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02/07/2015 10:38 pm
(Note: I am 6' 2" never explored my rear until today, my first use I was awake for about 45 minutes and i slept like 3 hrs with it in.)
Ok, so i got the helix syn in the mail today, I tried it out and I'm not sure it is reaching where it should, so i am wondering if i need a bigger one.
Do you just "know" when it hits your prostate? Because I didn't really feel much when I used it. I used 3 different positions: the one that the instructions state, on my back with knees bent, and on my stomach with my butt in the air. I started out with an erection, because i was excited to use it. after a while it subsided. Then after a while of doing nothing I started contracting, I'm not completely sure I am doing the contractions right, but I do kegals every now and then, so I basically tried to do kegals with the device in. Again don't know if that is the right way to "contract" but that is how i did it. I managed to get an erection again when I started contracting. After a while i just fell asleep because I pulled an all nighter last night and it was like 1 pm. OH also i think I did get one small "wave of pleasure" but that was it. It just sent some chills through me, like when I listen to a very powerful song.
02/08/2015 12:45 am
Hello @Bigfoot12345 Welcome to the forums.You probably won't feel anything at first. That little "wave" you felt sounds like a good start though. That mysterious wave or general good feeling will get stronger and stronger. Then you'll start feeling your prostate. When that happens, the fun really starts. Just don't rush it. Relax and enjoy the ride 🙂
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02/08/2015 1:22 am
@Wandering_Smoke Thanks for the welcome ^^ and ill definatly keep trying, I read some of CrimsonWolfs tips and will apply them in my next session.
02/08/2015 1:42 am
Ahh, you guys!!! 🙂
Just let it all go, man - I don't pretend to know what soooo many other guys here have gleaned over years of experience.
I will not offer tips, nor techniques, to anyone - what I might offer is a different way of thinking. To whit, one may assimilate the following:
Truth #1: Arousal, and therefore sex, starts in the brain.
Truth #2: Free your mind, your ass will follow. (This is a VERY old saying, and has to do with freedom.)
I think I was able to get there so quickly because I was able to let go of my expectations and ATTACHMENTS, and also, I committed myself to being absolutley passive - a phantom observer in my own body. (Edited to add: I had to remind myself of that commitment before every session...it didn't take very long after that.)
I will not reassure you, and tell you that you will "get there," but I will tell you that I sincerely hope you enjoy your next session, that it helps you relax your body and mind. Expect no more than this from yourself, and you may be VERY pleasantly surprised at what happens.
Happy Motoring
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