For Prostate Healing: HELP!

Hi Guys,

I'll admit that I'm feeling disappointed that my Helix hasn't been a turn-on for me... I've been using it for a while, and I suppose I haven't shown enough patience. Still, I've pretty much given up on that aspect of Aneros for me.

However, I *know* that Aneros was designed to stimulate the prostate... I've got BPH-- waking up several times at night to urinate, unsteady stream of urine, etc-- and I would like to improve that situation (Yes, I've seen my doctor, done blood tests, digital exam, etc, and it seems benign. And yes, I take saw palmetto and pygeum and fish oils already)

So-- if you start with the assumption that I want to use my Helix to massage/milk my prostate, whether or not I ever achieve any orgasms, what do I need to make sure I'm doing to maximize the health effects? How will I *know* whether I'm doing anything useful or not? Other words of wisdom, advice?

Thanks, all--