Frequency and Duration of Edging/Surfing Sessions?

Had a wonderful 30 minute edging session this morning. For the final 5 minutes or so I experienced some waves of pleasure similar to the ones I have with an Aneros, gently stroking the multiple ridged band. I felt in control, mostly, and stayed right on the edge of ejaculation. I am going to work on this. I also found that soon afterwards I began to get prostate horny, how fantastic if one thing provokes the other. Alternating edging and Aneros sessions is something I’ve never tried.
@SOwithoutAneros Looking forward to reading your blog!

@Harper, I too had a wonderful 45 minute edging session this morning. I experienced continuous involuntaries all the time from the beginning. And every tenth twitching another drop of precum appeared on the tip of my glans. Again my member was hard and flaccid in turns, but my arousal kept very high. Although surfing quite close to the edge and oozing precum like never before, I felt in much better control than last time. For the final 15 minutes I now and then stopped with gently stroking the multiple ridged band for half a minute or so but leaving my thumb and finger in position, starting some extreme prostate horniness with a dumb feeling in a wide area around my gland. When I was squirming and writhing and a big tear dropped from my right eye I became aware that my prostate had fully taken over and just used involuntaries to massage itself and to thrust my member between my fingers for a little extra stimulation. Only my homecoming significant other let me stop and call it a session. Otherwise I would have continued - don't know how long - but at least another half an hour.

Looking forward to reading your further experiences too!

@SOwithoutAneros @gnawdol Thank you for the tip about multiple ridge band orgasm, I will try this on my husband. Just like gnawdol says he won’t do it himself but I’m happy to please him (and I get so turned on by edging him).

Lovingwife ....... as you said the happiest gift a spouse can give his / her partner is intimate pleasure. I gave up tugging myself to climax a while ago, although I have been known to self spew in particularly erotic situations. If I have the time and I am seeking slow savored sexual ecstasy, having my lady tenderly cherish my penis and transform it to a rigid cock is my best path to euphoria. The transformative process itself is as much pleasure as the sweet relief of ejaculation. I prefer all my manual ejaculations to be done by a person I care about. The act makes the sex infinitely more pleasurable. I don't think of it as edging, I think of it as enjoying the build up and sharing the pleasure. I do the same thing in our partnered aneros sessions.

@SOwithoutAneros Thank you for your educating us men to the practices of foreskin ridged bands manipulation. Your sharing this info has changed most of how I view an edging session. Truly, an uncut foreskin is a delight for an aging male or any male.

When we were younger, it was all about pursuing our wives as raging libidos propelled us to intimacy with her and our potency was a given. With aging problems for both the man and the woman, we men learn to concentrate on the finer aspects of pleasuring our penises as we search for some way to remain sexual.

Bro, ridged bands manipulation and foreskin play are excellent avenues to staying sexual.

@Lovingwife, you're welcome. Please don't miss to try the other technique I mentioned, only gently as possible grabbing your husband's frenulum with your thumb, forefinger and middlefinger and holding it, perhaps ever so softly massaging it for some seconds, then again only holding it. Myself you would watch getting hard in less than 90 seconds. How about leading him around and perhaps into the direction of your bed by holding him like that? :p It might help you to treat him right if you regard, that some people name this little part of his most sensitive foreskin the male clit. 😉 Good vibes to you both, eager to read about your experiences.

@Turnrow, thank you so much for your praise. I am quite overwhelmed by this discovery myself and agree with you completely. I'm so glad to share this and can only recommend to spread the word.

What surprised me most was, how silly the urge for a hard on or an ejaculation now appears to me. Who needs blue pills to get an erection, if he can have such blissful feelings even when fully flaccid or get hard in seconds by only touching his frenulum. Who wants to ejaculate in one short orgasm after some minutes of stressful masturbations, if he can have any number of dry orgasms and endless ecstasy for hours. Sigh! Life is wonderful. Even world peace seems possible, seems, we only need to stop circumcision. 🙂

I am delighted with the progress I have made so far. Previously I have only flirted with edging and ended up either running out of patience or losing control. But I have “knuckled down”:D and treated it like a training exercise most days. It’s paying dividends already I think. Last night I decided to end my latest run of SR of about 14 days. I was able to enjoy a most delicious 45 minutes of self love, no rushing, slow relaxed breathing and plenty lube. I tried out many of the techniques described in earlier posts, the ridged band is most pleasurable.
This morning I was surprised to find that I awoke feeling just as horny as I did last night, I had expected to experience my usual downtime. My eyes fell upon the lube etc from the previous evening and I was badly tempted to indulge myself again. I decided to resist and give my equipment time to cool down and recover. Leaking as I write, horned to the max! What’s going on!
Good times to all!

So, I have been persevering with this and I can’t believe how crazy it gets. After about fifteen minutes of stimulation I start to experience the kind of blissfull feelings that accompany an Aneros session. To be honest I don’t know for sure where the feelings originate, it feels like prostate pleasure but at the same time penile, but not like a TO. As long as I play gently I can float in the sensations, but knowing that I am not on the point of ejaculation. Somehow I have learned to keep the ejaculation at bay, but a seemingly endless supply of pre cum trickles out, I don’t know where it all comes from. The time just seems to fly by and I am surprised to find that sometimes 30-45-50 minutes have passed and I have to stop to attend to other things otherwise I don’t know how long I could manage to last. This is obviously another gift from Aneros use, there is no way in a million years I could have performed like this pre Aneros, I think I have learned to control something inside me and even in my mindset. What will I discover next I ask myself! My Aneros sessions are high in intensity at the moment too. Presently at day 12 of SR.
Rock on!

@Harper Wonderful stuff you are reporting. I am somewhat in your sphere of pleasure, but it is so good to see another man report his experiences and pleasure. You say your edging sessions have the blissful feeling of an Aneros session. Do you have total body pleasure in your edging sessions and would you say that you have had super Os while edging.

I have to some extent rewired or at least somewhat awakened my prostate with nipple play coupled with making love to my penis very relaxedly and meditatively. I am renewing my quest to make time for the aneros and the rewiring of my prostate as you guys know it. From all MMO methods that I see online, the aneros route seems to give the greatest bang for the buck pleasure wise since continued use of the aneros leads for most men to a super O that men describe as life changing. I seldom see guys who learn MMOs by edging and kegels say the things Aneros guys report in pleasure in trying to describe the super O.

To the guys on this website with experience, how would you compare aneros produced orgasms to other MMO methods and the pleasure produced by edging with kegels??

@Harper Please keep us posted on your pleasure while edging being as descriptive as you can on what is going on pleasure wise in your penis, prostate and entire body. I would like to follow your path to greater pleasure in penis play.

Thanks for posting your experiences.

Excellent thread and posts! Someone may have already referenced this or similar videos. It has become one of my favorites. This is an intense edging session. At the 10 minute mark the subject gets near the PONR and successfully rides it for almost a minute! It is truly amazing!!

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph57363412cfab2

@Turnrow In answer to your question. No, I am nowhere near experiencing a Super O while edging. It is very subtle, almost as if my penis were melting, with some P waves and intermittent anal contractions. But it is not a whole body experience as with an Aneros, it is all centred around my entire pelvic region. I find that concentrating on not tensing my abdomen and gentle breathing seems to help stave off the ejaculation. All I can say is, do try to find the time to get some Aneros sessions in. I am sure you will find, as I have, that edging and Aneros compliment each other very nicely. Likewise, please post with any developments or discoveries that you might make.

@OntheJourney, thanks for the link, "dr. c" is indeed one of the best. :p The only thing I'm still missing is a slow motion or bullet time session treating a re-wired Anerosian. This morning I stayed in bed and had some awesome edging fun, only holding my member with two fingers and doing nothing else at all. First to initiate some arousal I had positioned my left forefinger right above my member's root and lay the ball of my right hand on my solar plexus, with forefinger and middlefinger above and below my left nipple. Soon I felt arousal building up in my abdomen and briefly closing my fingers to touch my nipple already provoked some strong involuntaries. When I finally was rock hard and thrusting forward my pulsating member, I decided to sit up and do some slo mo edging. I pushed down my boxers and held my member between forefinger and middlefinger of my right hand. My forefinger rested at the height of my multiple ridged band and my middlefinger I put short below my frenulum. Then I did nothing else. My gland took over and sent out one orgasm after the other throughout my body. From time to time a drop of precum appeared on my glans and some more involuntaries along with more orgasms shook my body. Often I felt really close to cumming but the only fluid I produced remained to be precum. After a while my feelings calmed down but soon built up again and, adding some little nipple stim, finally grew up to at least three very satisfying superOs. What a morning, oh yeaaaahhhh! 😎

This post happened to be #42!
There must be some wisdom in it.;)

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I am delighted with the progress I have made so far. Previously I have only flirted with edging and ended up either running out of patience or losing control. But I have “knuckled down”:D and treated it like a training exercise most days. It’s paying dividends already I think. Last night I decided to end my latest run of SR of about 14 days. I was able to enjoy a most delicious 45 minutes of self love, no rushing, slow relaxed breathing and plenty lube. I tried out many of the techniques described in earlier posts, the ridged band is most pleasurable.
This morning I was surprised to find that I awoke feeling just as horny as I did last night, I had expected to experience my usual downtime. My eyes fell upon the lube etc from the previous evening and I was badly tempted to indulge myself again. I decided to resist and give my equipment time to cool down and recover. Leaking as I write, horned to the max! What’s going on!
Good times to all!

I have gotten quite good at separating orgasm from ejaculation and can enjoy many orgasms from stroking but would have to say that these orgasms are quite different from those I get from an aneros. The orgasm from stroking is much more like a traditional orgasm but is much more full body rather than centered on my dick.
I know the wisdom is to leave your cock alone during an aneros session but I find that some very light and careful stroking when using an aneros can bring an orgasm on very quickly, but again this is more like a traditional orgasm
I have not been able to produce an orgasm from kegels although I have had success with the KSMO techniques combined with feather light touches

Thhn. Would you say the full body orgasms you have playing with your dick Are what you would classify as super Os for you?

I am intrigued by your report and the reports of other men on this thread as to how delightful and different and blissful dick play and edging has become after aneros prostate rewiring.

You men seem to have discovered yet another frontier of heavenly masculine penis pleasure.

@Turnrow, to me it seems as if rewiring hasn't only awakened my prostate but has given me a lot of extra sensitivity - bodywide - from head to toes - from palate to frenulum*, providing a maximum of sensuality. Life is so wonderful.
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I have gotten quite good at separating orgasm from ejaculation and can enjoy many orgasms from stroking but would have to say that these orgasms are quite different from those I get from an aneros. The orgasm from stroking is much more like a traditional orgasm but is much more full body rather than centered on my dick.
I know the wisdom is to leave your cock alone during an aneros session but I find that some very light and careful stroking when using an aneros can bring an orgasm on very quickly, but again this is more like a traditional orgasm
I have not been able to produce an orgasm from kegels although I have had success with the KSMO techniques combined with feather light touches

Turnrow: I would not classify orgams I get from stroking my dick to be a super O. They are very intense, but not super O category. I think some of the difference is that when stroking I am in control. When I have a super O I don't have the control

This morning I awoke to find myself feeling incredibly horny with some gentle Aless, compliments of my previous evenings entertainment with my Helix Syn. I basked in the wonderful glow for a while but could not resist or ignore, my by now, persistent erection. I told myself I was not going to ejaculate as I want to try and continue my current run of 19 days of SR and enjoy for as long as possible just being on a bit of a sexual high. A 30 minute edge ensued, I was minded to try the method described by SOwithoutAneros. This involves merely touching the frenulum with one finger. Gently, I placed my left index finger on my frenulum and left it there. After the initial touch I did not even feel any contact, but I remained as still as I could be and concentrated on the spot. Slowly, slowly, I was aware of some pleasant sensations, although I kept my finger still my pulsing member began to add to the stimulation. At this point some nipple involvement seemed appropriate, with my right hand I began to ever so gently just skim my hand over upper torso, every now and again brushing over my nips. I have even discovered while gently stroking my neck and under my jawbone that it is incredibly sensitive, something I have never been aware of. Eventually I could remain still no longer, I suppose it is a primitive urge and I began to thrust upwards, my prostate was working away squeezing out a steady trickle of pre cum. I was getting dangerously close to ejaculating so I had to stop, Time was up and I didn’t have time for a second round, but I was elated and high on lust. Who would have thought only one finger could take you over like that, the caressing did help of course. So thanks to SOwithoutAneros for providing us with this, it’s certainly worth a try.

I am bumping this thread back into activity because of its value in solo play to older men whose wives have shut down sexually or who have health problems (like mine) which make sexual intercourse difficult.

@SOwithoutAneros has been describing his solo play for the benefit of us guys as described above and in a thread now active labeled "PENIS." This is a great thread with 72 posts that demand the attention of all guys seeing as how much we guys love our dicks. I told my wife just this morning that the key to a mans heart is for the wife to love the husbands dick as much as he does. I intend to tell here that as men, if we could do oral on our dicks, many of us would never leave the house. I throw no stones at my sweetie. She is simply not in good health and I have adored her since I married her almost 47 years ago.

Age impacts sexuality greatly. But we as men never lose the fascination with the pleasure our dicks can give us---now especially with the rewiring.

@Turnrow Lol you are right about that... the capability to self- oral would make me late to work every day!

My wife and I are in the exact same boat. Sex hurts her and I don't want her to hurt... so it's a new world of discovery - Aneros being a great find!

Vaginismus is the pits for a menopausal and post menopausal woman. But the rewiring of the prostate is the answer for that post menopausal woman's husband. So sorry @HereByAccident that you and I are in the same boat, but I think a great percentage of aged marriages are like yours and mine. So while we are in the same boat, we will make the most of the rewiring as men.

@Turnrow agreed - rewiring seems to be the best answer for me.

I can't fix her. I don't want her to hurt. Therefore, I change me... you learn to live in a whole new way. With communication we are reinventing our sex life. And we can live with that!

This is a really great post,I have a question though,what is blue balls?..

@Tommygunn, the expression "blue balls" is often used to describe an ache in our testicles, especially when caused by a longer period of semen retention (SR), making them feeling "heavy" or "overloaded", as if there was a need to "clean the pipes" as some guys call it. There are more kinds of body fluids that may be involved and that could be mentioned, but I only wanted to give you an idea very briefly. Cheers, Mart

[USER="51258"][/USER] thanks mart,they don’t sound very nice 😉

Hi guys, I have read this thread with great interest for the last couple days or so. But now tonight here in DC, we are feeling the full brunt of the Arctic Vortex which has put anything Aneros and sexual into a deep freeze for the next several days. 🙁

I leave you with this: http://www.can-fap.net/preview/fundr...fremgasm.shtml

I'll add to say that Glen Callender's masturbation techniques using his frenulum can be adapted to my Baby Boomer circumcised penis. I do have a vestige of my frenulum left with which I can explore in an erotic manner. Also I do enjoy stimulating with light touches the rim or corona of my Glans. I must say that despite the excessive blustery cold outdoors right now, I am horny and randy just thinking about all this! 😉

@BigGlansDC I do not envy you that weather one bit if it is anything like I watched on the news tonight. Dear me!
Can you not just whack up the heating and luxuriate in the cosy warmth of your abode and indulge yourself? 😀

@Harper, the Arctic Vortex is not as harsh here in Washington, DC where I live as it is in the upper Mid West. The radiators are working in my apartment but they cannot offset this uncommonly harsh and blustery cold. My Aneros sessions have taught me to enjoy more fully my masturbation sessions, especially I have achieved semen retention (SR). Long, casual masturbation sessions with lots of edging produce me tons of pleasure and large, creamy cum loads. I think Glen Callender is one hot guy and an inspiration. 😉

@BigGlansDC Yes indeed. I have tried his techniques and found them exquisitely joyous!
Stay warm!