I can't keep an erection when i insert my Aneros...

aneros_user43664,

If your goal is to reach a Super-O then just release thoughts of your penile state, IMHO, it will only slow down your rewiring progress to have any focus on your penis. In the initial learning phases of Aneros use you need to establish new sensual associations for pleasure dervied from your prostate stimulation. Please read the Penis, NOT! thread by 'Cockadoodle' and 'rook's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind--the mental side for a little insight.

Now after reading those threads, if you still wish to pursue full erections while using your Aneros massager, here are a few options. #1.) You could use any traditional masturbatory technique to maintain a minimal level of stimulation to your penis. #2.) You could try one of the popular ED drugs (Viagra, Cialis or Levitra). #3.) You could try using a penis pump. #4.) you could try any number of purported natural aphrodisiac herbs (Yohimba, Maca, Horny Goat Weed, etc.)

In any event, being concerned about your erectile state is likely to be a distraction to immersing yourself into the relaxed state of mind/body necessary to experience the Super-O. If you 'let go' of your thoughts about your penis you may find yourself cycling though erect and flaccid modes during an Anerosession, this cycling can be enjoyable by itself.

Thankyou very helpful.