Hello

Welcome to the board.

I would say to approach an Aneros session as a meditation. Go in with no expectations and aim for a still mind. Focus on the energy source and movement.

Yeah I know what you are talking about.
As a matter of fact I have been getting progressively and obviously healthier since I started working with a Progasm last fall.
My sex drive is much stronger but more controlled at the same time and I feel more satisfied than I have since I can't remember.
My muscle tone has improved greatly I get little spasms occasionally like twiches in certain muscles and areas in my body that feel like blockages opening up.
My favorite thing is the energy level I have as it just keeps getting higher and more stable.
It real is a wonderful tool.

Hi lingananda!

Welcome to the Forum!

You really have the proper attitude for success with the Aneros and your meditative experience WILL help you allot
with the relaxation needed to open your body's natural abilities!

The Journey for me IS "everything" and the pleasure along the way is just icing on the cake of life! LOL!

Don't feel like the Lone Ranger on the no girlfriend thing either! (It could even be a benefit to your learning sessions . . .
no external interruptions and more concentration???)

Have Fun and enjoy your Journey!

Later, Hlaser99

Hi everyone, thanks for the welcome. Yeah, I try not to worry about not having a girlfriend, and have had the same thoughts about a grander preparation, more time for concentration, etc. You never know what Goddess has planned. I used the law of attraction to create a healthy sex life, and shortly thereafter I found the Aneros, so it works out. I must say, even at the initial stages, I still feel much more satisfied using it, much more akin to the feelings with a partner, as opposed to just the old regular same old. I feel very impressed about this. I also continue to notice the lack of depletion after use. I had two sessions since last posting, both lasted an hour and ended with an ejaculation, but I think the increased pleasure, generating feed-forward loops etc. provides greater benefit, hence making up for the depletion. my working theory. In the session before last, things felt pretty standard, then suddenly it felt like someone had turned on a switch to the whole prostate area, and all these nerves
came online or something. "Of course it feels that way," my inner self chided, "you've never had that area massaged before." So far I can have extendeds, and have started getting the trick of holding back, which the Aneros makes easier. I've tried to master it for years, but the design of the Aneros totally helps. THe p-tap provides the easy way to squeeze the valve off, I love the p-tap. Also, since the beginning, I've had the landmark described of feeling like it itches a spot which needs it. I'll have to research a little, I wonder if the prostate stores sexual frustration. It also must correspond to the inner female, that feeling of receptive intercourse described in the wiki or whereever, one of the landmarks.