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ok, so I owned a helix about 7 years ago and never had any kind of results with it and eventually tossed it during a big move. I have continued anal play with different toys over the years and I recently decided to give it another go with aneros - so I bought a mgx and a eupho about 3 months ago. I have been experimenting with all the techniques Listed in these forums, blogs and wiki. I can make myself have a traditional orgasm with my finger by rubbing my prostate, so I can now tell when the massager is on " the spot" inside and feel the pressure on my prostate and that is what I focus on a
I finally have had some really exciting p-waves and feel like I am making progress. After all sorts of lube combos,contractions, and things I have decided to go with the "do nothing approach", condom method, water based gel lube and to do some stretching and yoga before sessions. I will lube inside and outside of condom, insert and just lay on my side. I have been having 1-1.5 hour sessions about 2-3 times a week.
Today I had a session where I really had some amazing feelings while laying on my left side and just focusing on the feelings in my whole body. .

My only issue is I will lose the feelings after about 5 minutes or so, then I try to relax but end the session to not get bored with it. Should I just keep doing what is working , wait more time or what can I do to get past drop off of p-waves? Any advice would be helpful !


   
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I am about the same point as you as far as rewiring goes. I do about 1-2 hr sessions 2-3 hrs a week. If I do more sessions in a week my progress seems to stagnate. I have had the best feelings lying on my side with my leg on top bent. I do the do nothing approach. I have gotten some p-waves that feel real good, but no orgasm feeling yet. I guessing at some point the orgasm will come for both of us. Just try not to expect anything. I think that's the best way to go about it. Abstaining from masturbation may help bring about the orgasm easier. I get more pwaves if I hold off from ejaculating.


   
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My only issue is I will lose the feelings after about 5 minutes or so, then I try to relax but end the session to not get bored with it. Should I just keep doing what is working , wait more time or what can I do to get past drop off of p-waves? Any advice would be helpful !

The “poof” factor upon orgasmic build-up is not a rare occurrence; it has been experienced by most Aneros users on numerous occasions, a totally normal experience. This is partly why Aneros sessions can take so long, there is a cyclic nature to the pleasure wave build-up process. Patience is necessary to ride through and along with each cycle of pleasure waves as they gradually increase in strength. After enough cycles have transpired one may cross-over to the Super-O. I have noticed and others have also reported on, the cyclic nature of P-wave build-up, there is an ebb and surge to this process, sometimes pronounced, sometimes subdued. During a session I often cycle with rising amplitude of P-waves only to have them quickly abate, but if I remain focused and patient, breathing, gently contracting, the P-waves will start to return and build-up again. It is this process of repeated P-wave build-up which leads me to an orgasmic level. What is sometimes forgotten here is the importance of one's arousal state in continuing the cycle and always being mindful of the body's lead in the process. Good Vibes to You !


   
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I definitely left my last session very pleased and felt it was pleasurable all together. I try to go into sessions with the thought that I am going to get a relaxing massage and that is all. What would you say is the best way to become aroused? Do you think it would be ok to spend some time edging with penile stimulation before a session, or will this be too much focus away from the prostate? I do think my arousale level can become lower than when I start. I also have been using mantak China's method of spreading sexual energy before my sessions. I was feeling what I have read some user report as a sensation similar to a yawn or something and tried to relax into those feelings. What do you think?


   
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What would you say is the best way to become aroused?

The "best way" to become aroused is an individual choice and varies from individual to individual. You already know what things and/or practices arouse you so use those as your starting point. I would advise you to read the Arousal section in the Aneros WIKI for further information about this topic and perhaps get an idea for an arousal technique you haven't already thought about. You may find the threads Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence and Identifying Facilitators to Progress of some use as well.

Do you think it would be ok to spend some time edging with penile stimulation before a session, or will this be too much focus away from the prostate?

Personally, I am not in favor of edging immediately prior to an Anerosession as I do think it tends to focus one's mind on the ejaculatory orgasmic pathway and away from the path toward prostatic dry-O's. However, I do believe edging technique is a powerful tool for training oneself to have more stamina and stronger, more intense ejaculatory orgasms when those are desired. There is no reason why a man can't develop heightening his skills at both ejaculatory and non-ejaculatory orgasms. I just think it is better to separate the two processes to avoid confusion and cross-wiring oneself to the detriment of either process.

I also have been using mantak China's method of spreading sexual energy before my sessions. I was feeling what I have read some user report as a sensation similar to a yawn or something and tried to relax into those feelings. What do you think?

I think Mantak Chia has many good ideas and practices which are of value to Aneros users though I may not agree with all of them. If you find them useful, great, if not, there are many other techniques promulgated in this world which may serve you as well. Good Vibes to You !


   
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