First time felt weird

@Leeoku, slow down. Step one, let the body just get used to the aneros. That may take a month or so. Then it may take a lot more time for the prostate to notice the Aneros. A lot will then depend on how the prostate chooses to respond. It has taken some members months to get to step two. Model size may be a factor.

I guess it has felt more pleasurable as the number of sessions went on. Just concerned if Im doing it right or not. I can feel some spazzes just without pleasure. Maybe not turned on enough.. The helix syn is a good fit i think, slips rite in

isvara is right .... just relax
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Just let your body give you the pleasure it wants to give you. If you try and make it give you pleasure, it will never work. I found that out over the first few months with my helix. Just put that baby in, lay back and relax. Let your body guide you and just take notice of every little sensation down there. Over time, (weeks, months?) that pleasure will increase. Forget about mini-o's, super-o's, and all that. They will find you when your body is ready. Until then, enjoy the ride for what it is.
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100% Agree with karvek1959!!!

It will come to you...just relax, and listen to your body for signs of pleasure! They may be strong or faint...be patient!

TG

Im about a month in and it is hard to tell if i hit it or not. It seems the older you are the easier it is, from what i read. I tried leaving it in and doing house work and even mowed the lawn once in order to get used to it. The only time I felt anything was sitting up on a hard surface. (Is it possible to put too much pressure on it? It wasnt painful). I had some pleasure for about 2 minutes then nothing for the next hour. I cant tell if thats what im suppose to feel or not. It wasnt earth shattering but my surroundings kinda grayed. I try not to rush it but at the sametime if its not doing anygood why do it? How often should i do it. I read about three times a week, but what if i do it once a week for a month? Is that not often enough.

Sorry maybe this isnt the right place to post but i have read and read and it gets confusing after a while.

@twocan7 --- If you can manage it, every other day for an hour or longer would be better. Awakening your prostate and your awareness of it and how it responds to stimulus is important to help you reach orgasm.

TG

thank u all for ur advice, will keep trying