Girlfrien intimidated? Try this

Well, I've been posting a lot here today because I've been stuck on the computer working on a project that requires lots of rendering/loading/buffering, (this forum has been a nice way to kill time today). So I'll take a quick stab at this.

My goal, that I've been improving on, is to never have a situation where I feel rejected for sex, or asking for it, or wondering if my wife's in the mood, etc. So, first, I feel that the aneros gives me enough pleasure (sleeping with it, and feeling lots of morning pleasure) that I have no feeling of a need for intercourse. If you cut out the need for intercourse, what's left is my desire to simply take care of my wife sexually. The past two mornings, I've learned how to caress all of her skin, give light massages here and there, pass my hand carefully over her pelvic areas, until she's relaxed and wanting more. I slowly creep in more and more pelvic touches until she's wet. Then I go for the kill! (the orgasm!). If needed, I penetrate her to give her what she craves, or as a way to connect on another level. If she never gets to that point of wanting more, doesn't matter! There's no rejection or awkwardness at all, and she really enjoys the nice touching.

So, that's just one technique. I'll be discovering more techniques to bring sex about naturally in time.

What has been invaluable are the things I've learned about myself through aneros use. I am able to apply these things to better understand female sexuality. Now I know how to touch her where and when based her vocalizations and visual cues; still learning of course.