I get tired of having a long orgasm. Is there any other way?

That's a tough one, I think it will depend a lot on how you classify everything and your experience with various orgasmic feelings. If "an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm" to you, which is totally fine, maybe the following won't make sense. I'll try to explain the best I can without making it a philosophical thing.

For me, there are 2 major kinds of orgasms. The well known "calm seas" and the opposite which I decided to call "rough seas". Now I can't just say passive and active and I'll explain why in a moment.

So in calm seas, I'm just floating in bliss and not doing anything outside my mind, but a lot is happening inside, I'll get insights about things sometimes. It's mostly relaxation based. I feel happy and refreshed after. I guess this is what you're looking for.

In rough seas, it's all about fucking or getting fucked, lots of body movement and tensing but not much going in the brain department. It's arousal based. I feel spent and tired after. Again, I guess that's what you're trying to take a break from.

So both are active and passive in their own way. It's not as simple as using "do nothing" to get calm seas and "tug of war" to get rough seas, although I'm sure it could work for some, if they know how to work both methods. What works to a degree is using tension or relaxation positions, and relaxed or labored breathing to coax things in one direction. 

That's what I'd suggest you try, find your most relaxed position and most relaxing breathing pattern, listen to calming music or raindrops or wind and try to see if you can orgasm that way. It should lead to an orgasm that is just as powerful but less taxing. I like laying on my back, on a firm surface, arms by my sides, eyes closed. Think of erotic things instead of pornographic ones, snuggling instead of penetrating. I'd go so far as to recommend using your "gentlest" toy for this, maybe a Peridise, Eupho... Stuff like that. Good luck and take care! 

This is an interesting topic. I don't know for sure but I feel most guys on here want to further ratchet up the intensity and lose themselves in a torrent of pleasure/sensation. A little fatigue at the end of a session (a good amount if followed up with an ejaculation) seems inevitable, at least in how I experience my sessions. @Zentai was awesome in providing his analogy so I'll follow up with my anecdotes.

In the thread Finally making the connection, @SeekingPelican talks about how there's no ceiling to his orgasms, and they only get more and more intense. I feel and experience the same thing -- something that Mantak Chia talks about in his book The Multi-Orgasmic Man. See the attached picture for reference, which itself has a lot of theory in Taoist sexual practices, so that might be of interest to explore.

It's like walking up an endless staircase, with slower and faster pacing throughout the trip. That illustration here helps to give an idea of that this can feel like, though I'd describe my experiences as feeling more like forward propulsion/gravitational vortex/rocketing/flying. I don't resist any change in sensation whether its a light PC muscle action or full involuntary auto-fucking. While I eventually adjust to the intensity level after orgasming, it will eventually ramp up further and higher until I plunge into another orgasm.

I don't think wanting to control anything in session would be desirable in the end? Not sure how I can help further with this topic. Eager to see what others will say if they weigh in.

@poseidon Wanting tips for less intense orgasms is a somewhat unusual request but I can see where frekans is coming from. If your sessions are too intense and get a little scary, or you have to stop because you're tired or uncomfortable or cramping, it takes some of the fun away pretty fast. Or if you have back problems or knee problems and you're hurting the next day, or if you end your session with a headache, things of that nature.

I think that's a level of "control" that is acceptable, where you're setting the stage for calmer results but still letting go when things start happening on their own. Or making the decision to stay at a certain pleasure "height" or "zone" that is comfortable to you while letting things happen at that particular place. It's like The Matrix, some rules can be bent a little, some a lot, depending of what you have internalized at that point in time. As always, just my opinion based on the experience of a single, very satisfied customer. 

I mean if you've reached your time limit, you could always ejaculate...

I agree with you, especially Zentai. Thank you for the replies and the good advice. I will try all your writing.