Finally! After almost 12 years...!!

Hey @slipperybugger , congratulations on your achievement!  Finally after 12 years??  It's amazing you didnt give up like some others have!  This is a testament of your tenacity.

4 years and a few months for me and I'm willing to continue on as pleasures are great even without having joined the grand level yet.

Good vibes to you.

Gringo

Hooray! Good for you with your perseverance. Keep fishing, it only gets better.

Thanks, guys!  I know I'm not out of the woods, yet.  We'll see what the next several sessions hold.  These things are what they are.

Ggringo!  You sound like you're in a better mental spot than I was at the 4+ year mark. I think that was in the midst of my 'bitterness/angst' period. Lol  

slippery

Let us know your progress moving forward.

Posted by: @slipperybugger

 

Ggringo!  You sound like you're in a better mental spot than I was at the 4+ year mark. I think that was in the midst of my 'bitterness/angst' period. Lol  

slippery

@slipperybugger , early on, after reading countless entries from frustrated members, I  took a good look at my situation and realized that before I ever started my journey, the extent of my sexual pleasure was a few masturbating sessions once or twice a month (if I could muster it) as my libido was in the tank; hardly no sex drive.  I'm in a what we would consider, a sexless marital situation and on top of it all I had ED.

Today, 4+ years later, my sex drive is way up, I get to enjoy edging almost every day, no more ED and I get to fill the void of my no-sex situation!  My outlook on life has turned for the better, I enjoy my surroundings,  people and especially nature!  All this to say that what I have today, even with no Super-OS, I did not have before so I'm way ahead of my game.

My only complaint is that I'm sorry to not have discovered the secret to male prostate pleasures at a much earlier age than I did.  Now, at 65 young, I do look forward to a pleasurable future and this for the rest of my days!  I sometimes imagine myself, down the road, old and decrepit, perhaps in a wheelchair but yet still enjoying Aless sessions (at least daily).  Short of joining the SO elite club (which I'm in no hurry to do so), life dosen't get any better than this.

Life is wonderful indeed.

(Anybody else having trouble replying to this thread?  I tried to post an update of my progress, but get a "Reply request error" message when I click the Add Reply button.  Am I doing something wrong?)

slippery

...I think it's racially profiling my Emojis; if I remove them, it seems to work...

 the extent of my sexual pleasure was a few masturbating sessions once or twice a month (if I could muster it) as my libido was in the tank; hardly no sex drive.  I'm in a what we would consider, a sexless marital situation and on top of it all I had ED.

Ggringo - Are you my twin?!  The similarity is uncanny.

As promised, here is an update.  It's three sessions later and a new milestone was reached.  (I think I awoke Rip Van Winkle and he's turned out to be more beast than I bargained for ? )  The session started out pleasant, but the sensations started to diminish before they could build.  Wondering if this might be sensory overload, I removed the Helix and waited for about five minutes before reinserting.  The sensations were stronger and easily built to a gentle orgasm with clenching that extended into my abs, lifting my shoulders while I trembled in the pleasure.  After a few minutes rest, I started my stimulation routine and discovered another orgasm that took me to a plateau of pleasure that was not as intense, but lasted much longer.  I believe it was the 'calm seas orgasm' I've heard others describe -- like floating on a pool of peace in a state of mild orgasmic pleasure.  Time was immaterial; my guess is it probably lasted about a minute.  Again, I took a brief rest before I attempted my third orgasm, which turned out to be the strongest and easiest to achieve.  No strong clenching as with my first, but a deeper draw of pleasure from within that washed over me.  

I was left feeling relaxed and a bit tired, but sated.  Since then, my prostate has been announcing itself and declaring more interest.  I must admit, part of that could be due to not having ejaculated for nearly a month; those signals for release may be intertwined with the signals coming out of my prostate.  I know I'll have to ejaculate eventually; this might sound weird but I'm not really looking forward to it.  Granted, it provides a hard and fast orgasm that is more powerful than what I've experienced so far from the Helix, but my refractory period is disappointingly prolonged -- and I hate that!  At this point, I'm concerned that a period of post-ejaculatory 'blahs' will interfere with the pleasure I'm finally finding with my Helix.  What a quandary to be in....LOL!

slipperybugger

Posted by: @slipperybugger

... I was left feeling relaxed and a bit tired, but sated.  Since then, my prostate has been announcing itself and declaring more interest.  I must admit, part of that could be due to not having ejaculated for nearly a month; those signals for release may be intertwined with the signals coming out of my prostate.  I know I'll have to ejaculate eventually; this might sound weird but I'm not really looking forward to it.  Granted, it provides a hard and fast orgasm that is more powerful than what I've experienced so far from the Helix, but my refractory period is disappointingly prolonged -- and I hate that!  At this point, I'm concerned that a period of post-ejaculatory 'blahs' will interfere with the pleasure I'm finally finding with my Helix.  What a quandary to be in....LOL!

Actually, you don't "...have to ejaculate...", have you considered practicing Prostate Milking as an alternative to full ejaculations ? This technique can provide some of the relief of an ejaculation without triggering you into a full refractory period and the psychological lows associated therewith.

For those of you interested in more information regarding prostate milking here are some links to articles/websites I've run across over the years which I found helpful in my learning
1.) Prostate Milking
2.) Self Prostate Milking for Health and Pleasure!
The male chastity community has developed a more focused interest in milking techniques/variations due to their limitation of traditional ejaculatory orgasms the following links are from such sites.
3.) Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It)
4.) Different Male Milking Techniques for More Control
5.) A Lazy Domme's Guide - Prostate Milking
It seems every year there are more new articles extolling the merits of prostate milking so I guess the tide of social taboos against this activity is slowly changing.

Good Vibes to You!

Thanks, rumel, for the information and the links.  It's been years since we last communicated. I'm glad you are still lending your guidance.

Yes, I've tethered myself to the stanchion several times to collect the daddy's milk.  My favorite tool was the Realdoe - flexible and large enough that it was always comfortable. I didn't have your will power to stop with a bit of milking, though.  Even after the semen emission died down, it felt so GOOD to continue. Next thing I'd know, I'd be playing with my penis which would segue into a brain-exploding orgasm -- and leave me trembling and feeling wiped out.  For that reason, I only engaged in milking when my wife was out of town.  Unfortunately, the toy got discarded when I was cleaning stuff out of the house with the missus around and I forgot to retrieve it before the garbage collectors came.  A major loss.

I'm finding if I keep my mind busy working on house projects, the congested sensation in my testicles and seminal glands dissipates and becomes tolerable.  For now, I think I'll wait to ejaculate and if I have several 'dud' sessions in a row, I'll use the milking as a consolation prize.

Thanks for reminding me of the pleasures from the technique.  I'm sure it will prove valuable!

slipperybugger

Never too late - am glad that you persevered and discovered the pleasure to be had! It only gets better once you have experienced the intense feelings to be enjoyed! I also discovered prostate pleasure late in life — at a young 74 can’t get enough!

Does anyone else see a correlation between your Aneros sessions and this video of ships in horrible storms?  Check out the waves starting at 0:20 through 1:20.  Makes me prostate tingle...!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZSM5ZbdpWw

Posted by: @slipperybugger

Does anyone else see a correlation between your Aneros sessions and this video of ships in horrible storms?  Check out the waves starting at 0:20 through 1:20.  Makes me prostate tingle...!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZSM5ZbdpWw

Strangely enough, all the creaking and groaning of the structures add up to some kind of ASMR effect. You might like this one  : Waves crashing and exploding

Congratulations on your well deserved success, your perseverance is truly impressive ! Do you think there was a turning point that made it happen, or things just *clicked* on that day ? 

Slippery is that you?  I have posts of you and I interacting going back until at least 2009!  Congratulations on your recent progress - you have no idea what it means to have someone you "know" from 12 years ago report something new (for a kick, search for the post titled "telling your wife").  

I have been continuing Aneros sessions all this time - I have gotten enhanced pleasure through usage but have never achieved what I would call a break through in all this time.

I will have to give further updates - I'm going to have to give this some thought.  

J4

OMG!  J4!!!!  I think about you frequently and wonder how you are doing!  You were the first member to encourage me back when I began!  Last time you reported in, you were having orgasms, but were confused about ejaculating from them. Sound familiar?  Remember how you, Skywalker and I talked ourselves into trying Jack Johnson's KSMO as a trio?

Man, do we have a lot to catch up on!!!!

To answer Zentai and you...I have no idea why the breakthrough occurred.  Embarrassingly, I was planning on posting how, after twelve years, I figured out how to get benefit from my Helix -- by putting it in the back of a drawer and getting on with my life.  Instead, I kept to my usual sporadic usage and recently, when I inserted it, it suddenly felt 'different' right from the start.  I noticed subtle sensations that I either missed previously or somehow they appeared from the darkness all on their own.  The pleasure kept slowly building until muscles began involuntarily clenching and a sense of pleasure washed over me.  I was left shaking my head and saying, "Well, I'll be damned...!"

Fast forward since that initial post and now the sensations are freaking awesome!  I haven't returned to strong orgasm land, but each session brings new pleasures that I relish.  Today, I was left tingling all over and had too much nervous energy; I had to work outside to wear it off.

One foreplay technique I found (and can't get enough of) is using the handle to lightly and slowly touch and stroke by butt crack and perineum.  It's a good way to get the sensations started and is an indicator of how my session will go; if I want to hurry through this foreplay, that means I'm not mentally ready to receive what the Helix can provide.

Zentai - thanks for the video. Yes, those huge slow waves remind me of the pleasure I feel during a session.  In fact, I envisioned those storm waves during my breakthrough session -- the waves not only rising and falling with my pleasure, but extending out to the horizon ready to approach and continue to add to my bliss.

Thanks all for the words of congratulations and encouragement. I've repented my skepticism and am a convert.

slipperybugger

This is so good to hear. Congratulations!

I've been away from the forum for some time, and have not had a lot of great sensations from my prostate in the past few years (I've been riding helix and progasm, and a vibrating massager, and the odd dildo for 5-6 years). At 52 years of age, I have some concern that my prostate is becoming defective or something. It causes me significant worry. Perhaps this 'worry' pushes the p-waves (that I've achieved somewhat regularly before) away.

Through my evolution on anal play, I've just realized that I really really like it. I like it more than any women I've been with seem to appreciate. So I'm in the process of coming out to myself as pansexual. And through this I've found a trans Domme who has agreed to 'train' me. Although we've not yet met in person yet, I'm determined to find the pleasure in my prostate again, and have been riding nearly daily - I know that taking breaks from ejaculating and playing is part of the route to prostate awakening - but I feel like a crazy person (especially with the pandemic, being home alone without obligations) the way that I just continue to ride things!!

Anyway, your post gives me hope, and I so happy for your breakthrough. I will continue to maintain a positive mindset as I journey back to my prostate pleasure.

Cheers!

@Ggringo

"...........Today, 4+ years later, my sex drive is way up, I get to enjoy edging almost every day, no more ED and I get to fill the void of my no-sex situation!  My outlook on life has turned for the better, I enjoy my surroundings,  people and especially nature!  All this to say that what I have today, even with no Super-OS, I did not have before so I'm way ahead of my game.

My only complaint is that I'm sorry to not have discovered the secret to male prostate pleasures at a much earlier age than I did.  Now, at 65 young, I do look forward to a pleasurable future and this for the rest of my days!  I sometimes imagine myself, down the road, old and decrepit, perhaps in a wheelchair but yet still enjoying Aless sessions (at least daily).  Short of joining the SO elite club (which I'm in no hurry to do so), life dosen't get any better than this........."

@slipperybugger   "......Ggringo - Are you my twin?!  The similarity is uncanny. ......."

Really 'uncanny' !   Triplets ?

65, same nearly sexless with wife, started my Aneros adventure 4.5 years ago, same ED cure, and libdo increase (like in my 20's), pleasure status same as both of you, wonderful pleasure in session and aless (like now as I type this)-chairgasm).

Even if the pleasure never gets better than this, I want it every day!

to quote @Ggringo : "Life is wonderful indeed."

This is one different kind of brotherhood here. Please take that in the best way possible, I mean it sincerely. So many differences, but so many similarities. One person here has a major breakthrough and everyone else is cheering from the bleachers. These most peculiar sensations are so amazing to those who have experienced them, that we celebrate from the rooftops(or the closet, you know what I mean) when someone else gets there, too. 

I am a guy so disappointed with a sexless marriage I don't know what to do. We were conservative and didn't have sex before we married, and family came immediately. I had some crazy idea it would get better with time and patience, but it is not. It was literally 5 years before she could touch me, 8 before she could even kiss my neck. The last kid took one time... followed by another night of rejection. That was over 2 years ago. I can't get to her. She doesn't care if she has an orgasm. She doesn't want to be touched. It just doesn't register. Her sex talk growing up was it is bad and we don't do it. Of course this was hidden before we married. Even at The lowest dose, the anti anxiety meds kill any natural drive she ever had. Divorce is not an option, I will not do that to the family. 

This crazy aneros thing would be do much better together but that sure isn't going to happen anytime soon. This forum is the only place that understands!  

All the best to you and your endeavors. 

@regal13 , I'm sorry to hear about your situation and disappointment. Yes, this is a special brotherhood but unfortunately, none of us can enlighten you on a proper course of action; only you can pick the direction for your destiny. Every action usually generates a reaction; what would you gain or lose by dong this or that?

In my case, my soul search made me focus on the good parts of my 40+ years relationship vs. my sex shortfall and opted to accept my fate with no regrets. Like I mentioned elsewhere, Aneros and prostate play helps compensate but again that's me.

Good luck and good vibes to you!

Posted by: @p38

@Ggringo

"...........Today, 4+ years later, my sex drive is way up, I get to enjoy edging almost every day, no more ED and I get to fill the void of my no-sex situation!  My outlook on life has turned for the better, I enjoy my surroundings,  people and especially nature!  All this to say that what I have today, even with no Super-OS, I did not have before so I'm way ahead of my game.

 

My only complaint is that I'm sorry to not have discovered the secret to male prostate pleasures at a much earlier age than I did.  Now, at 65 young, I do look forward to a pleasurable future and this for the rest of my days!  I sometimes imagine myself, down the road, old and decrepit, perhaps in a wheelchair but yet still enjoying Aless sessions (at least daily).  Short of joining the SO elite club (which I'm in no hurry to do so), life dosen't get any better than this........."

 

@slipperybugger   "......Ggringo - Are you my twin?!  The similarity is uncanny. ......."

 

Really 'uncanny' !   Triplets ?

65, same nearly sexless with wife, started my Aneros adventure 4.5 years ago, same ED cure, and libdo increase (like in my 20's), pleasure status same as both of you, wonderful pleasure in session and aless (like now as I type this)-chairgasm).

Even if the pleasure never gets better than this, I want it every day!

to quote @Ggringo : "Life is wonderful indeed."

Hey my triplet brothers @p38 and @slipperybugger , every day I appreciate the discovery of prostate play and now look forward to enjoying my old days with a permanent smile. When we think about it, only a very small percentage of human males know about our hidden pleasures; so sad.  Wish we could change that.

Good vibes to all