Frenulum bar

Today I was about to give in to my temptation of starting my first piercing to my frenulum will the 12 gauge three-quarter inch frenulum bar. There was a part of me that believes this will enhance the sexual experience of not only my life but my partner butt it was at my age 40 years old a way of telling the world to f*** off that I am still playing the game. That today I am engaging in my sexuality and pleasure for my benefit and for someone else. Then after a few minutes of sitting there waiting after 2 days I finally feeling piano Sensations in my aneros sessions that I would believe I feel pain and burning before they even prick me with a pin. I got scared that this would change the New Revelations I have finally received after two years of trying on my past to super orgasm and knowing I was also going to engage in water sports kayaking canoeing over the next two weeks that I did not want to cause an infection that I did not get the piercing. Is there anyone else who got frenulum piercing that can tell me all the their experience especially with aneros. I just do not want to take away from this a new level of wakening