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What up fellas,
My bad for such a late response to your post. Family issues haven't allowed me to be as active in the forum or with my Aneros use as I would like to be. I have some free time now at work so I wanted to answer your previous proposals and fill you in on my progress.

@isvara When I first read your suggestion I said to myself naw theres no way I'm doing that. After I put my ego to the side which is hard as hell for me I decided I could do it. I just had to act like I was having sex. You know when you tell your girl to do this or touch that. This was really effective. For a little bit it felt like the aneros was talking back, shit was wild! Terrific suggestion.
@rumel Right this was a tremendous way to have an aneros experience. My biggest problem has been giving up my sexual aggression and becoming the taker and not the giver. This let me vocalize that aggression and be relaxed at the same time to receive pleasure. I'm one of them dudes that get off on talking dirty and freaky to a chick this method let me feel like I was still in charge.
@Armon-neat Yo that's an interesting concept. It's almost hard to fully understand. I guess it's something like turning the action away from the sexual side and to self glorification. I kind of understand it but could you better explain this process. Read your post easily ten times, still think I'm missing something.

Like I said earlier fellas I had a few personal issues going on lately. I didn't have the time or the desire to play around with the aneros for a while. What I did do was come up with ways to make my body more at ease with it in me. Since every time I used it I fell asleep I used that to my advantage. I started getting up a hour early every two or three days to put it in and sleep the last hour. Yo it really paid off. A week ago while sleeping with it I got a this strong need to piss. I woke up and right before I jumped up to release I got a strong dry O. If it had been any stronger it would have felt just like a normal nut! I had ten minutes before work so I couldn't get going like I had wanted. So that night I put it back in and had a superb experience. I haven't had The Super O yet though. What I am having is still pretty damn good though. The help I'm getting from you fellas has been invaluable.

@domscraigslist: I wish I knew what I was talking about 8-}. Remember I prefaced it by saying it sounded "nuts". but in all seriousness (really?--yes, really), I think that separating the pleasuring that we get from prostate and anal stimulation with the Aneros device (and for those fortunate enough to have learned how to A-lessly do it) from our preconceived notions of sexual stimulation, removing the usual triggers, and just relaxing into the "zone" is a good thing. And once that "re-wiring" has taken root (mixed metaphor--tsk, tsk), the spillover to sexual activity can be applied in conjugal, sexual activity that is mightily aided by those new found neural pathways. We have been discussing how Aneros use has improved our sex lives in another thread started by AneRico.

I suppose if I had worded my plea for help more like this man you guys would have been more helpful. Honestly there have times I too thought about just trashing the things (particularly when I threw out all other sex toys before moving in with my girlfriend) but instead I just ended up buying more models lol, searching for which one was right for me and would work the best. I too believe part of my difficulty is I like to feel in control so it's hard sometimes just giving in and not trying to control the movement of the massager too much. Looks like some great advice in this thread, I'll keep reading for the helpful advice I wasn't given, though it is nice having advices tailored to your specific issues and obstacles...

I suppose if I had worded my plea for help more like this man you guys would have been more helpful. Honestly there have times I too thought about just trashing the things (particularly when I threw out all other sex toys before moving in with my girlfriend) but instead I just ended up buying more models lol, searching for which one was right for me and would work the best. I too believe part of my difficulty is I like to feel in control so it's hard sometimes just giving in and not trying to control the movement of the massager too much. Looks like some great advice in this thread, I'll keep reading for the helpful advice I wasn't given, though it is nice having advices tailored to your specific issues and obstacles...

You can see how the need to control is counter-productive to the Aneros experience. So don't beat yourself up over it, just accept that you may need time to learn a new way...a more relaxed way...a more trusting way to let your body, your prostate and your subconscious take you on a journey of self-awareness and exploration, the likes of which you have never experienced! Imagine...just with your mind, body and soul, you can experience minutes or even hours of pleasurable sensations that rival traditional orgasms, and which you are capable of having with patience and practice without anything more than just your own commitment to yourself to love and nurture your own soul! You deserve these experiences as much as anyone else...let it happen and be willing to let it take you wherever it may lead!

TG

Waddup fellas. I want to fill y'all in on my process. The feelings inside my ass are progressing quickly and my prostate is certainly starting to wake up. The only problem I am dealing with now is I'm sort of stalled. No complaints it's still feeling good as hell. Not the super o yet though. How did you fellas get over that last little hump. I'm so close I can taste it!

@domscraigslist,Just keep going. It will happen when you least expect it.

Trying to make it happen never works!