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@ineverknew yes exactly! i woulnd't want to raise suspicions, lol! besides, everyone knows to stay away from the basement/workshop area, as i always have a few projects going on down there! before the rule, tools and parts always came up missing. they can have the run of the entire house, just stay away from the man-cave! and no surprise visits, unless it's to bring me a beer, LOL! 😉

@Vanakin41
You give the best, most descriptive and visual responses. It's almost like I'm there with you (no offense). I am normally not into nipple play but if it gets your gears grinding the way you say it will be worth the try.
I think instead of 0 to 100 most of my process has had me sitting in the parking garage and occasionally in reverse. All jokes aside mine was definitely on its way to the trash until reaching out to the people here on this site. In the last five years of our off again on again relationship my aneros may have taken me from 0 to maybe 20 25 tops and recently I was back in the teens. So after my recent session which I would say revved up my engine to at least 40 I was taken by surprise by how quick the leap up was. And for the last two days I have had this almost constant hummmmmmmming coming from my prostate. It's had me questioning if I've done something wrong or even worse hurt myself. I can be honest enough to say I have slight control issues and it feels like my body is now controlling it self. Usually I can turn my self off and on but this humming, this perpetual buzzing that's going I have no control over all day at work today every time things were slow I would notice it. Am I still humming a few times while I was there I went to the bathroom hoping that it was just a sign that my bladder was full. Nope I was still humming, buzzing, vibrating. I feel like I may have opened a can of worms with this thing has everyone else experienced this?
@mdad
You said yours does it too, do you have any control over this? And how long has it been going on?
@ineverknew
Is this an experience that is going to be a new permanent feature in my life will it continue to be delightfully annoying lol?

It may evolve into a very pleasant feeling ache that reminds you that your prostate is very much awake and ready for stimulation! That's what I feel every day!!!

@Vanakin41, I hear ya! lol My mancave is my shop in the back of the garage. It used to be just my area for playing PS3 cause the wife was getting sick of me playing inside. Now though she comes out to my area to get away from the kids. Well I can at least lock the door on her and the kids. She has interrupted some sessions in the past and asked why the door was locked, my response was usually just you never mind, what happens in the mancave stays in the mancave!! lol I dont try to hide my aneros devices from her, i have some in the house and in the garage. If she looked she could easily find them but we havent broached the subject.

@domscraigslist, I'm not sure that its permanent, but yes i feel something from my prostate almost everyday. Depends on what I'm doing or thinking. If I'm working its usually not a bother, but the second I see a sexy lady it will start getting fired up. The feelings may seem significant right now but as time goes on they will be less bothersome and mostly enjoyable. So no worries, you didnt break anything, what you described is normal and will be less bothersome soon.

@Theme_Gasm
Are you serious every day lol. How come I never heard this before? I knew that the prostate awakening process was filled with all types of new things but this is really surprising.
@ineverknew
Every time I see a sexy girl? Lol so what you guys are telling me is this thing is going to act like I did during my teenage years. The difference is erections just were hard to hide but these have pleasurable pulses that catch me off guard. That's going to be kind of hard to hide. I have been cautious to even have a session I'm a little worried things might be progressing to fast for me. Lol remember just a few days ago I was having almost nothing happen! Thanks for the help you all.

@domscraigslist the awakening of your prostate, this humming that you feel, is a sign that you are on the right track and on your way to experiencing the super-o's you've been trying for so many years to achieve. just go with it, no worries, just allow your body to experience these waves of pleasure... it's completely normal. moreover, a congratulations is in order here! Good job brother m/ And to think, you were just about ready to throw it away! Your last ditch effort really paid off man 🙂 Maybe this all had to happen.. I have a theory... In short, sometimes the only route to the top is from the bottom... no pun intended, lol!

@domscraigslist btw, I do remember feeling a bit of concern when i first awoke my prostate. You are not alone. this initial feelings seem unpredictable and beyond your control. but don't worry, your not going to have some kind of orgasmic meltdown! it's kind of like when a blind person all of a sudden able to see or someone who was born with no feeling in his hand is all of a sudden able to feel. your prostate is now awake and able to feel for the very first time. you are the driver, you own the road... you have the keys to start it up or turn it off. soon, you will get used to it and have full control over it. but in the meantime, have fun with the unpredictability 🙂

@domscraigslist - Yes, every day! It's not annoying at all ! In fact, it's a very comforting feeling that I cherish because it reminds me of how amazing my journey is, and continues to be!

So, a little each day, at work or anywhere, when I need a mental break, I'll sit down, relax my mind a bit, and do some gentle contractions, and I'll get some of the absolutely most exquisite p-waves flowing from my head to my toes, and I'll do this for 5-15 minutes...waves flowing about every 10-15 seconds...and I just enjoy it, no pressure, and nobody can see anything outwardly from me! It's my own secret garden of orgasms!

Then I'll tell myself how lucky I am to be alive and to be able to give myself these feelings, then I take a deep breath and get up and walk away with a smile on my face and in my heart! I feel so blessed with this ability!

I actually dreamed, early in my journey, that I would be able to achieve this level of nearly on-demand pleasure, and this is one dream that came true!

Lately, I have more fun without my Aneros than with it! That's another amazing thing to me! I could never have imagined it was even possible!

@ineverknew lol! i've had a couple sessions interrupted as well... my wife knocking at the door, "what are you doing in there?" ummm... honey, what do people usually do in the bathroom? i'm reading national geographic and taking a dump! now take your sweet ass on up out of here.. i'll come upstairs after i'm done! my wife knows all about my aneros... she actually welcomes it because of prostate health issues in my family line... my grandpa, my uncle both died from prostate cancer and recently my dad was diagnosed with it, but had treatments and surgery, he's now in remission and in good health. She actually encourages me to use it but has no idea how often i do so. She understand the aneros from a surface standpoint... and i did admit that i liked the way it feels... but has no idea of it's depth or how important it is to me. At one point, i had thought about incorporating it into our lovemaking... but there have been times recently, when in a fight/argument, she has let her insecurities and anger fly and has said to me, "well, why don't you just go fuck your toy, you don't need me!!" There is absolutely not truth to that statement, she knows it and has apologized. Even still, maybe out of my own insecurities, i've decided against bringing it in to our bedroom. As it stands at the moment, I feel it would only complicate matters. As i'm sure you know, women may say one thing and feel another.. I dunno, it's confusing... On one hand it might be a awesome experience! but on the other hand, who knows really what a woman is thinking.. I don't want to give her the impression that i am relenting any kind of control over it. give em an inch, they'll take it a mile, lol! As selfish as this may sound, the aneros is mine! A personal journey and i feel it is intended to be a personal journey. As married men, we give up a lot of freedom and a lot of ourselves as protectors, providers, etc.. we share pretty much everything! but when the lady goes fucking around in your personal space, placing doilies and flower vases in the man cave, it is then time to put up the no trespassing signs and escort her back to the kitchen... haha, that was a joke... but really, somethings are just personal and should remain that way!

@Vanakin41, yeah my wife was teasing me not too long ago about me getting to that age where the ole DOC needs to put his finger up my bum, my response was, hey I'm good in that dept. LOL She just looked at me puzzled. I'm turning 40 this year, so I really do need to start thinking about prostate health, but now im worried i might get a hard-on when the time does come for the finger!!! LOL I've actually had sex with her a few times with my MGX in, didnt really do too much for me and she didnt even know, but we rarely have sex anymore anyways. She's actually married to her job I think. She's 5 yrs younger then me so I'm just waiting for her to hit her sexual prime, which can happen any day I hope :!!. She usually doesnt mess with my space too much though I have noticed a yankee candle and a plug in air freshner which I'm positive isnt mine LOL

Alright guys just found out due to the bad weather I have no work in the am. With all the humming I've been getting I almost feel like my body will be mad at me if I don't have a session with it tonight so here goes. I am not expecting anything special. Like I've heard it stated before I'm going in with a blank slate and an open mind.

@domscraigslist, let us know how it went.

@ineverknew it didn't go well. The first 10 minutes were amazing I got my first involuntary twitches and I think I had a few light p waves but after that the rest of the session was just occasional light flutters. After 2 hours I called it a night. I am still glad that I'm making some progress. Even if it's little. Also today those constant prostate hums have stopped.

@domscraigslist, well its good to have realistic expectations. They arent all gonna be great sessions. I'm learning myself more and more each time that having a desire in a sexy way to have your prostate massaged will give better sessions then when your prostate is horny, if that makes sense. My prostate will get fired up giving me all kinds of pleasure just yearning to be touched, those are the times my sessions feel good but never seem to amount to much, but if the thought of it being massaged starts making me horny and my prostate is sorta quiet those seem to be the best sessions. So I guess what I'm saying is having a session just for the sake of just doing it or for other motives may not yield good results, it has to almost be a turn on just thinking about before the session. at least thats my take lol.

@ineverknew
No that makes perfect sense. Prior to my session my prostate was begging to get touched. All day it hummed for me to pay it attention and I finally gave in last night. I thought since I was going to be snowed in at the house alone it was perfect. I did all the things that get me going a nice shower and walking around the house to dry off. Setting naked in my massage chair always gets me going. So then I read up on the site and got myself ready. But I honestly wasn't horny and your comment makes since I think that made the difference. Great observation.

Hey guys got a question does the number of time you ejaculate have an effect on your aneros sessions. I have had a few mediocre sessions and I'm wondering if it has anything to do with my normal sex with my girlfriend? If it does how often should I go without cumming/ejaculating?

If you're having sex with the gf everyday, then so be it! If not, then don't jerk off on the days you're not! Leave those days for the Aneros!

@domscraiglist I really don't think it matters that much... some of my greatest sessions were the day after having sex with my wife. however, i would wait at least 24 hrs just to insure your horny. for some ppl it doesn't matter at all.. for me, the hornier i am, the better the session.

on another note, lately my sessions have been pretty lame... not sure why? my prostate is not responding as usual... i think it's something mental... i dunno? whatever it is, i need to hurry it up and figure it out! makes me a little nervous!

@Theme_Gasm ok thanks I can have sex with her and not ejaculate but it's good to know I can keep doing the regular things.

@Vanakin41 Great to know that I can enjoy my aneros but also enjoy my girlfriend as well. I sympathis completely with sessions that are duds. If only there was a way to get your mind and body to do what you want them to do whenever you want this whole journey would be so much easier!

Hey guys got a question does the number of time you ejaculate have an effect on your aneros sessions. I have had a few mediocre sessions and I'm wondering if it has anything to do with my normal sex with my girlfriend? If it does how often should I go without cumming/ejaculating?

IMHO, it is your arousal level which has the greatest influence on your body's response in an Anerosession. Depending on your age, physical condition and libido level there is no particular formula one can point to, however, there is evidence that short periods of abstinence can elevate one's arousal level thus making successful Anerosessions more likely, see Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence & Are you "aroused"?

If only there was a way to get your mind and body to do what you want them to do whenever you want this whole journey would be so much easier!

I have a very different viewpoint on that concept. IMHO, it is our ego consciousness trying to control everything that gets in our way to the Super-O zone. it would be much easier to get to the pleasure our bodies are fully capable of providing if we would just let the body do its thing while our overly analytical egos sit on the sidelines observing. Your body is not a puppet that responds to every whim of the ego and your subconscious has far more control and influence than you are currently aware of when it comes to the body. Good Vibes to You !

@domscraigslist, you can have sex with your girl and not ejaculate? How do you pull that off? lol

@Vanakin41, could be stress, work, and any number of things. Or it could be something we dont understand. Over the past few years I've had dry spells that lasted a few months and not really sure why, but when they were over things had changed for the better as far as my prostate pleaures.

@ineverknew
it's not complicated I do a lot of edging and when we have sex she doesn't take to long to climax after two times I usually make myself cum but I don't have to. It's different with oral sex I usually can't last more than 20 minutes of that.

@rumel
You give the best advice I am about to read up on all my homework right now I will tell you how it goes!

This has been a roller coaster ride of a thread! All the participants have made a real contribution to those who have not been successufl and, though I feel like a "lurker", having only seen this thread tonight, I just wanted to get my two cents in. @Vanakin41 (and ineverknew):1.regarding the seated position, and for anyone concerned about losing their aneros into the toilet: You can get an inflatable ring, like a small life preserver, that is used for people with hemorrhoids, and that allows you to sit in a chair with enough room below for the aneros to move freely. I, too, find that the quickest way to start up is in a semi-reclining chair with the "life preserver" underneath, or else, with my derrier just off the chair. Once I get to a plateau, I'll go to the reclining position (to save my back) and continue.
2. As far as intercourse with the aneros in place: I've had some very exciting sex with my Helix Syn in and my wife noticed the difference (but not the aneros). [I've posted about this elsewhere]
All the best to all.
3. Regarding nipple stimulation: There's a point where nipple stimulation is so powerfully felt down there, that it's totally wild. It took a while for that part of the re-wiring to take effect for me, but I heartily recommend it!
All the best to all, especially domscraigslist.

AneRico.... Thanks for posting one of my threads. Although i am very new at this i really hope my comments can help others along as it has helped me.

This another thread that updates where i currently am at.

https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/15573/not-sure-where-to-go-from-here-need-some-expert-advise-please-#Item_2

Happy anerosing guys....

I have a very different viewpoint on that concept. IMHO, it is our ego consciousness trying to control everything that gets in our way to the Super-O zone

I've had good experiences trying to go to sleep with the aneros in. Of course I can never actually get to sleep because the stimulation is a little too distracting. But the act and mindset of getting into my usual sleeping position and telling myself it's sleepy time allows me to go into this whole other mode, than if I'm trying to have some kind of sexy aneros session. It's something I've been experimenting with lately and I think there's definitely something to it.

What's up guys I'm going to touch on all of your comments but first I would like to get your opinion on my current status. I got my girlfriend to agree to a little game. We were to watch a porn together and do everything they did no matter what. Now recently I've seen that a large amount of x rated features involve men get their ass holes eaten out. With the newfound pleasures I've been receiving from the aneros, (due almost completely from the suggestions of you all) I wanted to know what getting my ass eaten would feel like. My gf would normally never go for this but this she has always been fair and I knew if it was a game I could get it to happen. We went to a pornsite and chose a random movie (so she thought I had already made an account and set up several movies that had my desired outcome) and we agreed to do what ever we saw. About 20 minutes into the move the guy bends over and the girl goes to town. My gf is looking like what in the hell so I act like I don't want to do it which makes her want to do it more. We are both pretty competitive and she wanted to win. I guess my acting skills are pretty good because she bought it and really went to work on my ass hole. The woman on the movie called the guys but man pussy and he moaned, so we did the same thing. Now she didn't touch my prostate but I could feel it pulsate harder and harder with every lick she gave me. I was loosing my mind. We were not able to finish because she had a family emergency but it was great. I went home and put in my aneros but sort of fell asleep and didn't really feel much. I wanted to know if any of you guys have experienced rimming and does enhance or take away from sessions?

@Armon-neat
You right this has been a hell of a ride, specifically for a guy who was about to throw it out and walk away. Now my sessions are getting better and better. I have been looking forward to a session on the toilet like the guys have suggested. Specifically since during my bm's I've been feeling tingles and humming. Nipple stimulation sounded interesting so a few nights ago I did and it def enhanced everything. If it's worked so great for you I will continue to explore nipple stimulation. Thank you for your input.

@Donchich
Hope you enjoy your journey. Don't do like I did and keep it to yourself continue to ask for help and things will continue to get better.

@Clenchy
I actually fell asleep with it last night. It did nothing for me other than quick burst of pleasure that dissipated as soon as they came. What do you think about or do prior to sleep that enhances these sessions for you?

I have I think discovered a block. It is based on what @rumel is quoted as saying above. I have noticed that just as I begin to be aware of something new and nice beginning to happen it goes away. So I investigated this further. What I found was although I thought I remained relaxed and open in fact I noticed a subtle mental interference and a subtle muscular tightening up that stopped what was happening. It was certainly a mental control that took over. Now the really hard part is to see if I can stop, block, or undo that very subtle interference. It is a real pain and sneaks up so softly I don't realize it has happened until I become aware of the muscular tension. I don't know if I am on the right track with this but it seems to be my problem and may be with others too.

Haha yeah, any time something new happens, I'm surprised and I stop it from happening again. Some of the sensations are not subtle, and they can be scary. Just the other day I had what felt like a surge of electricity hit my prostate; it was intense and it felt like it could have gone either way - crippling pain or immense pleasure, I wasn't sure. I had heard about such sensations before, so I didn't panic. But it hit so hard and fast that there was no way my brain wasn't going to have to do some processing and analyzation before moving forward. The next time it happens, I'm sure I'll be better prepared.