Having trouble

Stay with it. Give yourself more time for a session. I find that I prefer to keep it open ended rather that say I have an hour so that will be it. That just builds the tension that in turn destroys the sensations emerging and makes it 'performance oriented' - as in task and finish.
Don't be disappointed - it is a good product - read the threads - particularly B Mayfield's for an understanding of what you need to consider.
calton

I guess I am at the same stage as you TurtleTownMan. I have only had the Aneros a week or so but having read most of the forum, I have decided to take things really slowly. My guess is that if you expect too much too soon you may be dissapointed. I also have time constraints, It's not easy. That said the Aneros feels more comfortable after just a few minutes rather than the 45 minutes it took me to feel "comfortable" the first time I used it. I havent felt anything exciting from the Aneros yet but to be fair, I am new to anything being inserted into my rectum. I am willing to give the Aneros a fair chance though.

Hope this post helps.

C

Originally Posted By: TurtleTownMan
Well I spent about 45 min with my 1st session and didn't come close to anything. I cleaned myself out 1st like some have suggested, thought I used enough lubricant, and tried the breathing and trying to relax. Although it's hard to relax when you're trying something new and exciting.
There was a couple times I felt like something might be happening but then it would stop. I tried several positions also. I'm pretty determined at times so I spent 45min to make it work. We'll see how my next session goes. Anyone who has any ideas I'm open for them.
Thanks

Thanks for your replies. The support always helps to show we are not alone. I will plan to take my time and explore. I guess I was pulled in to all the hype with 1st time success stories. I had experimented with my fingers but nothing else up my anus. I guess I could look at it as something good for my prostrate while I'm learning. 🙂

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TurtleTownMan,
You are most certainly NOT alone in this. Sounds a lot like my first experience. You can read about it here in my thread: http://www.malegspot.com/displaythread.php?forumid=ebefab4971aa38c0f07f7e1f4cd7944c&id=758

There are a few bits of advise in here that may be helpful, and I'm going to keep a record of what I find works and helps everytime I use it to try and help others. Hopfully it helps you!