I Need an alternative to porn and or silence during sessions

There are tons of Binural Beats out on utube and I would sit down and listen to some of them and find something that is close to a background type of white noise so that you can focus on your session and not really have to pay attention to what it is you are hearing. The only disadvantage is that most will require headphones to be able to get any value out of them.

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@Spanishguy69 When I do an Aless "session", I sometimes search on YouTube for some erotically sexy tracks. They are readily available and can really put you "in the mood"! Of course, you need headphones and that sometimes is a distraction. Make sure you select a track that is not too short! Some of the better ones are 1-3 hours long. Good luck!

When I do an Aless "session"

About that, what's the way to try an Aless session, is it just a breathing/contracting thing, what's the usual thing people do?

I think the core issue is staying in the moment, and being able to anchor yourself to what you're feeling with the aneros. Listening to something could be one way to do that, but there are physical ways too, like nipple stimulation, or deciding you're going to experiment with a certain kind of contraction. The mind can get bored, and it's hard to keep up the facade that "this is sex" when it doesn't feel like anything sexy is happening. It's a chicken-and-egg situation though, as you rewire and the pleasure comes more easily, it's the pleasure itself that can keep your mind focused. That's how it's worked for me anyway. It's a weird mix of "totally relaxed" and "listening intently".

Well you could listen to porn, could you ? Extract audio from the videos that are most hot to you, and play them in random order. You may want small headphones and an mp3 player with that.

What porn videos you like the most ? I dislike vids where woman screams like she's being murdered (obviously faking), and penetration starts with the words "oh my god". Amateur porn, masturbation, blowjobs, pussy licking, wet pussies etc - I love that.

Maybe we could share our "porn tracks" ?

What site or software do you trust to rip the audio from porn sites?

Trying to cut back on my porn use, but I can't handle silence during a session, my mind wanders and it's very distracting. I need suggestions of other things to listen to during sessions if there are any out there.

Please see Muse Music - Aneros Aural Accompaniment for an extended listing of audio resources suggested by your fellow Anerosians. Contained within that post are also links to some of the suggested audio files. Good Vibes to You !

I like binaural beats, and the audio from porn. My eyes are usually rolling into the back of my head during a session, so the video would do no good.

Porn has always been a distraction for me. Seems to always trigger the traditional masturbation "reflex."

I have been getting some good results with erotic hypnosis. Someone here suggested Shibby Says (much appreciated BTW). You can find her files on youtube, or on reddit/soundgasm. Something about her files and voice that I really like. I tried a few other hypno "authors" and never got into those; so it pays to shop around. The hypno really helps me with relaxation, and especially with keeping my arousal up during a session. It lets me zone out and stop some of the mind noise.

@Clenchy Very well put indeed! True as can be.

I setup a hot/sensual girl on a cam channel with my ipad and with very low/muted sound - then I can fantasize with her by occasionally opening my eyes for a glimpse or watching for longer. The sound can be a distraction (beeping for tokens/tips). Video porn generally sucks (unless 40+min) because you have to change it or the action its what you want. Some audio (ASMR) or similar porn is good (check soundcloud).
Enjoy the Journey!

reddit's /r/gonewildaudio might be worth checking out if you dont wanna worry about ripping audio from porn. I do something similar, In that I just play the video minimized so its nothing but audio. Its actually a cgi porn but has some of the sexiest voice acting i have heard, Its all very slow and sensual with lil to no distracting screaming.