I want to talk to somebody (gay/bi)

We should definitely talk about this. You can send me a PM, or sometimes find me in the chatroom. Or send an email.

Just joined the forum again. Hopefully you guys connected. @darwin my latest session I had the same experience, vivid fantasy's during plus I also dirty talked to myself out loud. I called myself a whore, nothing but a bottom who likes it. My fantasy was getting taken by a guy I meet online who needed a room as he was traveling. He had a beard and in exchange for the room he had his way with me. Mine is fantasy also as I view myself as straight. Not sure what this Aeros is doing to me but wow!!!! 

Hi @darwin, here I am, a bisexual guy in a long time relationship with a woman who doesn‘t know or perhaps only pretends to not having noticed. My postbox is always open for you. I‘d too prefer a phone call but I sadly can‘t manage that. 

Perhaps one of my fantasies helps you to find peace with yours. No man would find masturbation a gay thing only because it‘s a man‘s hand bating his own dick, right? 

I named my report „I kissed myself and I liked it.“ (Did you ever licked across your gland?)

I‘d guess, the wish to give up dominance along with a limited fantasy may lead to envisions of gay sex. Lately I‘ve chosen five men and four woman to support one of my wilder fantasies, my bed has become a bit crowded. 😉

“Die Gedanken sind frei, wer kann sie erraten!“ is the chorus of a song I learned in my first school days. 

After all accept and enjoy your fantasies!

Mart

Here is my rather biased and fragmented rambling:

I think the "gay vs straight" with "bi" in between classification might distort our natural sex-map. This "gay-bi-straight" default model also severely oversimplified human sexuality, I am afraid.

From Zeus, Spartan Warriors, to modern marines, many (if not all) men have very intimate relations with other men. One thing we could keep in mind though: very few people would call the Mighty Zeus "gay" or "straight" because such a classification system is a modern invention which also created unnecessary misinformation and guilt plus worry as byproducts.

I could not give you the exact statistics since we do not have the survey data. But I would dare to say this kind of fantasies happen to many more men. Why these fantasies turn you on? Fantasies might be the expression of true desires!

The stories of marines and college boys are often ladened with alcohol and sex. I remember when I was in college, I heard the gassips about these and those girls "expermented" such and such kinds of sex, but they were/are not "lesbians." Boys might "experiement" their fantasies via all sorts of silly "fraternity" parties and they love see other brothers in sex-acts.

Of course people would say (citing a lot of "ism") this is about "power" of the seniority, or wolf pack hierarchy, etc. But, there are so many forms of power-play, why sex is the favored action?

Perhaps there is a much simpler explanation without the need of "ism": men like to see other men doing well and having fun in sex acts and find the silly "fraternity" parties perfect pretext. "Fraternity" --- always involves with many members---is a very orgiestic word, by the way. So when they "engage" each other intimately men could say they are "just" horsing around. No big deal, right!?

Priapus of Milet created a Virtual Gangbang! Perhaps in the near future, with the promising speed of tech-development, every (rich) man could experience. Just wear a pair of goggle and push a button playing the full-body-experience VR program. But will this "virtual" fantasy make the worry of "gay-bi-straight" go away?! Probably not, if we do not change our default model of human sexuality.

But "virtual orgy" surely looks fun!

Gulliver

Posted by: @gulliver-plus

Just wear a pair of goggle and push a button playing the full-body-experience VR program

For this I gladly need no goggles or button, I only need my fantasy!

And coming from a modest background I am thankful to be rich of fantasy.

Thanks for that awesome visualization, @Gulliver!

Cheers, Mart

Posted by: @sowithoutaneros

For this I gladly need no goggles or button, I only need my fantasy! And coming from a modest background I am thankful to be rich of fantasy. Thanks for that awesome visualization, @Gulliver! Cheers, Mart

Indeed, no goggles needed. Mart is a rich man well-endowed with fantastic imagination. Our imagination will take us to the land of self-discorvery & true pleasure.

Our imagination is "free" and it should be FREE from social prejudice or false classification. Freer than free!

Gulliver

Posted by: @gulliver-plus

Our imagination is "free" and it should be FREE from social prejudice or false classification. Freer than free!

„Die Gedanken sind frei, wer kann sie erraten?“  🙂

I don't like all the labels...I don't have a clue where half my fantasies come from, but many have been there since before I knew what sex was.  The only label that fits me is just me. 

That said, some pretty wild ideas went through my head when I was first really tapping into the depths of what aneros play can really be... working up to my first SO. I had recurring thoughts of being in love with my ex girlfriend, and sorrow for breaking up. I had renewed attraction for my wife(I worked hard for that one, long story), and I went through periods of total distortion of reality. I mean like a Picasso painting kind of distortion of faces in my mind. This was all drug free btw. There must have been a million fantasies I had to sort out later. 

I have no idea where some of them came from, but I have seen it written that you are hacking your nervous system to really tap into this kind of play and be prepared for a whole string of emotions. That seems true enough to me given my experience.

I hope this was more than just rambling nonsense, all the best to you, friend.

@pleasureshoe

I have a very similar fantasy like you. I feel like the aneros takes over and anything goes. It's a crazy feeling to just let go and to give in to the pleasure while letting your mind run wild during the session. Not sure what's happening to my sexuality and not sure I care. I just love it though

drop me a note... i have the same secret fantasies... 

Posted by: @ry8517

@pleasureshoe

I have a very similar fantasy like you. I feel like the aneros takes over and anything goes. It's a crazy feeling to just let go and to give in to the pleasure while letting your mind run wild during the session. Not sure what's happening to my sexuality and not sure I care. I just love it though

 

It is a delightful yet profound revelation that such a kind, or kinds, of fantasy is shared by so many men---MORE than what I previously thought!

Many fantasies are HARD to put into words...but I think the artist Priapus of Milet helped us with his images:

RETRO-PHOTO-SHOOT

Gulliver Plus

Posted by: @krissive69

drop me a note... i have the same secret fantasies... 

Here is the Fantasy of Being with Our BED! (I hope somebody make such a sexy kind...in reality)

Gulliver Plus

Fantasy: with a Thoughtful & Caring ROBOT

Gulliver Plus