finding the magic spot

Read B. Mayfields post Keys to Backdoor condensed. His advice on how to find the best place for the tab to make contact with your perineum (the are between your scrotum and anus)is solid.

have read that and it is good. but how hard to you have to press to feel this tingling sensation? do you press straight down towards your anus or "inwards" toward your stomach?

I used anal contractions at about 50% to find the right spot for me. I usually keep a towel with me during my session also. This helps me keep my perineum dry and the tab in place. It is not uncommon for me to adjust the tab 2-3 times per 1 hour session. I use 3-4ml of ID glide in the rectum with KY jelly used to lube up the aneros. Naturally when you insert the aneros some of this lube will get on your perineum. This is why I keep the towel handy. My spot lies just off midline to the right. You just need to make small adjustments with the rotation of the aneros to find your spot. It should not be to far from midline. If need be try stronger contractions while you move the tab this will give you the most feedback. Pay close attention to the tab location and the sensation you feel on your perineum and penis. I should also tell you that I only have to adjust my Helix I do not encounter any minor rotation with my MGX and Maximus. This being said the Helix is still my favorite model because of the increased moblility of the unit. Hope this helps.

with respect to ALL of the feelings that I have experienced (been trying for about 9 months), will I definitely know when i have hit the spot? i have no problems getting involuntaries. i have also been to the "edge" as most people have described it, and simply have never been able to get over it to the super o.

i dont have any problems with horizontal movement. i use small wrap of tolet paper to keep the tab in position. i too like the feelings of the helix better than the mgx. however, the helix tab doesnt put as much pressure on my spot (wherever it is) as the mgx. seems that a combo form of the helix body with the mgx tab would work great.

just getting frustrated with trying lost of things only to end up no where, adjusting the tab position up and down and left and right and starting all over again. thats why i wish there was some absolute way to know the tab was hitting the right spot. that way, i could eliminate that as one of the reasons i dont get the big o.

Originally Posted By: aaron14684
with respect to ALL of the feelings that I have experienced (been trying for about 9 months), will I definitely know when i have hit the spot? i have no problems getting involuntaries. i have also been to the "edge" as most people have described it, and simply have never been able to get over it to the super o.

i dont have any problems with horizontal movement. i use small wrap of tolet paper to keep the tab in position. i too like the feelings of the helix better than the mgx. however, the helix tab doesnt put as much pressure on my spot (wherever it is) as the mgx. seems that a combo form of the helix body with the mgx tab would work great.

just getting frustrated with trying lost of things only to end up no where, adjusting the tab position up and down and left and right and starting all over again. thats why i wish there was some absolute way to know the tab was hitting the right spot. that way, i could eliminate that as one of the reasons i dont get the big o.

I know it can be frustrating at this point all I can say is keep up your sessions because it sounds like you are very close. Do not view each session as starting all over again and just enjoy the journey. I think the reason I stayed so motivated to use the aneros was the enhanced sexual experience I had with my wife. At that time 18 months ago I had never experienced any anal stimulation at all. Now I can not get enough of it.