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04/08/2019 6:17 pm
Dear Community,
recently I complained about my lack of success ( https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/10-years-no-prostate-orgasm-i-am-frustrated )
You were very caring and first of all, I want to thank you. Your support and kindness has germed - I bought the "Helix Trident" and had about 6 sessions in the last month. As you might enjoy to hear about me progressing due to this forum and to support other newbies, who feel stuck, I will briefly describe what happened in the last weeks.
- I handled the Aneros-Sessions as if I had never done it before.
- I did abstained from ejaculation for at least 4 days and had streaks of ~10 days
- I listened to binaural sex sounds (there are some interesting things on youtube, I listened to "Dreamgasm" from SomniSonica [does anyone have the fifth part?])
- I worked out my PC-muscles [absolutely new approach! Never done this before] everyday and overwatched this with an app
- I ignored my penis all the time
Now in the last 10 years, I was stuck with these milestones:
- Involuntary Aneros movements
- Pleasure at the nipples
- No bad feeling when inserting or moving the toy inside me
- mental arousal
Now the important stuff; where I have never been before until now:
- slight (!) tingling or vibrating sensation in my stomach
- very slight P-Waves in my stomach, sometimes spreading in my chest, even though they dissappear in split second
I never had this feeling of "yes, there´s definetly something going on inside my upper body, I can feel some pleasant waves" and I view it as a big breakthrough.
Now I try to relax and keep on breathing as relaxed as possible while holding gentle contractions. Sometimes I incorporate nipple play. I can sometimes feel my stomach buzzing lightly and the one or the other tingling sensation runs through my belly. It feels meditative and relaxing, but of course I would lie if I told you that I didn´t want more 😉
Soooo... is there something that has helped you when you reached this level back then?
Once again, I am very thankful for all your guidance upon this hill I´m standing on today. The greedy voice in the back of my head whispers "this is not even close to enough, its just a little tingling sensation here and there, keep on being frustrated" - but the reasonable me knows that a) I have achieved more than ever and b) I owe you gratefulness and respect for your help.
Keep on being so awesome, community, you rock 🙂
04/09/2019 2:43 pm
Hello @GorestFump , congrats on making further progress. Having gone back and read your earlier post I can relate to what you are saying. I have found for me that the "do nothing" process is what works the best as doing contractions seems to wield no pleasurable sensations, but yes it can get boring just laying there. I usually ended up falling asleep because I had no sense of what was going on internally and unable to 'feel' anything happening.
I also know that greed all too well, wanting more and can find it to take over if not careful. I have to keep working on that one all the time.
I happened to stumble upon a process that gave me the feed back I needed. I was on the couch one night sitting kind of like side saddle where my legs were tucked up in front of me and I was joined with Helix leaning on the left hand rail ignoring the tv doing deep breathing hoping to feel something. I had an itch on my butt cheek and when I scratched it my pants moved, thus moving the 't'bar of the helix causing a sensation I had never felt before inside. This got me wondering. I know I shouldn't move this manually as there could be potential to hurt myself if I get to wild but what if I was to gently scratch my pants in a rhythmic fashion to my breathing, which I did and this allowed the vibrations to shoot straight to my prostate, those vibrations felt awesome. After some time of doing this the pleasurable sensations grew and I got my first prostate based orgasm that only lasted a second but there it was.
Later on I would place my finger ever so slightly on the 't'bar when in bed on my side. While doing nothing but breathing I could 'feel with my finger' the helix move in/out ever so slightly (before this I never knew how much our body's expand/contract while in a resting state just from breathing) but it gave me something to imagine. I was than able to 'see' the head of the helix gliding along the surface of the prostate. On one instance I started to get some tingling and my imagination took over, I could see the helix moving in/out rubbing my prostate but there was a sparking happening at the junction point like arcing flashes from dragging a welding rod on steel. That was the beginning to another prostate orgasm.
Something else that I find works for me is any time I'm joined with a pleasure tool weather I feel any sensations at all I reinforce it with thinking to myself, "Yes this feels good", "Yes make love to me", "Yes I surrender to the pleasure given to me". I do this because I know that even if "I" don't feel anything my body and subconscious is interpreting the stimulus, and by placing a positive to the experience the mind will than perceive the use of the pleasure tools as pleasurable whenever joined together.
Most of all have fun.
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