Earlier in the year I had been experiencing some wild rides using my MGX and the Doc Johnson Moody 2 butt plugs of various sizes. I'd lube up, insert and with in minutes I'd begin to experience pleasant sensations starting to build. It would lead to continuous anal orgasms and then exhaustion. This went on all through April and May. I had to stop in early June because I was becoming addicted. I couldn't go to bed at night unless I had something up my ass.
I stopped in June but I continued wearing my chastity cage on a 24/7 basis so I wouldn't get off by stroking. After reading some of the hot posts on this sight, I felt the yearning to ride again. Last night, I had relaxing shower, lubed up and inserted my trusty MGX and waited for the party to begin. After trying the things that used to start things rolling, little or nothing happened.
Worn out from trying to make things happen, I am fell asleep with the MGX inserted. I woke up after midnight and had to pee. Walked to the bathroom with it buried in my ass - nothing. Took it out, got my largest Moody2, lubed it and my hole, and inserted it. Walked around with it inserted and got a few nice sensations. Got back in bed ant started my usual build up routine. Nothing. I kept trying and again fell asleep. Woke up around 5AM. With Mr. Moody buried to the hilt, I walked around opening blinds in various rooms hoping that, that would start thigs rolling again. It didn't.
It seems as though suddenly stopping all anal / prostate play undid all of rewiring that I had done. It used to be so easy to build to anal orgasms. Now, I'm struggling to get any feeling. Has anyone else had this happen to them? Any suggestions as to to get it back would be helpful.
I had to stop in early June because I was becoming addicted. I couldn't go to bed at night unless I had something up my ass.
Yes, this can be a problem as I noted in the Introductory Message to New Members thread. I think @Clenchy has some insightful thoughts about this being a psychological issue.
After trying the things that used to start things rolling, little or nothing happened.
Worn out from trying to make things happen,
... I kept trying and again fell asleep.
Sounds like you are "...trying..." too hard.
It seems as though suddenly stopping all anal / prostate play undid all of rewiring that I had done.
I doubt you've lost the ability, it may be that you have overcompensated by programming your self to avoid these orgasms from your concern about the addiction.
Has anyone else had this happen to them? Any suggestions as to to get it back would be helpful.
There have been reports of men going through periods of lackluster performance. Sometimes these can be related to physical conditions such as injuries or sickness but more frequently it occurs as a result of psychological issues such as increased stress at home or work, emotional trauma, changing living conditions, any of a myriad of upsetting conditions knocking us out of a peaceful, harmonious existence. I don't have a solid solution for your situation other than to suggest you go back to the basics of relaxing, having no expectations and enjoying being grateful for those sensations you do have. I suspect you are just going through a psychological lull as you adjust your mental outlook to a more integrated, balanced approach to your sexuality.
Good Vibes to You!
There can be some use it or lose to the journey,many guys have reported a few steps back after a period of abstinence. Get back to work and employ some discipline,pick days of the week to session and stick to them. Stop trying to make things happen and You’ll be fine.