First thoughts with a helix

Freeow.

Now that was an amazing session! Was getting far too hot, so had to stop. And yes the "is this a super-o?" question kept appearing in my brain. I just ignored it and rode it out. Lots of "involuntary's" there, but to be honest, I think some of them were kinda voluntary in a subliminal kinda way.

It felt amazing and the apres cigarette is in spacey headed, shakey hands mode. Which I'd tend to call apres orgasm. Oh yes, lots of fun can be had with this thing! A bit more practise and that shakey "ohhhh yes" feeling is just gonna get longer and hopefully easier!

Darn it. Now should read the posts and try and guide others!

Hi all I have tryed this for the fist time and have not got to the big o yet but I know that it will take time. I see that some that have posted say that lots of lubericant helps I will have to try it and see. This is the first time that I have posted and would love some response back .. will of I go and try again...

Originally Posted By: odlid
Hello!

Not sure if I can add much, but here's another angle...

The thought of anal / prostrate orgasm got me to finally shell out the cash and get a helix. Which I've now just barely started to use. I thought that having a bum that was used to having things stuck up it would make this aneros thing a breeze.

Here's where I have some sympathy with the sceptics. Unless you're incredibly lucky, that super-o is going to take some time. On the other hand, the aneros is looking like (eventually) it will be a totally unique way of getting there.

A big factor I've drawn from other threads is the mindset. It's tempting to just shove it up there and see if you can get to super-o wowness. From previous anal erm... fun... I know this ain't true. The best time to try this will be when you're already feeling horny as hell. The brain already wants to get you there.

Other times (like my first few), are practice sessions. Ok, so I'm not that turned on but I do get some amazing feelings, and am learning how to "clench" and hold for different effects. One night. When the wood and brain are ready, those techniques will pay off.

Even without the super-o though, all that muscle control is already paying off. The morning wood fairy chanced to pass by this morning, and with just some subtle clenches (without the aneros), it got harder and harder and harder! Some new muscle moves have definitly been learned!

Which is partly why I think this will take a little while. I think part of what I'm doing when playing with the aneros is training up my muscles. Gradually increasing the strength of various muscle groups down there while getting used to the sensations. Until those muscle groups are trained and learnt, I don't think it's going to get me all the way.

So a summary? The aneros is only going to suit people who want to make the effort to get a different kind of O. Only the super lucky will get there on the first few attempts. Those that try though will fast learn some new tricks down below. Kind of like an addiction. That time was different, next time might be better. I'm not going to shoot the aneros people down in flames. I'm sure this weird shaped chunk of plastic is well adapted for it's purpose. But I'm not there yet. I'm going to keep practising and wait for that extra turned on night. You know... the night you think opening a webcam on yahoo to some flakey lady who might get obsessed with you for letting her see you jerk off seems like a good idea? Well don't! Use all that pent up frustration to see if the aneros will get you there solo instead. I'm fairly convinced that's all I'm missing. That extra mind set, the red haze of lust. With all the posts on method and lube on here, you might start to think it's all about the method. Well it ain't. I'm sure the brain has to be willing as well.

In a few weeks, hopefully I'll post a "yay I got there!" message... Meantime, good luck to the tryers!

O.

I agree that PC-muscle training is very important. not only wil it strengthen the muslce, but I think more important is that you can control the muscles inside better. I have trained my PC muscle for 2 years know (read it elsewere) and i can "roll" my contraction inside from back to forth in my body (it feels like that) and can contract my muscle halfway and than continue with small "hits". it feels very pleasureable and although the big O still has to come, this play is VERY arousing.
so the lesson is : practise the muscle whenever you can! And you can do it all day at all places (in the car, during meetings, in the train, waiting at the supermarket, it will become an automatism), a pleasant and enjoying activity, i can assure you.
paolo