First Time-gctid7590

There are many telltale signs you are on the right path. The peeing feeling is one of them. Others are pulsing, throbbing, itching, or tingling feelings on your prostate. Pre-cum is also a good sign, but if you don't get any, that does not mean you are necessarily doing anything wrong.

As MMO notes, the "urge-to-pee" feeling is a sign that you are getting good contact between the toy and your prostate, most probably you are stimulating the upper prostate and your bladder neck. As your sensitivity to prostate pleasure grows, those pleasures will slowly dominate and mask the feelings you are receiving now.

Please relax and enjoy all the sensations you feel. Mentally focus on those and they will slowly grow with each new session. Avoid "trying to achieve." Rather, it's best to relax and allow the feelings to come to you. Let them wash across your being! Remember to gently belly breathe.

manfriend101,

Welcome to the Aneros Forums.

"I have read a lot about the P orgasm and I am trying to achieve it." That's great that you have begun the process of learning just what your body is capable of achieving. If you haven't already done so, please take the time to do further reading here on the Forum but especially in the Aneros WIKI. Many of your questions will be answered there.
"I'm wondering what will tell me I am on the right track." Your bodily sensations are your best guides for determining the optimal path for you. Each man has a unique response pattern to anal/prostate stimulation. Listen to your body's sensual language, follow the paths which lead to pleasure. This is an adventure into uncharted territory, let your wonderment/curiosity drive your experimentation with different techniques to find the keys to unlocking all your orgasmic potential.
"Some say it is a feeling of having to pee. Is that what I am looking for?" The sense of urinary urgency (with an empty bladder) is a frequently reported sensation, this would indicate your massager is making good contact with your prostate. Since you are unique your signs/sensations will not be the same as other men's. While there will, undoubtedly, be similarities, please do not make the mistake of "looking for" (i.e. expecting) certain sensations to occur. "Looking for" something which may never occur may cause you to overlook/dismiss some of the many subtle, pleasurable sensations which lead/build to the Super-O.
"What are the signs I am headed the right direction?" Reading the list of Milestones in the WIKI (please read the opening paragraph a couple of times) may help you notice those sensations which characterize your unique journey. This list, while not exhaustive, does cover the majority of sensations reported from men as they transition through their rewiring journey.
You would do well to heed veteran @rook 's wise advice "Avoid "trying to achieve." Rather, it's best to relax and allow the feelings to come to you. Let them wash across your being!"
Good Vibes to You !