I hope I am getting close!

I have been an Aneros user for about 5 years and sadly I have never had a SUPER O. Possibly have had something close. Not sure. I feel like I have hit some good ground though lately as I have been changing my technique.

I used to always put my Progasm in me and simply hold my butt tight together and it would make my ass shake here and there but nothing mind blowing. Lately though I have been really moving the progasm around I have been trying to mimic a circular motion in my head and I slowly move my shaft of my dick, to my balls, my perineum, to my hole, then I start to suck the progasm into me and hold for 5 seconds. Repeat. When I do this, I have noticed that after a couple times it gets harder to do the whole motion.

I watch porn during my session and I always get soft. I don't know if I am bored or what, but I wish I would stay hard the whole time. Is this normal for a lot of you? I am very turned on, but I just get soft after awhile. I do this and I feel some great sensations and sometimes I start to breath a little harder. Lately, I have worked half my time on my back and legs up to my side. Last session, I turned to my side and I could not move the progasm at all. I have a harder time moving it on my side. With that said, I had this interesting sensation where my dick and lower belly got very warm and it felt wonderful. I felt like the air was slowly being pushed out of me in a good way. It lasted for about a minute or two and then it slowly subsided. When I am on my side, my ass will move around here and there, but nothing has given me a cumming sensation or the urge to moan.

Tonight I laid on my stomach and I could feel the progasm dance in my ass, but after about 40 minutes it started to my ass just started to feel normal. I like laying on my stomach, but my dick is always being pushed into my bed...shouldn't it be hanging out so if I do get some great sensations it will get hard and possibly more?

Any suggestions? I know that it will come when it comes, but after about 5 years, I am running out of ideas!