Introduction, and a mental stumbling block

Hello OverTheHump and welcome to the Forum,

Hi everyone.... snip ...
So my question, I guess, is: did anyone else here that problem starting out? If you did, how did you get over it? I'm tired of sitting here looking at it wondering about the fun I could be having one minute, but turning chicken when push comes to shove...

Let's get you over this hump using some God given tools that are a bit more natural to you than your Helix. First, take a deep breath.

If you haven't yet fingered your insides and you're over the age of consent, it's high time to expand your Carnal Knowledge. -- Carnal knowledge - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia --.

Pick a finger or three. Check out and clean up your manicure with nails filed short and smooth. Check your hands and fingers for cuts, open wounds etc. You are going to pick up millions of friendly bacteria -- no sweat about those but there might be a couple of 'unfriendly' bacteria' along for a free ride. So if you are healing from some yard work you might consider donning a glove, a finger cot or just a condom over a finger to do the deed (albeit with less appreciation for feelings.)

Choose a location. Bathtub, Shower, Bed are all appropriate choices. Grab a towel and damp washcloth. Put some of your favorite lube in a shot-glass. --- you'll want to relube your finger a few times and it's poor form to back-contaminate the store-bought container of fresh sterile lube. Once lube is in the shotglass it's either headed for your ass or will be trashed during post session cleanup.

Set aside at least 30 minutes for some self exploration and cleanup. With all your supplies, head for your chosen location, get comfortable on your towel and enrich your carnal knowledge. Relube your finger often. As the bumper sticker says, "shit happens' -- you know this if you've ever changed a kid's diaper. Don't sweat the dirty details!

Checkout yourself from both the front (shoving your cock and balls out of he way) and from the rear. Identify your outer sphincter, inner sphincter, and hopefully your prostate. If you get an erection you may be able to feel your penis bulb and perhaps stimulate your Cowpers glands, producing a bit of precum.

At each move of a millimeter, note what you feel, not only in your fingertip and inside your sphincter(s) but in the rest of your body.

Time to clean up. Scrub your hands, the shot-glass, your butt and launder the washcloth and towel.

Reflect on this session and decide on what's next -- perhaps another exploratory session would increase your Carnal Knowledge even more. Maybe you are fully enriched now and ready for dame Helix.

Fingering session #2 -- tickle your perineum with one hand while there's a finger (or two) on the other hand up your ass.

OMG, you've wadded your bod up like a stupid pretzel. Oh well, no one was looking!

Whatever you choose, ENJOY !

Hi everyone....long time lurker, first time poster. As the saying goes.

Anyway, here's my story in a thousand words or less: I've been doing prostate stimulation (of the non-invasive kind lol) for almost two years now...and I've gotten pretty far with it. I've managed to get so far as to have the whole 'wavy vision' thing for a few seconds some time ago. I don't know if that was just a P-wave or what, but it was nice while it lasted...

I've managed to do all of this without ever inserting an Aneros. Which comes to the strange part: I've owned a Helix since last September, but I've never used it. I think I have a mental block against slipping something up my ass or whatnot.

So my question, I guess, is: did anyone else here that problem starting out? If you did, how did you get over it? I'm tired of sitting here looking at it wondering about the fun I could be having one minute, but turning chicken when push comes to shove...

[COLOR="blue"]OverTheHump - yeah i'd say virtually everyone has that problem ...

- rip 😀