Irritated/Burn/Raw

Posted by: @qwiksting

Long story....I have not been able to have a session, based off of fear and because of the continuing feeling in that area.

A nagging question of “Is that feeling I am having down there, hemahroids or my sensitive prostate”? ... i constantly get random muscle twitches/spasms a in and around my prostate,perinium and just the rectal area. 

What did I do wrong, what is this sensation, how can I go forward? I haven’t had a “Session” in 5 months.  Is it my prostate asking for it?  Too worried to continue. 

From your description of the situation, I'd surmise you are experiencing the effects of a fully awakened prostate. Your mind and body have become familiar with the pleasure of prostate massage and now your subconscious is craving to re-engage that activity while you are simultaneously worrying about inducing a hemorrhoidal flareup.

You've had more than four months to heal up the hemorrhoids, if you have received an 'all healed' diagnosis from your doctor I don't see why you shouldn't be able to resume your Anerosessions. The only thing that is holding you back are your own unfounded worries. I'd suggest you slowly, gently get back into using your Aneros, albeit at a less vigorous or frequent rate. Monitor yourself, take a break if you notice any increased irritation and/or pain, I'd bet you will do just fine.

Good Vibes to You!

I don't know if this applies in your case, but when I used to use KY, I had a reaction to the glycerine in the lube that caused irritation and inflammation.  It might be that you have a similar aversion to the glycerine in KY and other lubes...After discovering this, I started using Probe Thick and Pjur Water and Silicone and haven't had the problem since.

@logik. Possible, does Prep H have that in it?  Reason I ask is, after posting this question today, I laid down and started. Having the warm buzzing feeling start, and I felt my prostate start getting harder and harder, I was not interested in anything going on, so I went and got a hot tub of water going. Usually that will calm things down, but before I got in, I got the eupho out, and covered it with Prep H, slid it in, waited for about 2 or 3 minutes, pulled it out and got in the bath. I stayed in for about 45 minutes got out. The swelling feeling in my prostate was gone, but now I have that irritating/raw feeling. It is just a nuisance. It is not extremely painful, just uncomfortable.  I called my GI doc and made a follow up appt for Feb.  I seen him in Nov about Hemahroid flare ups, and was prescribed anulsol HC. He mentioned something about checking for fissures??? After this follow up. So maybe a Partial colonoscopy in coming my way soon??

The suppositories dance inside when inserted and stir up those feelings pretty good.( muscle twitch and spasms, tingly/buzzing.)  I am going to assume its playing with my prostate until it melts away.  The problem is, after its gone, I get a slight burning feeling going on down there.  I usually don’t go that route unless I am ready to go to bed.  A few hits off my indica and a gummy melatonin and I am out.  Still its baffling to me, as this was sudden.  The only thing I can think of was the last session in August was intense.  I may have contracted my muscles down there so hard I “damaged or changed” something.  

I can touch my nipples and think about my prostate and off it goes...buzzing, warm feeling tingly.  I have to try and focus on something else, get my mind engaged in something else, otherwise, it starts getting harder and achy???

To add to what has been said, there is a device made by High Island Health that was specifically designed to treat hemorrhoids, Aneros sells it as the Peridise.  It might be worth looking into!

A good rule for anal play is that if it hurts, stop!  You were wise to be cautious but it shouldn't scare you away completely.

Any lube containing glycerine should be avoided, if only because it irritates the bowels and causes gastric distress in many people.

@qwiksting well preparation h isn't a lube by any means and lube is 100% required for aneros sessions...On the device and internally...if you're not using lube you are forcing your aneros into your anus and damaging the tissue of the anus and colon lining.  I would imagine this is the cause of your irritation and inflammation.  I'm not a doctor but I would recommend taking a break on the aneros sessions for a week and let your anus heal...Once its healed use a lube that doesn't contain glycerine such as Pjur or Probe Thick.

@logik. I have not any sessions in sometime now with the Aneros.  That being said, I have a question about “Aless”.

My doctor gave me a script of Anulsol suppositories for my hemahroids.  It has become evident now, that I am “super sensitive” if that is a thing.  For example, if I lets say, go by the directions and use one suppository in the morning and one at nite before bed, I get that tingly feeling and it spreads down my legs.  I have to say it feels pretty good.

This morning I got in a hot bath, inserted the suppository and got really weird, but good feelings down there. So I got out of the bath, and laid in my bed.  I was enjoying the feeling and kind of clinching lightly and letting that feeling spread.  Before I knew it I was moving my hips to a rhythm up and down, side to side. Got slightly vocal, with a moan here are there. I felt on the edge for ever.  This is also accompanied with light nipple stimulation.  This went on for about 1 and 1/2 hours.  No aneros, just my mind and body.  I feel if I went any longer I would be “Sore” around my prostate. So I stopped and got back in a hot bath, to try and settle down those feelings and my prostate.  Its been close to 5 hours, and I still have twitching and spasm happening. Most of the spasms feel like they are in close proximity to my prostate and then up towards my balls, but stop before my balls, if that makes sense. Still have light tingling.  

Is all of what I am describing, prostate related.  Muscles got worked alittle bit and just need some more time to settle down?  Just want to get some assurance of something that this is not hemahroid related.  FWIW, my prostate feels alittle “tight, or hard?”.

Thanks in advance for any explanation of what this is.

Posted by: @qwiksting

Is all of what I am describing, prostate related.  Muscles got worked alittle bit and just need some more time to settle down?  Just want to get some assurance of something that this is not hemahroid related.

Please re-read my initial post to you, I think you are allowing your worries to overpower your ability to enjoy your awesome ability to engage in obviously enjoyable A-less sessions. You may indeed be “super sensitive”, if so, exercising a slower approach to Aneros use is appropriate. What you are experiencing does not seem to me to be related to a hemorrhoidal flareup at all. I am not a doctor, so take what I say with healthy skepticism.

@rumelYes, I think your right. Unfortunately, when even just reading these posts, or watching the videos that were posted, prostate gets supercharged, hard, tingly....the ache is subsiding as I type this, but the “horny” feeling is sooo strong.  I concluded that the sensation I am having is definitely prostate related.  I am excited/nervous going forward.  With how the Aless was feeling, I felt on the verge of cumming for so long.  It reminded me of edging with electro stim. 

Thank you for you opinion, and advice. I am new to this, so it can be somewhat concerning, with new feeling down there.  I have anxiety regardless of aneros. Its just my way of life, although not chosen.

@qwiksting 

Rumel is right about this in my opinion, you're just inexplicably good at this right from the start. So that's, extremely amazingly awesomely great for you and a great gift to have that you should really not waste. Now you need to learn to control that thing, like rumel said go a little more slowly, it's normal to have a little apprehension when you approach new powerful sensations, don't let that scare you, it's going to be fine. And by fine, I mean great! Take care!

@zentai Thank you, i have been at this for over a year, but have electro stim as well, PES anal electrode.  That may have helped with the re wire. I HFO with stim easily.  Which makes this raw irritated feeling so dumbfounding.  I use an anal electrode for the prostate. I have used that for ever..10 yrs plus.  Always able to HFO.  I havent with aneros yet, but I got some good Aless today.  I have not used the estim in a few years, but I never had the raw irritated feeling I had with aneros. And maybe it was the lube.  I am slowly starting back into aneros though. Starting with Aless.  Just alittle achy feeling down around my prostate. 

@qwiksting

Makes sense! Do you find that your "involuntaries" patterns with Aneros matches what you were doing with estim? Still another piece of that puzzle. I tried a cheap device years ago and even made my own basic electrodes, but I was never comfortable enough with the whole electricity inside my body aspect to truly relax.

So my results were subpar, and I was already pretty happy with my Aneros progress, estim didn't seem worth it to me, and I was stuck in some kind of "aesthetic phase" where the Aneros was more pure or more natural, yeah that's BS but seemed true at the time... but my best guess is that results can basically be comparable up to a certain point. What do you think? 

@zentai In my opinion, estim has helped with the “re wire”. No hands approach.  I didn’t start out with anal electrode as I was apprehensive just like you explained.  Me being ignorant of my body, did not realize why I was always feeling hard between my butt and my balls.  But surfing the internet and stim sites I found out about the prostate!  I was into PES at the beginning, then graduated to Eros products.  I still used the PES anal device.  It was as easy as 5 to 10 minutes HFO.  But I found this site and purchased the Helix syn to begin with. I got sensations right away.  Then I got the eupho trident.  So, in other words, I think practicing HFO in any environment would help the re wire process.

On another note, This morning, again, I started getting Aless feelings down there.  I got it yesterday and enjoyed, encouraged it for a couple hours.  I got alittle “sore” or achy around my prostate. I had not ejaculated in over a week. The feeling subsided later in the evening with an occasional spasm or twitch.  I havent actively used any device in some time.  Well this morning that changed.  I was getting that familiar tingly buzz going on so I just enjoyed it for about an hour, decided to try the eupho. OMG, I didn’t ejaculate liquid, but it felt like a machine gun with the spasms. I got alittle worried about the soreness so I only played with the eupho for about 20 to 30 minutes. Trying to take it easy and “slip” back into it.  I took it out, was flaccid but still was able to “yank” one out. The feeling was amazing, but I could feel something strain, contract I am not sure how to describe it.  I have been feeling....high, and rubbery legs all day.  I occasionally am aware of the feeling in my prostate, It feels like it was worked, but not terribly bad.  Driving was a challenge, because it was still feeling so good. I was afraid I would slip back into the contractions that I had earlier.  I wonder how long this feeling is going to last??

@qwiksting

That's a good question, not something I experienced strongly myself. I don't have much happening outside of a session, I rarely have those randoms events that I read about where people will get unexpected orgasmic feelings at the office or in their car. Maybe when I started but it's been a long while, I don't remember it bothering me too much, and now when it happens it's pretty faint and easy to ignore if the time is not right.