In need of some guidance

@PIPEMAN, welcome to Aneros Forum. When working with Aneros, please relax and have no expectations too. Masturbation and Aneros sessions will not work. If you hanker after a HFO, it will run away from you. You need to familiarize yourself with Aneros Wiki and the Learning Center because both sources are chock full of helpful information for you. Hope this helps.

@PIPEMAN I'm not sure I can help but here is what I would do:

First, plan your session in advance, get everything ready and work up your anticipation. Prior to commencing, think of your favorite fantasies and work them into your anticipation. If you use binaural get it ready.

Line up your favorite porn and start watching a few hours before you begin your session. When you feel very horny, turn off your porn and really concentrate on your favorite fantasy. Keep that going until you are ready to begin your session. The idea is to be as aroused as possible.

Whatever you do, DO NOT touch your penis or balls at all starting the instance you read this. Let your mind concentrate on your prostate and not your genitals. Don't forget, any attention brought to your penis is attention taken away from your goal. I also suggest you do Kegels and reverse Kegels exercises starting now and on intervals until time for your session.

When it's time to begin, get settled and lube up. Take at least 10 to15 minutes to insert your Helix first by massaging your anus with it and then slowly insert it by turning it around and caress your prostate. Pull it partially out and in, out and in as if your are fucking yourself. This will get your prostate's attention. Take the time to enjoy these sensations.

Once fully in, relax for 5 to 10 minutes and just concentrate on any feelings however small they are. Once in a while do a minute PC contraction and see what it generates for sensation. Do it again and again but at a few minutes intervals. Do not worry about the state of your penis; hard or not is irrelevant. Throughout your session, you should be breathing slowly and deeply, in and out through your nose. The in-breathing should be towards your lower abdomen to bring oxygen to your prostate.

At this stage, you should be fully relaxed with some sensations dancing down there. Remember smooth breathing, in and out through your abdomen. Alternate between your fantasy and noticing all feelings generated by your activities. Priority is enjoying the feelings; use your fantasy to bring the good feelings back when they seem to fade away. If needed, increase your contractions but gradually. Stop on occasion to look for good feelings.

When you do get good feelings, concentrate on them as they build up in intensity.

Do NOT expect a Super-O or a Dry-O! Do not expect anything; just be an observant. Let your prostate decide what it will give you.

I hope this will help you get a better session than the ones that are frustrating you. Enjoy and good luck!

BTW, you will get other suggestions from members; read them and copampare all with what you have been doing; maybe something will click for you. @BigGlansDC makes great suggestions you should consider. Keep us posted.

If I read your post correctly, you are expecting a hands-free WET orgasm (HFWO), no? If this is the case, I'm not sure that these are that common. I have never experienced one.

Ive been using a HELIX for over an year now and Im getting very frustrated Have yet to achieve the HFO, Hands Free Orgasm I sometimes get some small wet leakage and many times get very intense ANAL/PROSTATE spasms but not shooting at all

First off, we need to distinguish between an orgasm and an ejaculation, they are two different events. From the tone of your post I am assuming your term HFO is referring to a Hands Free Orgasm with ejaculation (a.k.a. called a HFWO - Hands Free Wet Orgasm). Not all men are able to achieve this event, I've tried numerous times over the years to achieve this but have had no success. It just may be the luck of the genetic draw whether you and I have the capability to achieve this or not.
I see you asked about this topic nearly 5 years ago and then again when you had a Super-O. I think the tips @GGringo stated above are all excellent and worthy of trying, so there is a place to start. Additionally, there was a technique written many years ago which suggested you bend your legs at the waist into an approximately 90° angle then pull your testicles/scrotal sac back between your legs but leaving your penis free. Slowly straighten out your legs thus pulling your scrotal sac back into tension, this will also put tension in your penile shaft skin. Proceed with performing anal and PC contractions while in this position until you ejaculate hands free. This technique didn't work for me but it may for you, so why not give it a try? Good Vibes to You !

First off, we need to distinguish between an orgasm and an ejaculation, they are two different events. From the tone of your post I am assuming your term HFO is referring to a Hands Free Orgasm with ejaculation (a.k.a. called a HFWO - Hands Free Wet Orgasm). Not all men are able to achieve this event, I've tried numerous times over the years to achieve this but have had no success. It just may be the luck of the genetic draw whether you and I have the capability to achieve this or not.
I see you asked about this topic nearly 5 years ago and then again when you had a Super-O. I think the tips @GGringo stated above are all excellent and worthy of trying, so there is a place to start. Additionally, there was a technique written many years ago which suggested you bend your legs at the waist into an approximately 90° angle then pull your testicles/scrotal sac back between your legs but leaving your penis free. Slowly straighten out your legs thus pulling your scrotal sac back into tension, this will also put tension in your penile shaft skin. Proceed with performing anal and PC contractions while in this position until you ejaculate hands free. This technique didn't work for me but it may for you, so why not give it a try?

Thanks for your suggestion, Rumel. I was wondering if I could quote part of this advice in the book I'm writing about getting prostate orgasms? I know it isn't exactly yours (the technique you describe), but it might be helpful for other guys wanting to know how to do a hands-free ejaculation. Personally, I'm the same way. Never had a hands-free, although there were times went it sure felt like it would happen. Mostly I'm enjoying the prostate orgasms too much to think about that hands-free stuff!

yes do NOT expect to ejaculate!! I did that for years and felt like I got nowhere, but once I gave up on what I thought was supposed to happen, IT happened!

There is a lot of very good advice here. This is very different than masturbation. Its not about a quick rush followed by a big gush. It is time consuming and provides exquisite little sensations that build upon each other as you climb. Relaxation helps, tension sets you back. It honestly works best if you try to avoid an ejaculation and try not to get an erection. Think of it as 180 degrees out of phase with masturbation - everything you do with masturbation - do the opposite.