[...] trying harder to get more results, even though trying hard isn't what kicked the feeling off to begin with.
Absolutely, trying 10 times harder will not give 10 times better results. This could look like oversimplification, but a better O will just not appear from doing something better, there is just a limit on how aroused or relaxed we can be...
That reaction is in me, my body is capable of that, but it hasn't happened in years. It's weird.
That's also true for the Super-O in general, the mechanism is inside us, why can't we trigger it at will, that's the big question. The mechanism for the big invols is also there, yet it's dormant most of the times...
link between Super-Os and a certain form of trance state. It's possible that in this particular state, external movement will just not happen,
You speak of the next place 🙂 Ok,wife said when I’m on my back with feet in the air (similar to a womens in missionary position),my thighs shuddered and my feet soles kicked forwards and back a little. The rest of me wasn’t doing much.
That's also true for the Super-O in general, the mechanism is inside us, why can't we trigger it at will, that's the big question. The mechanism for the big invols is also there, yet it's dormant most of the times...
Maybe it runs on a recharge battery. That we we can’t just do it constantly all day,all week,all year,or our CNS would just get over run and it would damage us. Perhaps we can only take so many at a time.
The way I see it is Males and females both handle orgasms different. Some are quiet with Orgasm's and some are very vocal. Like any Super O we respond different and how quickly we achieve also differs. I think the videos are believable and unless proven to be over acted like females fake orgasm i will say its real.
When I first started using I had a couple of sessions where I flopped around like a fish but looking back I reckom those were exaggerated by me.
That's another possibility, where things are not 100% involuntary, but we don't really know how to react to some sensations and that translates into sending them outwards into motion, instead of inwards...
From doing erotic hypno too, I understand the link between Super-Os and a certain form of trance state. It's possible that in this particular state, external movement will just not happen, just like during REM sleep where you are close to paralyzed ?
It seems like it.... I can not move when in this state unless I absolutely try and snap myself out of the trance which requires alot of will power (I'm not really religious but alot of people say that when then encounter sleep paralysis the way they get out of it is too pray... so that's how I use to get out of trance if I need too.. sort of a safe word).
I think the moving around is as you said from people not knowing what to do with the pleasure and how to move it around your body or where to focus it. It took awhile but for advanced users they definitely can move the pleasure around too different parts of the body and control it.
I strongly suggest anyone looking to go further to get into erotic hypnosis... it really is the exact same feelings as the aneros and really helps with aless and aneros session.. its the exact same buzzing / pulsating / pleasure feelings. It was a game change for me... and it's actually very relaxing.... I like using it as an afternoon meditation for an hour.
You speak of the next place 🙂
Yeah, maybe I do !
Ok,wife said when I’m on my back with feet in the air (similar to a womens in missionary position),my thighs shuddered and my feet soles kicked forwards and back a little. The rest of me wasn’t doing much.
So you're "doggy dreaming" ? Interesting, hehe.
I think the moving around is as you said from people not knowing what to do with the pleasure and how to move it around your body or where to focus it. It took awhile but for advanced users they definitely can move the pleasure around too different parts of the body and control it.
I think this does make sense, but it's still important to mention that not having control here is not necessarily a bad thing. It's very hard, at least for me, to know where I am in the journey/adventure, or if there's even progression still taking place. I learn new things, forget old ones and rediscover them later, sometimes there's a lot of movement, sometimes there is not. Sometime the movement is parasitic and takes away form the pleasure, other times it adds to it. I do have preference for calmer sessions now, and I really don't know if it's a natural change or a phase for me...
I strongly suggest anyone looking to go further to get into erotic hypnosis...
Getting at least familiar with erotic hypno is well worth it, and it's an incredible tool when learning to let go and accept new feelings. Lots of things you learn during hypnosis sessions can be transferred and repurposed for Aneros sessions. That's how I started on the HFO/HFWO adventure and there's a ton material available today. It can really be a game changer.
Its not dissimilar to when she cums with her legs up in the air. I mean,it’s the orgasmic contractions coming up from the pelvic floor. I don’t mean an actually paddle. My feets push forward and back,similar to a vibrating hammer contraction guys use to break up concrete etc.
Hey everyone. I’m relatively new to all this about maybe a month and half in and I’m happy I came across this thread...so I definitely would say I can relate to those guys in the videos and I do not think they are faking or exaggerating because that is exactly what I experience. It starts as a tremble and shake in my pelvis and abs and builds and builds until I feel like I can’t take anymore. Next thing I know (sort of because I’m not fully Conscious at these times) I’m convulsing and shaking and writing all over. Hips thrusting legs shaking arms and wrists flapping and head bobbing all over and it feels amazing. Usually I’m moaning not anything crazy about a couple times e drooled and once I actually shrieked so loud it caught my attention and actually pulled me out of it and ruined what was an amazing orgasm at that point. I’ve even filmed myself to see if what I am doing is what it feels like and it looks like those videos for sure. I would never post them online but that’s a different debate
it is interesting though because when I first started my journey and looked up prostate orgasms these kind of videos came up and I just thought was like the ultimate level to attain. So I’m curious to think if I’d have a different response if I never came across them and my genuine convulsions are a subconscious response to my first visualizations and “imprints” of what a super o is
After being on these forums and hearing people talk about more trance like calm orgasms where they float away. Those sounds even better to me. Not because I don’t have great pleasure with my shaking orgasms but because they are extremely tiring. I’m am usually gasping for air, sweating profusely and also have to make sure I’m alone in the house. Also I convulse so hard I’ve sometimes felt some soreness in my neck or back after. One time I remember convulsing so hard I felt my neck crack in like three places and I thought for a second I was jig to be paralyzed. Anyway I’ve tried my last couple of sessions to “focus” my energy and not let the convulsions occur and be more calm and trance like and I haven’t felt much success. I’ve still had some pleasure with the initial build up but then it’s like I put the emergency brake on and I can’t seem to get through to the other side without giving in to the convulsions. I wonder if I will ever get to the calm seas area or if I’m just wired to be more physical in my response
Thanks a lot for contributing with your experience !
[...] so I definitely would say I can relate to those guys in the videos and I do not think they are faking or exaggerating because that is exactly what I experience.
That's cool ! Also I think it's important to normalize the idea that the Super-O will manifest differently for different men, and that whatever you get is right and perfectly good.
So I’m curious to think if I’d have a different response if I never came across them and my genuine convulsions are a subconscious response to my first visualizations and “imprints” of what a super o is
Hmm could be, I never really thought about this but it's possible you internalized some bits as being a "real Super-O" and your subconscious ran with this, but it's also quite possible you would have the exact same reaction if you had never seen a video. Guess we'll never know.
After being on these forums and hearing people talk about more trance like calm orgasms where they float away. Those sounds even better to me. Not because I don’t have great pleasure with my shaking orgasms but because they are extremely tiring.
That's very true, and I wrote something similar in the other thread, I do not exactly feel refreshed and energized afterward, more drained and tense. Then it's hard to go to sleep, etc. So I don't reallt think the more "violent" Os are superior and like you, I'd like more calms seas if I could choose.
I wonder if I will ever get to the calm seas area or if I’m just wired to be more physical in my response
I'm sure you will, but you're probably more wired to have the rougher ones and maybe they will continue to happen more frequently than the calm ones. Or maybe you'll go trough a transition and get more calm ones after a while, or you'll find a way to steer things so you're more likely to get the one you want. To me that's one of the very mysterious part of the whole Aneros adventure.
If you were to ask me back in 2008 when I first started using Aneros... I would say 100% fake.
Now I'm about 80% sure it is real.
My journey has been rocky to say the least. Though I will say, in the last month or two, I have experienced a major breakthrough. I don't know exactly how it happened, but suddenly, I was able to access the abilities of my body on a new level. A good part of it has been involuntary movement.
Most of my movement comes from my core. And after using a Peridise for a few minutes (and watching some porn), I'm able to get it to where I get contractions from my core. I could ignore them and they will go away. If I focus on them they ted to stick around. It doesn't give much pleasure in the traditional sense, but if I do decide to zone in as they are happening, I could see why the feeling would be desirable.
It doesn't get me to flap around like a fish (such as in those videos), but I can imagine for someone experienced in zoning in, the deeper you go the more intense it gets. I'd also assume, the more intense it gets the more you go into Super O territory. That could maybe send someone into a lot of heavy thrusting and movements.
Now... Those who start yelling and flopping around seconds after they put the Aneros in, or those who flop around so hard it is like they are being tossed out of the bed, are the ones harder to believe.
After being on these forums and hearing people talk about more trance like calm orgasms where they float away. Those sounds even better to me. Not because I don’t have great pleasure with my shaking orgasms but because they are extremely tiring.
I can understand this....
When my core starts contractions, it makes me want to sit up. That not only puts a bit of strain on my back, but it makes it so I want to hold my breath for the few seconds it occurs. That alone gets tiring after a few spasms in a minute or two.
I've also experienced with the movement that I want to raise my body upward. Seeing as though I do sessions on my back with legs bent, it ends up straining my neck. I've used a small pillow to help, but it seems to almost restrict my free movement.
I found for me that the violent shaking was just a phase I grew out of. I still have the hip thrusts, which start as soon as I insert. I find it to be useful to increase the enjoyment through my groin regine, I can't let it go to crazy as it turns into a distraction, and makes it hard to concentrate on the sensations. I can still however let my body take it to the full body convultions but serves no purpose.
i once thrashed and shook so hard on my side my neck twisted and cracked. I thought I broke it lol. But yes it does take a toll on the body but in the moment I don’t care because I’m in another galaxy but the calm seas does seem easier
Maybe Aneros needs to sell a neck brace..? lol
I think that might be a part that is holding me back... I'm almost afraid to completely give in and lose control. I live with a family member who is always around, and they obviously don't know of my Aneros use. I can't wake people up with heavy thrusting and moaning.
If I did though... Maybe I would easily hit the Super O.