first time failure

Originally Posted By: notyetthere
hi everybody. i just tried the aneros for the first time and i got nothing. i just know i did something wrong. all these people can't be wrong. i think i started contractions too early. i was so anxious to have an orgasm, i thought maybe if i sped up i'd get there. does it matter if i don't wait the whole 20 minutes? please help. i'm tryna get like everyone else..... satisfied!

if this is your first time to anal play i suggest you do wait the whole 20 minutes. for me the key was to relax as much as possible... i think you being "anxious" really probably limited what you could accomplish during your first session. take a look at B Mayfield's posts... they have all been really helpful. good luck!

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