I think I finally solved the ejaculating problem

I think that if youre having mind blowing orgasms as you state then i would be happy with what you have. I know many people would be very happy having that and nothing more, me included. I would love to know how you experience such powerful orgasms using the aneros. I find the orgasms are nice but ejacualtory orgasms are always far suprerior in terms of intensity and this is a hugely frustrating thing to experience.

What device(s) and techniques do you use?

maybe you will understand what I am describing and disgusting between actual ejaculation and a different kind of cumming

@DrinkItInMan, you probably meant "distinguish"?

What device(s) and techniques do you use?

I started off using the Vice and had some success with that because I was used to vibrating toys and then decided to give the manual toys a try and got a helix syn(backwards I know). The helix syn is the one I've most recently had success with. My "technique" is basically just putting it in laying down on my back and watching some porn. I start with my legs flat on my bed and then after a while I move my legs up so that my feet are flat on the bed with my knees up. This seems to intensify the pleasure and I then switch back and forth between this and knees up to my chest. After a while I can feel the orgasm building. It feels almost the same as a regular orgasm building however if I concentrate I can tell that its coming from my prostate. Keep in mind its taken me over a year to get to even this level of success. I would always get pleasure but never an orgasm. Now the orgasms come within the hour fairly easily.

@womenarelovely I agree with this 100%. It really does feel like extreme edging that ends in something amazing. If the super O is something different than what we are experiencing than I am honestly not sure how to pursue it. Either way I am pretty satisfied and excited at the orgasms I am able to achieve now.

@DrinkItInMan could you explain your process for harnessing the pleasure and helping it manifest into orgasm? I honestly think I'm on the verge of being able to have a prostate orgasm and I've been at this for three years now. any help would be appreciated.

@DrinkItInMan could you explain your process for harnessing the pleasure and helping it manifest into orgasm? I honestly think I'm on the verge of being able to have a prostate orgasm and I've been at this for three years now. any help would be appreciated.

To be honest, I would read the forums that already exist on this topic by more experienced users. For two reasons. One I am terrible at describing things and Two I have only recently achieved "success" and still am not sure if I'm doing it "correctly." I'm still a newbie. But regardless I will try and help.

All I can tell you is that when I first put it in I usually don't feel anything, although that depends on how aroused I am beforehand. After about 20-30 minutes I will really start to feel pleasure building up inside me. The best way I can describe it is that it feels as though I'm masturbating with my prostate. Instead of focusing on stroking my penis I focus on "stroking" my prostate. Simply mentally. Hard to describe so sorry if this is unhelpful. I usually get to this point by watching some porn and using my imagination to really enjoy it. (Imagining I'm the guy and then imaging i'm the girl and then just being the both in general). Once I get to the point where I actually feel pleasure building up I try to build on this. Simply using my mind. Contractions don't really help me I'm not sure why. That's one reason I fear i'm doing it "wrong". Anyway I use mental images and occasional changing of my leg positions (going from flat on the bed to knees in the air to knees against chest and also bringing knees closer together helps). I do whatever I can to harness this orgasm and build on it. Sometimes it is frustrating because it feels very similar to a regular orgasm from masturbation building and I just want to be able to "stroke" myself to orgasm at command but this orgasm takes time and builds on its own speed and I have to surrender to it. Once I get close enough the orgasm happens on its own as an explosion of just really good feeling that last longer and more drawn out than a normal orgasm that ends in ejaculation but I am usually able to keep going. Hope that helped at least a little. Another thing that seems to really help is finding porn of girls having extreme orgasms and imagining I am a girl masturbating. Might just be me but if it helps it helps. Good luck!

One I am terrible at describing things and Two I have only recently achieved "success" and still am not sure if I'm doing it "correctly." I'm still a newbie. But regardless I will try and help.

Hey, @DrinkItInMan, I can't find any better words to describe the same feelings. You mustn't be so critical of yourself, you're a good writer! And no doubt, you are doin' it right!

Actually it takes your mind. To focus on penetrating myself and touching my gland I often visualized using one or two fingers to touch it, push it, press it or only caress it. Sometimes due to some experiences with the real thing I, too, fantasize about getting laid by a well hung guy and I am truly feeling the edge of his glans rubbing my gland.

"Simply using your mind" (well spoken!) you can also try to discover many other sensitive spots you may never have thought of as sexually excitable before. From some threads about chakras, the microcosmic orbit and all our uncountable sensitive spots I learned to get aroused even by licking my palate, short after erotic hypnosis led me to suck my thumb in a new way, touching my palate and pushing it slowly backwards. Meanwhile taking a banana deepthroat gets me aroused in seconds, visualizing I would give head to myself making it feel as if it was real.

Meanwhile I only need to visualize whatever mentioned before to get me aroused and though doing anything at all I nevertheless feel the touches.
In a nutshell: your mind is your sex organ number one. But yawning, moaning, giggling, stretching, muscle tension and especially vocalization can be helpful, too.

Best vibes and good luck!

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Has anyone else experienced their testicles drawing up inside of their body and coming to rest right at the base of their penis during a session? This happens to me when I am particularly aroused for a session and the pleasure is unbelievable and almost overwhelming. I can actually feel my testicles moving around insode my body and almost think I can feel movements of sperm along my Epididymus and Van deferens. Would it be possible to actually feel the sperm moving? It feels like the pressure slowly build and almost like those organs are expanding with fluid or pressure.

Has anyone else experienced their testicles drawing up inside of their body and coming to rest right at the base of their penis during a session? This happens to me when I am particularly aroused for a session and the pleasure is unbelievable and almost overwhelming. I can actually feel my testicles moving around insode my body and almost think I can feel movements of sperm along my Epididymus and Van deferens. Would it be possible to actually feel the sperm moving? It feels like the pressure slowly build and almost like those organs are expanding with fluid or pressure.

yah man my right testicle goes way up inside me!! Usually only during a TO with aneros inside me, while on my back. When my balls get that high up that's when I know I'm going to have the O of the year!!! I also feel the semen and prostate fluid and everything moving more strongly and more distinctly.

To be honest, I would read the forums that already exist on this topic by more experienced users. For two reasons. One I am terrible at describing things and Two I have only recently achieved "success" and still am not sure if I'm doing it "correctly." I'm still a newbie. But regardless I will try and help.

All I can tell you is that when I first put it in I usually don't feel anything, although that depends on how aroused I am beforehand. After about 20-30 minutes I will really start to feel pleasure building up inside me. The best way I can describe it is that it feels as though I'm masturbating with my prostate. Instead of focusing on stroking my penis I focus on "stroking" my prostate. Simply mentally. Hard to describe so sorry if this is unhelpful. I usually get to this point by watching some porn and using my imagination to really enjoy it. (Imagining I'm the guy and then imaging i'm the girl and then just being the both in general). Once I get to the point where I actually feel pleasure building up I try to build on this. Simply using my mind. Contractions don't really help me I'm not sure why. That's one reason I fear i'm doing it "wrong". Anyway I use mental images and occasional changing of my leg positions (going from flat on the bed to knees in the air to knees against chest and also bringing knees closer together helps). I do whatever I can to harness this orgasm and build on it. Sometimes it is frustrating because it feels very similar to a regular orgasm from masturbation building and I just want to be able to "stroke" myself to orgasm at command but this orgasm takes time and builds on its own speed and I have to surrender to it. Once I get close enough the orgasm happens on its own as an explosion of just really good feeling that last longer and more drawn out than a normal orgasm that ends in ejaculation but I am usually able to keep going. Hope that helped at least a little. Another thing that seems to really help is finding porn of girls having extreme orgasms and imagining I am a girl masturbating. Might just be me but if it helps it helps. Good luck!

Mental mental man you nailed it! I've posted on this before, but I use mindfulness during sessions to really get the most out of the sensations. I focus on my prostate and anal contractions by not focusing on them, hard to explain. But if I clear my mind and just breathe and be in the moment, a wonderful biofeedback loop gets created where I can't decide if I'm making the contractions happen or if they are doing it on their own, and then as this "looking at myself from above" moment happens, I usually have a prostate O. I too feel like the whole thing is "stroking" my prostate like it's my cock, somehow that visualization helps me as well. And, same here with taste in porn: girls masturbating and cumming gets me going more than anything nowadays, and I go for the intensity they experience when I'm in a session. I tend to not watch or listen to anything because its too distracting while I'm in a session, but I'll get fired up on that kind of porn before hand most times.

I have had the same experiences as the topic starter: being able to 'stroke' my prostate with the aneros, almost 'edging' it until orgasm occurs. For me, this comes along with ejaculation each and every time again, just like it does with @DrinkItInMan. And just like him, i am able to identify two types of ejaculation: the regular one with full contractions and semen release, initiating the refractory period, but there's also a partial ejaculation where I will shoot some cum, but it will not come out in strong pulses, but rather in a 'stream'. I have sometimes referred to this as 'squirting', as refractory does not seem to set in (although it does relieve the pressure/excitement significantly, like 30-50%) and I am able to continue playing with the Aneros (up to the point of another ejaculation). Another interesting aspect of this alternative ejaculation is that the fluid that comes out seems different from the fluid expelled during a regular ejaculation: it seems to be more translucent (normal cum is whiter) and more fluid, not so thick. @DrinkItInMan , have you noticed this difference as well? Unlike the topic starter, I have no control over which type of these ejaculations I get. @DrinkItInMan , may be you can try to explain how you control this?

I used to think that I am still not succeeding in rewiring because of my wet orgasms, but may be I need to let this idea go? :).
The orgasms I experience are definitely prostate based (or prostate-induced), as i never touch my penis during these sessions (ejaculations are all handsfree). Recently I developed the ability to induce these orgasms through nipple play only (no Aneros involved).

cko23 I have had the same experience as you with the partial ejaculation - and what comes out is exactly the same as when I do a milking of my prostate. In both cases there is a mild feeling of calmness after but no refractory period.