How do you deal with having no privacy?

All my doors have locks, wife doesn't know yet about any of my toys, don't think she'd understand & its not a sexual relationship anyway :((. Anyhow I'm just a secretive type, adds to the excitement :-$

Can you.. "take up yoga" make an "exercise room", oh its time for my yoga, & need isolation so as to meditate .. (which you really do need for yoga) or im embarrist doing poses etc
😉

I on occasions have trouble sleeping so in order not to disturb my wife I go off to the spare room where I don't seem to have any problem sleeping
:-$

I solved this privacy issue by talking to my wife about the aneros and prostate massage.She was a little surprised, but she is understanding now lets me "go to bed early"...

Bottom line; I was honest and open about it, it worked 🙂

I aneros right in-front of my friends, its not like they have x-ray vision. The only exception is the progasm ice (and the classic models) which I have to use laying down as the ice has that fin that sticks out and it may be visible through clothes if you haven't a big arse. Those tabs of the classics and pro can hurt to sit on. All other models are ok.

Quickies in the shower are fun even if they don't give the full experience. The water from the shower helps with relaxation.

Not for people in drought areas!

I solved this privacy issue by talking to my wife about the aneros and prostate massage.She was a little surprised, but she is understanding now lets me "go to bed early"...

Bottom line; I was honest and open about it, it worked 🙂

+1

Communication is the foundation of any relationship. If you cannot communicate your desires, you need to fix your relationship. If they love you, they will come around in strange and magical ways 😉

My wife knows but doesn't want to get involved. I respect her wishes by usually waiting until she has a night out with her girlfriends.

I'm sure some of you here don't get the chance to enjoy aneros play as often as you'd like.Living with your parents, roommates, friends, significant other who doesn't know or understand about aneros play, and what not...

If this is the case, not having your own private time to enjoy,
how do you get the most out of it?

I struggle with this also and it lead me to toss my model in the trash. Live w/ the folks here. Surprised I wasn't caught during the time i did rides. No lock in my door either. Hate not being able to ride peacefully.

I struggle with this also and it lead me to toss my model in the trash. Live w/ the folks here. Surprised I wasn't caught during the time i did rides. No lock in my door either. Hate not being able to ride peacefully.

Well that totally SUCKS! & and should be not acceptable by you, tell them you are now doing YOGA and require a int door lock set ($9 at Masters). Besides, anerosing is a in itself a form of meditation and a style of yoga. Unlike other hobbies there is no physical evidence needed such as creating building etc, dont really need Nything either maybe a thin mat & some exercises even require grunting & groning. Last: There are must worse secrets that one could keep. for me I work shifts so I need a sleeping room anyway (nuk, nuk, nuk)

You goda fight!
For the right
To paaaaaarty!
:-c

I struggle with this also and it lead me to toss my model in the trash. Live w/ the folks here. Surprised I wasn't caught during the time i did rides. No lock in my door either. Hate not being able to ride peacefully.

Well that totally SUCKS! & and should be not acceptable by you, tell them you are now doing YOGA and require a int door lock set ($9 at Masters). Besides, anerosing is a in itself a form of meditation and a style of yoga. Unlike other hobbies there is no physical evidence needed such as creating building etc, dont really need Nything either maybe a thin mat & some exercises even require grunting & groning. Last: There are must worse secrets that one could keep. for me I work shifts so I need a sleeping room anyway (nuk, nuk, nuk)

You goda fight!
For the right
To paaaaaarty!
:-c

Easier said than done.

Most of my sessions when I'm home are Do nothing style and I try to keep them either before my wife comes to bed ( and before intercourse) or après sex when she's asleep. In any case I have kept the device in during sex with great results for her and me. I've found that the Progasm Jr. Is best for that