do share Matt

I've been using Aneros since last fall, very successfully, and now I'm trying a change from "smaller is better" with the advanced Peridise and Eupho Syn. I now have a Progasm Ivory on order, and I'm facing it with a little trepidation. After the agile little guys that send me howling at the moon, will this be an expensive Butt Plug? But from the forums, them that likes it really likes it.

@WarrenGWonka,I don't wish to pour water on your party but I have always found the Progasm, (Ice in my case), too much!

Clearly, I wish you all success with it and sincerely hope that I will be proven wrong in your case. You might just find that the big fella knocks you for six.

Let's know how you go but don't be too upset if it doesn't work for you.

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Warren - very interesting comment. I have a Vice. Have tried it with and without the battery. I like it most with it but, alas, it is messy even after I douche. Any hints?

Sry - that comment shud have been directed to Anerico

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The new progasm ivory worked like a charm except for wanting to slip out. Ned a bit more training with it, I guess; the Eupho Syn has stopped doing that. I posted a video of the test with a running commentary at YuVuTu.com (search for Aneros). However -- I pulled the plug while I was still on the bed, and with all that lube and sphincter relaxation, was not able to control a really nasty Hershey Squirt. I'll get onto the pot first next time. (It was so much fun, there *will* be a next time soon.)

ok....bought the helix syn.. have tried it nothing yet.. ..havent really had ALOT of time yet... but I AM SO READY. I know.... must have patience... but I AM SOO READY...

ok....bought the helix syn.. have tried it nothing yet.. ..havent really had ALOT of time yet... but I AM SO READY. I know.... must have patience... but I AM SOO READY...
Know the feeling 🙂 nothing makes me feel like a kid on xmas again like a new aneros 🙂

ok....bought the helix syn.. have tried it nothing yet.. ..havent really had ALOT of time yet... but I AM SO READY. I know.... must have patience... but I AM SOO READY...

Good choice. The Helix syn is awesome

have tried it 4 times, no real excitement. but, i have noticed that when its inserted my prostrates says "oh yea..or hello where have you been. LOLi have started to "feel" some "flutters". but i find they come when im not doing any contractions or movement.
does this sound right?? i have tried the "strong" movement, and its feels good, but no bells and whistles.
is there something else I should be doing?? other than just "be patient"

@redfish067 --- Review the Wiki for techniques and how to get started!

The feelings of "Where've you been" and the fluttering are all very normal and a good sign! It means your prostate is being stimulated and you are starting to feel what it's like to massage your prostate!

Don't be surprised if you get a buzzing sensation in parts of your body at some point! Just enjoy it if it happens!

Follow the wiki guidelines!

Enjoy!

TG

thanks.... cant wait

I agree with @theme_gasm, it's a sign that your prostate is waking up.

ok..... so i went back and read the "wiki" link to read up on if I was doing something wrong. and it said to alternate between anal muscles and pc mucle. and then it said to hold it at 80 % and "ease" off until you feel it start to "shake" . well I did and MAN, all of a sudden.. I felt some LARGE quivers, and I started getting hard.. and then it all went away. and I have tried several times since then, and nothing like that again.... i know ...I must be patient
I just wanted to share my "journey",, and cant wait for the next WAVE....
BRING IT ON....

Excellent...Don't get frustrated...it's your body learning a NEW way to be stimulated! What you describe is quite normal! Cut yourself some slack and just keep at it! Enjoy!

TG

thanks...will do

@redfish067 - I've had my best sessions after I'm well rested in the morning, otherwise I'm likely to fall asleep.

Anytime you have your Aneros inserted, your body and mind are learning to accept it as an "alternate" way to be stimulated!

By abstaining from ANY kind of stimulation of your penis, you are refocusing your body to accept a new way to obtain sexual stimulation from your prostate!

You've been used to obtaining orgasmic sensations through those neural pathways involving your penis for over 30+ years, and it can take some time to let your body and mind create new neural paths utilizing the prostate!

I started when I was 52, and I had all the doubt you could imagine! But, persistence and patience, and a willingness to learn how to relax deeply made a big difference!

This is more of an evolutionary, rather than revolutionary, activity because you are actively, and subconsciously, evolving your body and mind to think differently about sexual pleasure!

My best sessions have resulted in such profound, and prolonged, sensations that I've been moved emotionally to where I'm thanking God for giving me this ability!

Be patient, be persistent, and be an explorer with a simple curiosity to just experience each sensation, large and small!

Enjoy!

TG

thanks for the encouragement, and wisdom. like you say anything doing with sex,ALWAYS involved my penis. I have never tried anything like this before, but am curious.. no anxious to experience something less dependent upon the penis. like I have said earlier, I had a "stint" put in my heart about 4 years ago, and am on blood thinners, and blood pressure meds, and "things" don't work like they use too.i will say I have noticed that my morning "pee" use to take no kidding 45-60 seconds, and now its no longer than maybe 20-25 seconds. I never realized how there must have been some pressure/restriction from the prostrate keeping the urine flow down.
so yea there is already positive results from using the SYN.
and am SO ready for more... I will keep posted on other results.

and by the way, I am always open for more advice/suggestions.
thanks again

@redfish --- I'm very pleased you are already seeing some benefit from your Aneros! That's outstanding!

In case you missed it, there is a disclaimer for the use of Aneros and can be found here...

http://www.highisland.com/pm_instructions.php

I only mention it because you are under a physicians care, and if you have any doubts you should seek their advice while using Aneros! I wouldn't want to see anyone use Aneros if they aren't physically ready.

TG