How to use Aneros to help trigger ejaculation, without a full "load" built up??

A good libido is a good thing but the aneros is for orgasm not ejaculation. You find the orgasms you can experience are far more enjoyable then coming up dry. You should use the aneros to learn about building arousal and slow sexual build ups. There is really no need to ejaculate everyday. Good luck.

Bruce
I totally get what you're saying; and I realize that my dilemma is outside the normal purpose of the tool. But I'm wondering if it can't be used for my purpose as well.
Put another way: my wife currently gets stuck with many quite long, "dry" sessions; which could be much quicker if I could find a way to trigger the ejaculation.
Point well taken about building slow arousal. I'll be trying that.
Doubt I'm capable of orgasm without ejaculation; but will try.
Thanks!

If you mean something like hands-free ejaculating, it's often a result of mental focus and directly stimulating the prostate (among other areas) — compared to massaging it, which is more of what the Aneros toys focus on.That sort of event is very hard to actually encourage, though, and it's typically a nuisance that users new to perineum stimulation experience.