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10/22/2009 12:59 pm
about me: 20 y/o, 5'10, 146 lbs, straight. New to the idea of anal play, recently have had some very pleasurable experiences with just my finger so I thought I could get this to work for me.
I just got a helix the other day, and am going to write up my first experience just for the heck of it and see if anyone can give me useful feedback. I've already done a lot of reading so I don't know if it just takes time or what.
My procedure (easier to write it in list format)
1. Used an enema hours beforehand
2. Took a shower
3. Stretched and did push ups and sit ups
4. Listened to relaxing music
5. Covered Helix in KY lube, and put some inside me. New to this but it felt like I had enough.
6. Helix slid in just fine. P-tab was not uncomfortable at all.
7. I started relaxing like the instructions say and in the recommended position. I thought if I didn't know why I was relaxing to begin with, I could forget that the Helix was inside me. That was surprising. Relaxed for twenty something minutes with little movements and contractions here and there.
8. Started doing the manual contractions like the instructions say, which yielded relatively minor sensations. Pleasure and interesting but nothing to get that excited over.
9. After awhile I started slowly moving to other positions, some of which were better but not markedly so. Relaxed a bit for new positions and then did more contractions.
10. After 45 minutes to an hour I got restless and started moving around with it to see what that was like. Did some sit ups and stuff like that.
11. Started jerking off in a good position. I didn't want to cum so I was just edging for a good while. Masturbation did seem more pleasurable with it in, but perhaps not to the extent that I have seen people describe.
12. Called it quits.
All of this was late last night. I had ejaculated early that morning beforehand, so I don't know if that factors in to anything as I remember reading something about a regeneration time.
When doing the contractions I wasn't sure if it was bumping in to my prostate. It would bump in to something, , which I guess would have to be the prostate, but it wasn't that pleasurable so I was just unsure. I have read it takes a good amount of practice and development for some people to really yield results, not sure if that has more to do with developing the PC and anal muscles or whatever else is entailed in "rewiring". I wouldn't say my pc muscles are weak weak, but then again I don't know what constitutes as strength for those types of muscles.
10/22/2009 2:22 pm
Other than the "masturbation at the end" part that is exactly what I have been experiencing for the last couple of weeks.
All everybody tells me on here is to relax and don't have too many expectations.
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10/22/2009 2:38 pm
Other than the "masturbation at the end" part that is exactly what I have been experiencing for the last couple of weeks.
All everybody tells me on here is to relax and don't have too many expectations.
Usually when you invest money in something, it is at the very least healthy to expect the investment will prove worthwhile. Not that I'm saying it wont for us, but still.
10/22/2009 4:03 pm
I agree. I intend to keep trying to relax like everyone says to do and to stay with it. I have a post "Question from New User..." Check out the responses to this.
I feel your frustration. Keep at it and keep us informed with your progress.
10/23/2009 1:27 am
8. Started doing the manual contractions like the instructions say, which yielded relatively minor sensations. Pleasure and interesting but nothing to get that excited over.
All of this was late last night. I had ejaculated early that morning beforehand, so I don't know if that factors in to anything as I remember reading something about a regeneration time.
My question to you is do you think you're supposed to get excited all at once with overwhelming pleasure? If so, you're definitely going about it the wrong way. What most new users are failing to realize is these tiny slight relatively minor sensations are just the beginning. However, the common error is dismissing them as "nothing to get excited over." Immediately once you start thinking this then the rest of your session is going to be pretty much a dud session because you have shut your mind off when that thought came into mind (Yes, what did I say? MIND TRICKS). Trust me if you're feeling even slight pleasure you are making plenty of progress. Believe it or not it takes some almost a year just to feel that slight pleasure and interesting feeling you experienced. So consider yourself one of the lucky ones!
There's a reason why I have this in my signature line for each post but I'm going to make a point and reiterate it. "To Be Upset Over What You Don't Have Is To Waste What You Do Have." What this means is enjoy any slight sensation or pleasure you get as it is definitely something. The trick is not to let your mind play tricks on you and dismiss it as nothing. Then the next part of the journey is learning to let this sensation come and then fade away not chasing it to come back (forcing things).
From your description of changing positions, doing sit ups, etc... you're definitely trying way to hard to achieve a goal. You must have a completely different mindset when going about your aneros sessions. It's critical that you don't focus on golden treasure of having a super-O or mind blowing pleasure because it just won't happen if you are in that mindset. Instead, just enjoy any pleasure you get and enjoy it. Let it come and let it go. Just don't force anything to happen and you'll start noticing these slight sensations turn into bigger sensations.
Good Luck!
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