Energy vs. "Horniness"

Lincoln:

Perhaps we're wired this way for species survival. You seem to have taken the best course: If you can't fight or flee, then flow. 😉

Well, yah, i get similar feelings. Have always avoided ejaculation. Somtimes i give in. If you can do, its worth it. Abstain that is. What i do is practice yoga and meditate a bit, that usually takes the largest part of it away. If you can get past the feeling, life has a little more glow to it. Much more mental energy, its just a little more difficult to stay focused, but that is just a matter of practice. Plus, you get these orgasmic waves, just thinking about a session gives spine tingling results. Avoid looking at porn too, its a super trigger for me.

The spot where the tab is supposed to rest is a well known centre, chakra even. If you sit in full lotus or really any sort of seated position where there is some pressure on that spot, you can get the same experience as the aneros, without the aneros. Esp more sensitive after aneros session without ejaculation. I sit in full lotus with a rolled up towel putting slight (more pressure is not necessarily better) pressure on that area. Been playing with this for a while now. Again, worth the effort.

I know men who follow Mantak Chia like to push the energy up. But I am pretty sure that if a man is with a woman with an active heart chakra, that if the man gives his energy to the woman by ejaculating inside her, she can then bring the energy up to her heart chakra and ejaculate it back into the man, returning his energy.