How do you fight the temptation to end a long session with a traditional orgasm?

After using my toys for extended sessions...I start winding down, but I have such an urge to orgasm built up, that it's almost impossible to keep my hands off of myself. Should I remove the toy, wait a while and then masturbate? Or what do you all think?

Please read the responses to the thread The journey has been amazing so far, except for one thing.... As an addition to some of the suggestions in my post in that thread, you might try applying a numbing creme to your penis as you are winding down your session. This may provide enough diminution of sensation that you will be able to forego the temptation to masturbate to ejaculation, at least long enough for you to get yourself involved in some other positive physical activity. Good Vibes to You !

I usually always go for a TO after a good session. It's the cap to a wonderful time. If you are having prostate orgasms, like dry Os or super Os, and you are "winding down" from them, do you feel like you can keep having them or do you feel maxed out? It gets to the point where my anus and rectum are just not contracting much anymore and my prostate isn't getting the stimulation it needs to keep having orgasms. I'll usually wait a little, maybe a few minutes, and if not much more is happening I'll start coaxing up an erection and work into a TO slowly, and it is the most delicious thing ever. I leave the toy in, or switch to one that is going to feel a certain way on my prostate when my TO hits. It is very intense and extremely amazing and when I finally have an orgasm/ejaculation with a toy in, it is unreal, simply unreal. After that there isn't a thing I want or need! Satisfaction to the extreme.

The TOs I've had probably hundreds of times with a toy in has done nothing to "unwire" me. I can have dry Os within a few minutes or less of inserting a toy. If you are completely tuned in to your sessions, and the Aneros toys start to feel like they belong in you, then to me there's no way a TO with or without a toy in you is going to ruin your rewiring. But, this is just me, however, I speak from 13 years of experience using Aneros toys throughout this time period, and waiting 10 years to finally have a super O. All of my prostate orgasms are hands-free and I don't touch my cock until I'm ready to have a TO at the end of my session. I don't even give myself a cheat tug when I start to get erect from toy use alone.

I just don't see the point in denying yourself from easily the most explosively powerful orgasm/ejaculation combo I think a man can have. A TO with a toy in you still is, again to me, the best way to feel what the Aneros toys are truly capable of; I feel the contours and exactly what the shape of the toy does to me while in the throes of a TO. I feel it all very well while not in a TO state, but in a TO state, it's amplified. I'm a believer in fulfilling the need for self-pleasure, and those kinds of releases are healthy for not only the mind but the body. People on this forum will disagree with me whole heartedly, but I don't care. I go for the GUSTO each and every time because why the fuck not???

@techpump To me it seems like the advice to not finish with an ejaculatory orgasm is aimed at beginners. If you're already re-wired sufficiently, then yeah, finish with a traditional orgasm!

Since you're a very experienced user, I hope you don't mind me asking a question. Do you ever have any dry penile orgasms? If so, how do they compare in intensity compared to a ejaculatory orgasm?

@techpump To me it seems like the advice to not finish with an ejaculatory orgasm is aimed at beginners. If you're already re-wired sufficiently, then yeah, finish with a traditional orgasm!

Since you're a very experienced user, I hope you don't mind me asking a question. Do you ever have any dry penile orgasms? If so, how do they compare in intensity compared to a ejaculatory orgasm?

Yes, so true man, for the unwired starters, ending with a TO is probably not the best. You got me thinking that if the session for the new guy ends and he craves a bigger release, the next session he has should be really good, possibly leading to either their first dry O, their first super O, or something bigger than what they currently were experiencing.

I don't mind the q's. Yes I have dry penile orgasms all the time from Aneros/prostate stimulation. It takes random amounts of time--sometimes a minute, sometimes 20 minutes--for any semen or prostate fluid to leak out. But when that happens, I'm usually not having an orgasm, it just comes out (although I can feel it happen in my prostate when a drop or stream oozes out of me). But yes man, dry orgasms are the norm for me with prostate orgasms. I have never "ended wet" or had anything like a traditional ejaculation as a prostate orgasm occurs. I really wish I did, and I tricked myself into believing I wasn't having real orgasms for years and years because I truly thought that I HAD to end wet in order for it to be a super O. I was so wrong! Dry Os are great 🙂

If I go on for too long, I feel like I get closer and closer to ejaculating, but I never actually reach it. When I feel like I'm going in that direction I take the Aneros out.

After a long session, I'd end it with a good prostate milking rather than an ejaculation - but that is just my personal preference.